In many cases, we are unable to empathize with each other or compare our hearts with each other. This leads to a lot of people who have no way to realize how unacceptable what they are doing is unacceptable to others, and they do not feel that they are doing it themselves. Wrong, you might even think it’s no big deal.
Even in many times, it is impossible for us to think from the perspective of others, because we are not in their place, even if we want to empathize, but in the end we are not them, I There is no way to experience their feelings, let alone whether they are doing right or wrong, and judging them according to their own subjective thoughts.
In the process of interacting with the opposite sex, the most important thing is to know how to score, know what should be done, and what must not be crossed, otherwise we will be friends with the opposite sex. Constant ambiguity makes your real boyfriend or husband jealous.
Today we will share the story of a netizen Wu Qi and see what she has experienced.
Wu Qi and her boyfriend Miao Zhi met during a blind date. They developed into lovers because they felt that each other was suitable.
In the eyes of Miao Zhi, Wu Qi is a very gentle and well-behaved girlfriend. She never gets angry with herself, and can think about herself in many cases.So I am very satisfied with this girlfriend.
In Wu Qi's eyes, Miao Zhi is also a very competent boyfriend. He will report to himself no matter what he is doing and will never make himself jealous, so Wu Qi is very jealous of Miao Zhi rest assured.
The relationship between the two people is also very good, and they even think that the other person is the one who accompanies them all their lives.
quarreled because of male girlfriends
, and I saw Miao Zhi during dinner with my colleague one day. But what Miao Zhi didn't expect was that Wu Qi was eating with a boy and seemed to be very ambiguous with that boy. After thinking about it, he didn't know the boy.
So Miao Zhi walked over, and then Wu Qi also saw Miao Zhi, and Miao Zhi beckoned.
When Miao Zhi walked to Wu Qi's side, Wu Qi introduced to Miao Zhi that this was her male best friend, the kind of iron. Only then did Miao Zhi understand that it turned out to be Wu Qi's opposite sex Girlfriends. But even if it didn't seem to be anything, Miao Zhi still cared. Because no one would turn a blind eye to his girlfriend and a man in such a good relationship.
Wu Qi did not find Miao Zhi’s emotions.Instead, they continued to laugh with their male girlfriends.
Miao Zhi and his colleagues also had a table with Wu Qi and the others. During the meal, Wu Qi’s boyfriend kept serving Wu Qi with vegetables. Wu Qi didn’t seem to mind at all, but Miao Zhi did. Unable to bear it, Miao Zhi pulled Wu Qi's sleeve.
Wu Qi looked back and looked very confused, and asked Miao Zhi if he wanted to go to the toilet. And Miao Zhi was on the verge of getting angry at this time, but considering that there were still colleagues present, so he endured it.
And at this time, Wu Qi is still chatting with her male girlfriend, and he is amused by her male girlfriend. In the eyes of others, Wu Qi and her male girlfriend are like a pair, not at all. Is a friend of the opposite sex.
After eating, the male girlfriend and colleagues left first. Miao Zhi said unhappily to Wu Qi at this time: " when did you have such a male best friend? Why don’t I know? How long have you been together? How can you know? "
Miao Zhi said to Wu Qi:" then I don't know you will not tell me.Besides, you and that boyfriend behave too closely. "
Wu Qi said to Miao Zhi:" I think there is no need to talk to you! How can we be as close as you said? Isn't it the way normal friends of the opposite sex get along? ”
Miao Zhi became more angry at this time, and said to Wu Qi:" You need to know that you are a person with a boyfriend, and you should keep some distance. Not ambiguous with him. "
Wu Qi was also a little angry at this time, and said to Miao Zhi:" where are we ambiguous? Can you not think so badly? ”
Miao Zhi said:" I am nasty? Why don't you say that you two are like serious friends of the opposite sex? You didn't even eat the food he picked up for you. He doesn’t need public chopsticks. Don’t you know if men and women are giving or receiving marriage? "
Wu Qi said:" you are really too fussy,I really didn't realize that you are so stingy! "After speaking, he turned and left. Miao Zhi was also very angry, so the two of them had a cold war for a long time.
Until one day, Miao Zhi really couldn't bear it, so he took the initiative to look for it. Wu Qi, Wu Qi also reflected on their behavior in the past two days, and the two people are reconciled as before.
On the day of the wedding, the male best friend hugged the bride, and the groom was jealous _p7strong _pspan
span1 After talking about love for half a year, I am ready to step into the palace of marriage.
On the day of their wedding, Miao Zhi and Wu Qi were very happy, and they also dreamed about their future life.
span1 When Miao Zhi and Wu Qi were standing at the door to greet the guests, Miao Zhi suddenly saw Wu Qi’s male girlfriend. In fact, it has been a long time since he hadn’t seen this man. He almost forgot that there is such a person. Zhi doesn’t have a good face.
After Wu Qi saw it, he bowed his head and said to Miao Zhi, " , don’t be happy with this face, and he should be a little happy today. It's here to congratulate him, we shouldn't be cold to him. ”
Miao Zhi thinks what Wu Qi said makes sense.So I became enthusiastic.
But what Miao Zhi didn't expect was that the male girlfriend walked up to Wu Qi and immediately gave Wu Qi a hug, and said to Wu Qi: " who knows to be behind my ass all day long My little girl is going to get married too, I’m so sad! If he dares to treat you badly, I will definitely snatch you over. "After speaking, I walked into the wedding scene.
Miao Zhi's complexion is even worse at this time, and he said to Wu Qi: " , do you hear what he said? Are you here to celebrate? He will do something as soon as he comes up. ”
Wu Qi said that male girlfriends just love to make jokes, let Miao Zhi not take it to heart. Miao Zhi is very angry, but the wedding will continue. So Miao Zhi finished the wedding with a cold face.
finally divorced
and Wu Xinqi will hold the wedding, and after Miao Zhi and Wu Xinqi go to hold the wedding He agreed, but took his boyfriend with him.
Miao Zhi found out after arriving at the destination,Wu Qi’s male girlfriend was there, and he was very upset. He said to Wu Qi, "What do you mean by ? Do you mean to disgust me? ”
Miao Zhi explained: "I didn't mean , but he happened to want to travel here, and he was alone, so he took a companion. ”
1 Not happy, Wu Qi comforted him all the way, Miao Zhicai agreed to let his male girlfriends travel with him and Wu Qi.
Unexpectedly, at night, Wu Qi stood in the lobby of the hotel and said to Miao Zhi: " I am afraid that the dark will open a room with a male girlfriend, don’t you mind my husband? _strong5
Miao Zhi feels that Wu Qi is really too much, just once or twice, and always like this, making Miao Zhi feel that Wu Qi doesn't like him at all, and Miao Zhi can no longer stand Wu Qi and his male girlfriends. Ambiguous behavior.
Miao Zhi said to Wu Qi: " My girlfriend is also afraid of the dark. ”
Wu Qi asked Miao Zhi what this means, Miao Zhi said to Wu Qi:" you have never considered for me, and you don’t know the truth about that guy’s girlfriend. , Now I have to sleep in a bed, do you think I can bear it? Our marriage was wrong, so I'll go back first. After you come back, take some time, let's go through the divorce procedures. "After speaking, he left.
Wu Qi realized that he was really doing something wrong, and did not think about Miao Zhi, wanting to save Miao Zhi, and Miao Zhi got divorced at this time. The determination is very firm, Wu Qi has no choice but to divorce.
Whether in marriage or in relationship, it is always necessary for both parties to understand and maintain each other. It’s definitely impossible to go to the end, but many people don’t understand the truth. They didn’t think about making up until one day they lost it, but it was too late then.
Wu Qi could have had A very good husband, very gentle and considerate towards her, but because she didn’t know how to keep her distance from her male girlfriend, she disappointed Miao Zhi again and again, and she had to sleep in a room with her male girlfriend. Finally, Miao Zhi couldn’t bear it anymore. Wu Qi mentioned divorce. After Wu Qi lost his marriage, he realized his mistake, but it was too late.
So when girls get along with friends of the opposite sex,You must have a balance in your heart and understand that no matter how good the relationship is, you cannot be a reason to cross the line. You must also cherish your feelings and marriage, and you must not let small things destroy them and make yourself regret it.
Today’s topic:
Have you ever met Wu Qi who doesn’t know how to keep a distance with friends of the opposite sex?
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