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Fall and winter come and the seasons rotate, everyone cannot escape the law of time.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are human nature. In fact, a person's life is very short, and everyone plays their own story. Looking back, we are always wandering between choices, losing those things that should be important, but also getting more things worth remembering, and gaining and losing are intertwined with fate.
Aging makes us terrified, the work we love is gone, a lot of people around are gone, there are a lot of troubles at home, plus there is a wish that has not been realized, but we are already old.
Life is irreversible, and what you can do is really limited. Even if you are full of regrets, you still have to go forward. No matter what kind of living method you used when you were young, you still have a choice when you are old.
Chen Haixian said in the book " The Great Me", entering the old age, no matter whether the life is smooth or not, and the happiness and pain we have experienced, we can accept it as a unique experience. Your life is complete and unique.
How do we live gracefully when we are old? Don't really wait until the 70-year-old why does he live? Sometimes people understand the true meaning of life earlier, and then they will get over it for the better.
And the smart people who are alive understand the following four questions deeply, and it is precisely because they understand these four questions that they will get over the better in their old age.
1. Let go of obsessions, it will make sense
a person, no matter what stage,They are all natural processes of life, no matter what kind of road you have walked in the past, what kind of scenery you have experienced, as people get older, their meaning becomes more and more evident. Looking back on life, you can always find your own meaning, just accept it.
However, we are always bound by the past, trapped in the quagmire and unable to extricate ourselves; we are also afraid of memories, because memories always make us doubt ourselves.
There is a passage in " Anne of Green Gables": One day, I will get old too. Time conceals my enthusiasm, eats up my innocence, and takes back my childishness, but It cannot erase my happiness. My wish is: "Be a happy girl now, be a happy aunt in middle age, be a happy old woman in old age-in short, have a happy life."
Unfortunately, most of the time, we are not even as good as Annie. If the obsession is too deep, you will not be able to discover the hidden beauty, and you will lose a lot of happiness, and a lot of troubles; if you don't remember, you will be content with the status quo and unwilling to toss.
For those who don’t need to face aging, don’t be afraid to grow up, and don’t be afraid to change. Every step we take will make sense.
For those who are aging, there is no terrible nothing in life. Your life is unique and unique.
Only if you let go of your obsessions and find meaning from this uniqueness, you won't feel that life is too short and it is over before it starts.
2. Don't give up hobbies, learn old
Many things you can do when you are young, you can’t do things when you are old, and the same things you can do when you are old, young It is not always possible to do it.
Some people think that the life of the elderly is very sad,I gossiping about buying food and cooking every day, and there is no relatives around, and I dare not call my children in other places for fear of disturbing them. Such elderly people actually have no hobbies of their own, and if they do, they will not be so idle.
People who have no hobbies, in addition to dealing with the trivial matters in life, other times are like "mixing the days", mixing one day and one day less.
If you can do other meaningful things, even if it is a wish you made when you were young, your spiritual level will become richer, at least you will feel less regretful.
When people are old, they still have a perseverance and don't give up the pursuit of life. The best way is to learn. This is a life worth doing.
Learning not only makes life more fulfilling, but also connects with the outside world and makes like-minded friends.
"It’s not terrible to step into old age, but old age can be magnificent."
Everything is changing. If people remain the same, even if you are young The heart is already old. Always full of curiosity about this world, to learn and explore, will have constant vitality. When a person is old, he can still create a new world. If he refuses to accept the old, he will remain young in spirit.
3. Peace of mind and good health
We always say "Life is really hard, we need to have fun in hardship", in fact, there is no need to set such a basis for life prematurely , After all, the environment turns at will.
Someone once said this: Human life is a kind of mentality, a good mentality, everything is good.
There is a saying in " Little Prince ": All adults were children at the beginning,But few adults remember this.
After we grow up, although we have become more mature, we have also become more complicated. We have forgotten the innocence and happiness of our childhood. No wonder the little prince feels that adults are doing what they think is right, but Not happy.
Especially in old age, with the physical aging, the mental state will definitely change, which directly leads to emotional ups and downs, which affects all aspects of the body.
When people reach old age, they have experienced many ups and downs, and good health means unlimited possibilities. At this time, if you put your mentality in a right way, don't be surprised, don't be tired of fame and fortune, and regain the simple happiness of childhood, your mentality will naturally calm down.
The more serious you live, the more beautiful life will return to you. When the mentality is good, the body will not be bad, so that the old age will be very happy.
4. How to live to death, how to live
Haruki Murakami said: "Eternal death is not the opposite of life" ".
We will all die one day. When a person reaches the age of sixty, he has to face the fear of death. You have to take courage to face it, the key is to understand the true meaning of "death". Unknown death knows life, death only tells us how to live better, and the meaning of life lies in this.
Just imagine, since all people die, there is no reason not to fight or try.
So, how do you want to spend this life? Do you indulge in pleasure, materiality, fame and fortune, or actively plan, put into action, and strive to realize your own life?
Just because we are truly aware of death,Only then will I cherish the present, not wanting to waste time and doing nothing, but constantly breaking through myself to create infinite possibilities. Life is only a few decades, and the best effort will not be in vain.
Maybe so, we don't have to lament that the time is too short, and regret that we missed the most beautiful time.
"Before the curtain of life, please go all out" said: "There is only one life, we can only live irreplaceable if we live without turning back."
Yes People are afraid of getting old. Some people can’t imagine how they look when they are old, some are already planning their ideal old age life, and some are thinking about how to take the road of life to have less regrets.
No matter you are eighty or eighteen, you must live clearly. Only by knowing what you want can you understand and live transparently. Don’t wait until you’re seventy. Memorizing how to spend a lifetime is considered worthy.
The clearer, the more sober people can control life. Although everyone has a death, not everyone has really lived.
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