I saw a joke that day, a man who worked so hard to save money and got married with a woman he liked. He returned from a business trip and found his wife cheating on other men at home. I worked hard all my life for a house, but in the house I bought, my beloved woman lay in the arms of other men. I believe that at this time, the Green Hat brother must feel that he is nothing.
In the peaceful era, most people live in the civilian class. Both men and women cannot obtain too much fame and fortune and cannot be named in history. Everyone is like an episode in the long river of history, like a small fragment in a big drama, everyone is ordinary. But men are not the same. The society's criteria for judging men are either fame or wealth, or descendants, or soaring. Many people are chasing fame and fortune, pursuing those things that the public thinks are good, but they are not suitable for them, or even they are not necessary at all. People have ignored them. Men who can stick to the ordinary are the rarest ones.
Ordinary = waste? For a long time, the impetuous social atmosphere showed personality. Whoever can attract attention is regarded as a successful role model. Those ordinary laborers are no longer paid attention to by the mainstream media. In movies and TV series, everyone is a dragon and a phoenix, and they are all equipped with special skills. But in reality, leaving these ordinary labor groups, our food, clothing, housing and transportation will be greatly affected.
These ordinary jobs are more inclined to manual work, street cleaners, watermen in parks and green spaces, old masons on construction sites, these ordinary male compatriots who have remained obscured for most of their lives. But making substantial contributions to this society every day is far from comparable to those showy actors.
ordinary = lazy? Looking at our elders, there will always be those who are not good at talking, but carry the burden of the family with their own strength, and take care of the family in every possible way. They don’t have any tricks for social hard work,There is no brilliant talent show, and no time to advertise how great they are on the Internet, because they do the most fundamental, the most close to life, the most down-to-earth work, and take care of their family.
The society is made up of every family. There are problems in the family, and the society will also face difficulties. These male compatriots who are willing to be ordinary may also have lofty revenge and lofty ideals, but they Willing to make concessions for the family and take good care of those closest to him.
Ordinary = pain? Those fanatics who persuade people to break the ground preach that "if you can't bear the pain of starting a business, you have to endure the ordinary pain", which is the joy of knowing fish. Whether a person wants to start a business, whether he wants to be a so-called "human being", depends on the right time and place, depends on the past experience, depends on various factors such as changes in the environment.
If you want to get something, you must sacrifice what you should have in the future, or exchange what you have now. But many people are not suitable for these exchanges. They spend time with their relatives to exchange money, but they want to support their children and are not there? Good morals and ethics to pay back the money and ended up being so poor that there is only money left? When I was young, happiness was simple, but when I grew up, it was simple and happy. Ordinary means simplicity, and ordinary means happiness.
Many successful masters pay for what knowledge they do on the Internet to promote how powerful they are, but in fact, they know how good they are when they drink water. Many successful people don’t want to go if they don’t want to push themselves. Take this path with extremely low fault tolerance. It's just that the wealth and wealth are in danger. Those survivors who benefited from the deviation began to sell them cheaply, deceiving the crowd, making everyone feel how great they are, and making this world even more impetuous.
