Today is from Wu Wei's perspective. I missed Gu Yuan, which is the brother's perspective in the previous story. Click here: My mother is the best-behaved junior in Taiyuan. After 20 years, I finally dare to say who is Retribution Max
Then follow my words and look at today’s story together.
01
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In 2012, when I met Gu Yuan in the fitness center, my jaw almost fell off.
Gu Yuan and I have not seen each other for many years.
I can't believe it, the big fat on the elliptical machine in front of me is him.
I recognized it for a long time. When he came down, he dared to say, Hi, are you... Gu Yuan?
He nodded,Say, you are...
Wu Wei, we were at the same table in junior high school.
Gu Yuan looked at me in confusion and said, "Are you quite fat before?"
That's right, it seems he remembers me.
At that time, I was really fat, fat to low self-esteem. As for him, he is a handsome and handsome boy who is well-known in the school.
Unexpectedly, we have not seen each other for many years, and our weights have changed.
I had a crush on him back then.
02
One is handsome,The second is rich.
The teacher assigned us both to be at the same table, and my heart was full of little tension.
I have a phobia of handsome guys.
So I haven't spoken to Gu Yuan for a week.
But Gu Yuan has a seemingly non-existent scent that always provokes me.
Especially after switching to the window, a small breeze came in. It was faint, with a sweet and fruity fragrance. It smelled really good.
That is definitely not toilet water, or the fragrance of any skin care products.
One day in a self-study class, I couldn't help but quietly ask him, what is on your body, it smells so good.
He was stunned, and shook the string of wooden beads on my wrist, and said, this is it, agarwood.
I just said, where to buy it, how much it costs, I also buy one.
I don’t know anything about it, but looking at the ragged thing, it’s worth five or eight yuan, no more.
As a result, Gu Yuan said, my dad gave it to me. I will help you to ask if there are any more. It seems to be more than 8,000.
This exaggerated figure scared me to slip under the table.
I hurriedly said, no more, no more. Just smell yours.
03
I still know myself.
know this kind of boy,You can only watch from a distance, and don't play with it.
Two months later, the teacher changed seats again, and Gu Yuan and I were separated. By the second grade, the school was divided into classes, and there was no contact again.
Soon, Gu Yuan's family affairs spread to the school, and since then his glory is no longer.
The biggest harm of perfect human set is here.
How many people once held you, then how many people stepped on you.
By the second semester of the second semester, Gu Yuan was completely isolated. During class, he was often seen sitting alone by the playground, not talking to anyone.
Once, I also met him being beaten by a group of boys.
I am very sorry for the source. Did he do something wrong? He can't choose who to be his mother.
But my girlfriend said me,You still have pity on yourself, no matter how pitiful people are, you take a big trip home every day, and you don’t even have a scooter yet.
Oh, too much loss.
At that time, I was grinding my mother to buy me an electric bicycle with a pull-out style. Thinking about it, there is no right to pity others.
Gu Yuan will not come in the next semester of the third year.
He is like the male protagonist in a novel, leaving a bright color in my ordinary youth and then disappearing.
04
is normal.
My dad is a small civil servant, and my mom works in a public institution.
The university I studied in Linfen.
At that time, the whole dormitory had an appointment to lose weight together. Morning jogs, aerobics, diet pills... After four years, only I succeeded.
But I lost weight and didn’t talk about love.
Normally, there are more meat than wolves. There are more than 30 students in our class, and there are only 4 boys. We are all raised as pandas.
After graduation, he returned to Taiyuan and became a teacher.
My mom arranged a blind date right away.
Girls of the same age generally resist, but I don't have one.
As a girl who started solo from the mother's fetus, I am also anxious.
Especially after becoming a teacher, the scope of contact with men has become narrower. It is not a respected old comrade or a famous flower.
Later,It was 2012, and I met... He Yangyang.
Yes, not Gu Yuan.
He Yangyang is the third boy we met on a blind date.
I really thought he was my Mr. Right.
05
’s ’s mom is my colleague’s introduction.
I graduated with a book, 2 years older than me. Work as a lawyer in a law firm on our side.
I have been dating him for three months. From the appearance to the family conditions, he can be regarded as a good match.
And at this time, my life in Pingchuan finally had the first storm.
I remember it’s almost Saturday,He Yangyang suddenly asked me to meet and gave me a silk scarf.
I am happy to smile and say, are you a gift for Children's Day?
He said, sorry, I think we are not suitable. Let's divide it early.
At that time I was blinded.
I was happily watching a movie last weekend, so why suddenly it didn't fit.
I have no experience in love, so I returned home with a breakup gift.
Come in, my mom sees my face is wrong, ask me what's wrong? I just cried out.
It’s not that the relationship is deep, but that I am wronged and inexplicable.
My mother was very angry when she found out, so she called He Yangyang and the introducer to scold him.
However, I often tell students that there must be a reasonable explanation behind all unreasonable things.
Sure enough, a month later, news of He Yangyang's marriage came.
I just knew that he met several parents at the same time, and finally chose the one with the best conditions.
I can only say that the forest is bigger, so there are all kinds of birds.
His appearance can be regarded as a pavement for me and Gu Yuan.
06
, if I don’t have the courage to accept 5span, I would like to congratulate 5span.
After all, we are not a class of people.
He Yangyang made me want to understand one thing,Anyway, ordinary men are not necessarily reliable, why not dream.
Actually, when I saw Gu Yuan again, I didn't really think about it, but I felt more regret and sympathy in my heart.
How to say I was also the male god of my girlhood, suddenly became so bloated.
Just like Wu Yanzu who suddenly saw the terrible hairline on the ins, who doesn't feel bad.
took the initiative to add his WeChat and made an appointment to exercise together.
I can feel that he is very passive in everything. Ask him anything, he said yes, you can figure it out.
is not without opinion, but resignation.
When resting, he sits on a bench and drinks protein powder, with a large black cup lining his fingers, each of which is bald.
incomplete nails,It's gnaw at a glance.
I studied psychology in college.
A child biting his nails is a manifestation of anxiety . Besides, he is an adult.
In an instant, the empathy and responsibility of being a teacher came.
Our principal said that we cannot give up any child, right.
07
I did not know what I experienced at that time.
I just think he is fat, definitely not from food.
I told him about my weight loss experience, and he said that too much stress will increase cortisol.Cortisol is the cause of weight gain. I suggest that he go talk to a psychologist.
Passive people are good at this point. He will say what you say to him.
Gu Yuan started to change after meeting a psychologist. The weight has loosened, and the person has regained some anger.
It is April 2013.
He invited me to dinner and said to thank me for helping him so much.
I obviously feel that our relationship has warmed up and a qualitative change has taken place.
I joked with him and said that I was careful, but I actually wanted to chase the male god.
But Gu Yuan looked at me solemnly, with little stars in his eyes.
He said, be my girlfriend, I'm serious.
My heart beats wildly,Blurt out, all right!
I found out that it was too unreserved.
In order to save face, I can only find a supplement and say that you have to reduce it to 150 catties before I can marry you.
I just said casually.
He is one meter eight, he is big, 150 kilograms, it is actually very difficult.
Gu Yuan didn't even want to say it, well, it's a deal!
08
span 5span, I said to him for the first time that he had a lot of hope in his life.
He originally thought that this life is like a fucking mother, burying his head, eating and waiting for death. But I gave him a new vision.
I made him think,I may have the opportunity to live like an ordinary person.
Love, get married, and have an ordinary and warm home.
At that time I did not understand the meaning of his words. Because of his life experience, he told the psychiatrist, not me.
I don't know how he was hit.
In 2014, Gu Yuan opened a gym. He moved out from home, there are many houses anyway.
On May 1st, I took him home to see his parents.
At that time they knew that I had a boyfriend, so I took it back to have a look. After meeting and chatting, my dad knew who Gu Yuan was right away.
Gu Yuan’s father-in-law father-in-law, the father of Aunt Tang, is the old leader of the same system as my father.
about their family,It's the unit's most explosive gossip.
After Gu Yuan left, my dad strongly opposed me being with him.
He probably told me about their family.
He said, it is a cesspit, and it won’t be clean if it is stained. We ordinary people can't afford it.
09
I asked him to meet and would like to hear if he has any explanation.
Gu Yuan told me everything about his house.
Gu Yuan's father started as an individual coal mine, and he didn't make a profit in this industry.
Later when his dad ran business,Met Aunt Tang's father. The two were on the wine table and became a year-end acquaintance.
Aunt Tang’s father was not very high at the time, but she had certain real power in her hands.
His position, let him see the tendency of the policy, and guided Gu Yuan's dad to start real estate.
In the mid-nineties, some land was granted, only tens of thousands of yuan per mu. One can imagine the speed at which Gu Yuan's father's assets expanded.
In the face of huge wealth, the so-called friendship is not so reliable.
Aunt Tang’s father has two children and one daughter. He immediately made a decision and married Aunt Tang to his father Gu Yuan.
It is hard to say whether this marriage has feelings or not.
Let me just talk about the gaps.
Aunt Tang is a college student,Gu Yuan's dad has a high school diploma.
Aunt Tang works in a foreign company, and Gu Yuan’s father is a coal boss.
Actually, Gu Yuan's father knew what the Tang family meant, but he couldn't refuse.
The business has just started, so I can’t mess it up.
It is said that Aunt Tang also had a boyfriend at the time. It's a pity that in the face of her father's strength and mother's tears, she could only compromise.
Two daughters were born after marriage, even if the family property was firmly grasped.
So, when Gu Yuan's father later discovered that he had a son who had nothing to do with the Tang family, he was really happy.
Of course, there is another reason why he likes Gu Yuan so much.
10
It didn't take long for the rumors of the new policy on thermal coal to come out.
By 2002, the state officially abolished the guidance price for electricity coal, and coal prices soared instantly.
Gu Yuan and his dad never gave up his small mine.
From the beginning of 2002 to the reorganization of coal in 2008, all private coal mines were nationalized.
The wind of the past 6 years has directly turned Gu Yuan's father into a billionaire.
If you look back at the news of the coal boss, you will know his father’s level.
Business people are superstitious. His dad thinks that Gu Yuan is his lucky star, so he likes to take him wherever he goes.
In those years, Gu Yuan's father became increasingly dissatisfied with the Tang family.
In the eyes of outsiders,He is a door-to-door son-in-law who has a relationship.
But in his heart he felt that he was able to do it by his abilities. Even if there is no Tang family, he will sooner or later fly.
And Tang has a daughter to tie him up, and the divorce will divide his property in half.
Gu Yuan told me that his dad is not a good man emotionally. But a clear-headed business can be considered a bottom line.
He is so rich, two things have never happened.
The first is the involvement of black. Even if someone bought Gu Yuan's life behind his back, he didn't lose his head and wade through the muddy waters of the underworld.
Second, I didn't do business that hurts the world.
used to give his dad a cheap piece of land, but he didn't even pick it up.
just because that piece of land used to be a chemical plant,The purification treatment is not up to standard. His dad said that he couldn't use to build a house to harm people.
This also became the reason why his dad would rather give up part of the interests and gradually cut off from the Tang family.
His dad thinks that he can make money from his relationship, but he can't make money with black hearts.
11
, after listening to Gu Yuan’s shocking body.
Especially for children with ordinary parents like me, some plots have exceeded my cognition.
Gu Yuan is not alone in the swimming pool.
He doesn't have any crookedness in the environment, so he is lucky.
I suddenly understood why Gu Yuan abandoned himself in his 20s.
I always thought he had low self-esteem because his mother was a junior.
In fact, in a sense, the more unambitious he behaves, the more he is safe.
Gu Yuan said, if I can say anything, I have said it, are you still willing to be with me? If you want, I can take you to other places. Pick wherever you like.
I said, I would like to be with you, but I cannot leave my parents behind.
Later days, we turned to underground love.
In March 2015, Gu Yuan his mother acute appendicitis was admitted to the hospital. When Gu Yuan was with him, I followed.
That was the first time I saw his mother.
what I heard in Gu Yuan’s mouth before,I thought it would be a beautiful and cold-hearted woman.
I only found out after seeing it, I was wrong.
His mother is very gentle and delicate, and her voice is soft.
is a 50-year-old person, but at most 40 years old, the skin is white and tender, and it looks like a porcelain doll.
When Gu Yuan went to buy food, his mother gently took my hand and said, thank you, if something is wrong with Xiao Yuan, you blame me, don’t blame him, I didn’t teach it well. .
I suddenly don’t know what to say.
On the way back, I couldn't help but say to Gu Yuan, your mother is so beautiful and gentle, not as ruthless as you said.
Gu Yuan said coldly, don't believe her, it's all pretends, she will lose if she doesn't get an Oscar.
I can't speak anymore.
12
Span 5span, I and Gu Yuan 5span will be transferred in 2016.
The Tang family fell. Gu Yuan's father was not involved in the legal sense.
My dad watched Gu Yuan and his dad was invited to have tea. After a round trip, he felt that his house had passed the test and was okay.
Of course, I would rather die than blind date. He can't help it.
In December, Gu Yuan and I returned to our hometown in Jincheng for our wedding, which avoided embarrassment in all respects.
That was the first time that Gu Yuan’s mother, my mother-in-law, showed up in Gu’s family.
The best friend who attended the wedding said that I am so rustic, it is not like marrying a rich man.
how can I say.
From the wedding room, to the wedding, to life, Gu Yuan and I have maintained the standard of ordinary people as much as possible.
Because that is the lifestyle that Gu Yuan expects, low-key, safe, warm and loving.
But we took a cruise on our honeymoon.
28 days, a little exaggeration, to satisfy my princess dream of watching idol dramas since I was young.
My girlfriend said, she finally looks like a rich man's wife.
When I came back from my honeymoon, I was pregnant with a son.
Later is the married life of chai, rice, oil and salt. Plain, but there is real happiness.
In the words of a girlfriend,You two are really low-key rich people. Even if you marry a male god, you are still a wealthy male god of the family.
It seems to be true.
Gu Yuan takes care of his family very much, loves children very much, and loves me very much.
In 2018, Gu Yuan's grandma passed away.
I accompany him back to meet for the last time.
After coming back, he adjusted for a long time. Become more indifferent to his parents.
There is almost no contact except for the necessary festivals.
Also this year, the father-in-law detected alcohol liver .
At that time, the father-in-law established a family trust, and all those who could withdraw from outside were refunded.
I have fun at home every day,Can be regarded as affordable, put it down.
My dad judged him that he can retreat in rapids and he is also a person.
How many people are in that position, even to pieces.
13
In 2020, I gave birth to a daughter.
The mother-in-law, like last time, offered to serve the confinement, but Gu Yuan refused again.
He asks the confinement wife, asks the nanny, troubles my mother, and does not let the mother-in-law come to help.
I can see the disappointment in my mother-in-law's eyes.
This Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother-in-law asked us to eat.
the father originally came,But at the end only the video came.
The mother-in-law took the mobile phone and said with a smile, "It's okay. Are you busy? Remember to talk to me. It's kind."
Gu Yuan was next to him, snorted, just about to say something bad, I stepped on it.
The mother-in-law and other father-in-law went offline before putting away the mobile phone.
She asked us, do you eat moon cakes? I'll get it for you.
After we finished speaking, before we could answer, we got up and left.
When I turned around, I seemed to see tears in her eyes.
And Gu Yuan tilted his head and looked out the window quietly, silently.
Suddenly, I felt a sense of trance that I had spent thousands of sails on.
They all say that beauty is invincible in time,It's a pity that there are always beauties who spare time.
The world is stumbling, and the shortcuts are so rugged.
She is still beautiful, but she is covered with too much wind and frost.
Gu Yuan always said to me, thank you for giving him a home.
is the kind of home with a good reputation, with a father, a mother, and a child.
When I heard him say this, I only felt distressed.
So besides doubling the warmth of ordinary people, I can't think of a better way to love him.
The mountains are high and the water is long. Let's take your time.
PS Xiaoqian said: . yes,Today is the Wu Wei article you want. bless them.
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