A few years ago, my business failed. Not only did I owe a lot of debt, but my life was in a mess. At that time, I didnât dare to face anyone, including my family. I donât want to see the disappointment in their eyes, and I donât want to work as they say for the rest of my life and live a stable life.
Before I started my business, I told my family about my idea. I thought I could get their support, but what I got in return was opposition. I wanted to work hard and live a stable life. Anyway, all kinds of lack of support made me lose confidence.
After my business failed, my family and relatives even pointed fingers, said some sarcastic words, and compared me with others. Because I was in debt, many of my friends gradually distanced themselves from me. Many of them were afraid that I would borrow money from them.
Because I have to work and pay off debts, my life is in a mess and I never have more than one hundred yuan in my pocket. For this reason, many relatives and friends talk about me behind my back, saying that I am not motivated and think about this and that all day long, which is not good. A young man can't even get a hundred yuan out of his job.
At that time, I really had no hope for life. I thought about many ways, either to be a salted fish and wait until death; or to slowly work hard and start all over again.
I chose the latter. Although I am still paying off debts, I feel that I am constantly growing. Now, no matter what others say or think, I don't care. I know that only by continuous efforts can I win back all face.
In fact, life is about constantly moving forward with a heavy load. Life is your own, so why should you care about other peopleâs eyes, and donât live like what others say
