Are women who remarry with an extramarital lover happy? 42-year-old woman: It started well, but it ended badly

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Are women who remarry with an extramarital lover happy? 42-year-old woman: It started well, but it ended badly. Why do women choose extramarital affairs? Can extramarital affairs really make women happy? Why do so many people choose extramarital affairs? Today we take a look at this case.

Self-reporter: Ms. Shen, 42 years old

To be honest, if I can live with my ex-husband, we will definitely not get divorced. I know he loves me and I love him, I also want to be with him. I really thought that way, but he was a big truck. Both of us came from the countryside. We didn’t have much craftsmanship. We could only do hard work to make money. At that time, he went to run trucks. , I just do some easy work at home, because I have to take care of the family, I have a child to go to elementary school, because the child is relatively late, because my ex-husband is often outside, two people do not meet a few times a month, you say Talk about how to have children.

Actually, he is a good person. From the first time my family arranged a blind date and let me meet him, I felt that this man looks good and has a better personality. I agreed to get along with him. They decided to get married in one year together. Both parents agreed. However, after the two married, they were poor and white. They had nothing. At that time, the two of them could only work and make money. At that time, he was told by others that it was more profitable to run a truck, so he I also followed suit. At that time, the two of them considered how to make money. They didn’t think about anything else, but I didn’t expect it to be like this. Our husband and wife had to be separated for a long time. At that time, we were only married for more than a year. As a child.

So my relationship with my ex-husband has become very weak. After giving birth, I have to take care of the children and go to work, and my husband is not around. I'm just like a widow, there is one thing at home, and even a helping hand I can only ask others for help, but people in rural areas like to chew other people’s tongues. That’s how I have been told by others that my relationship with others is not normal. I said it like this. Tell me, can I stand it? It's bullying that my husband isn't around. If my husband is around, they wouldn't dare to do that.

The old Liu I knew back then,He has been helping me all the time. He will come whenever I need help at home. I have known him for a long time and live close, so I became a lover with him. Because he made me feel dependent, I also decided to follow him. We are together, but with my ex-husband on his back. Although I also know that it is not good to do this, a woman needs a support after all, and he is my support.

However, my ex-husband found out because of the close relationship with Lao Liu, and then the two of us divorced. Although this marriage became a pity because of this incident, I can continue with my ex-husband.

After being with Lao Liu, he was very good to me at first and made me feel that I was dependent, but then Lao Liu was suspicious of me all day and guarded me at all times. If I have contacts with other people of the opposite sex, he I was always very vigilant. I quarreled with me several times and asked me to pay my salary every month. How would I live this day?

Concluding remarks:

To put it bluntly, it will only make you painful in the end. It may make you happy at first, but the ending is painful. This has never changed.