Pay attention to the ‘pier middle-aged’ to explore the “family short, human nature”
" "There is no regret medicine in life, and I can only eat the bitter fruit of . If every personal life is a TV drama, then I My life has been transformed into a tragedy.
Picture: How happy you once laughed, you cry now!
1 _p153p strong 1 _p153p strong 2 span3span Jiang Meixian, a native of Xianning, Hubei. Since I was a child, I have been a subject of Chinese, and other subjects are still reluctantly, but mathematics is like listening to the heavens. So the first year of high school entrance examination did not enter high school, parents And don’t want me to go to technical school,So I was asked to repeat one year, and I was pressed into the high school on the line.
The cultural classes in high school are more difficult. I, a basic person, can’t keep up with the teacher’s pace. So in class I started to stare in a daze or sleep . After three years, I went to college. .
Most of the tertiary colleges are students who love to play, and they are not very interested in learning. And even if I am studying at heart, my cultural class is just like that. It may be that I don't have the aura of others in my mind. But I am still very interested in professional training courses. Others are chatting secretly, listening to songs and so on. Only me and a few people are listening to the teacher's explanation, and operate. Therefore, I often ask me to help him get things that others don't want to do.
At first there were four people in the dormitory at night. One was smirking after the drama, the other was yelling at the game, one was flirting with the subject, and I read the book silently. Later, they came back later and late on dates, and I was often the only one left in the dormitory.
I am a little fat and medium-looking. has a somewhat restrained personality and doesn’t like to communicate with others.Over time, I was the one who was alone.
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I registered an account on a dating site. Anyway, I can’t meet people, so I don’t have to be afraid. I often post my news on it 2 _strong15.
In the like list I found that there is a whose name is "殇" almost click like all my activities _strong span15strong span _strong successfully caused My attention. I was curious to open his homepage, , but his homepage had nothing, so I had to give up .
After a while, a message popped up in the window that was sent by " 殇".
" You must like me when you peek at my homepage , hee hee strong _strong15.
"I have been observing you for a long time, , if you want to develop with me, I will consider it. "I didn't reply to his last message, so he followed closely.
I have nothing to do with him. chatted on the ground. Under the circumstances, he was just used to pass when I was bored.
Unexpectedly, fate is so wonderful, and then we ran into success.
I met offline when I learned that it was an alumni during a chat. His name is Li Wencai, he is very handsome, he is 182 in height, and he is a proper "Hua Xin Big Carrot" at a glance. I only have 158. I am so inconspicuous. really. Because there are a lot of people who fall in love in college, but very few people can achieve a positive result.
He will come to my dormitory every morning to deliver breakfast, no matter it is sunny or rainy , he will give me gifts on any holiday, even if there is no holiday, will make it. Some small surprises.This makes my roommates very envious.
But every time I go out to play with him, others will secretly say "good cabbage is let the pigs go", yes I am the "pig" , forced by people Under pressure, I broke up with him.
" Wencai, let's break up! " I strongly suppressed my feelings and said this sentence.
"No, you can't break up! I like you, I want to love you that you love forever." He resisted.
"I don't deserve you, you are so handsome, my is so mediocre, I don't want to be pointed out wherever I am with you!" I couldn't help shouting loudly.
"The mouth grows on others, and others love to talk, why do you care about what others say, What you should care about is what I say ." He said and embraced me. Into the arms.
"I like you ,It has nothing to do with your appearance ! "He said.
I snuggled against his chest and clearly heard the sound of his heart "pounding". It was fresh blood flowing. His kindness to me is visible to everyone. , my feelings for him have changed greatly. Time passed so fast, after graduation many couples broke up. I thought that as long as two people love each other enough, they can escape the spell of "graduation season" or "breakup season". However, this is not the case.
I have the dream of marrying him with and he saw my parents , 2 never thought about our beautiful future. It’s just this time when my parents met, that they came to an end.
Before I met my parents,I told him to tell my parents their preferences, choose a good gift and visit . I was afraid that my parents would not have a bad impression of him and would not agree with us.
His parents had a good conversation with him at the beginning. They learned that he was from Xi'an, Shaanxi, so he was not as enthusiastic as before. I vaguely felt the crisis of our relationship. Sure enough, after sending him away, my mother chatted with me.
"Beautiful fairy, this young man is pretty good in all aspects, long must also be a talented person!"
smiled to my mother very well.
"That's family conditions are not very good, there is a younger brother, followed by his family in Shaanxi, so far away !" Mother took my hand and said earnestly. .
"Our old couple is just your daughter , you , do you have the heart to leave your parents behind _strong15 and stay with her?"
"What about ?" After hearing my mother's words, my heart felt like being stabbed by a knife. I tried to solve the problem of .
"It's very simple, as long as is willing to give a gift of one hundred thousand and is willing to stay in Xianning for development, he agrees to you together." Mother said.
"Wait for me to think about it." I said.
"Nothing I really want to, he wants to be with you on this road since ." Mother returned to me.
ended the conversation with my mother, I have a lot of thoughts back to the room.
Wencai called. If I guessed it correctly, I asked my parents for their opinions. I haven't answered it for a long time. because I don't know how to talk to him.In my opinion, Xianning, a fourth- and fifth-tier city, who wants to stay here for development has no big future. Besides, the gift of 100,000 was considered a high price at the time, and he might not be able to spend so much money.
When the ringing of the mobile phone was about to end , I answered .
"Miss, how did you answer the call!" he groaned at on the other side of the phone.
"Just...just at busy!" I quickly replied .
"Are your parents not too full? mean me?" If not , he asked about this. I hesitated for a while, and finally told him what my mother said.
" has no other room to discuss ?" He was silent for a while.
"No," I said.
"Then...Do you still love me?" he asked suddenly.
"Now, what is the meaning of ? Does mean?" I asked in the opposite direction.
"Yes, you still love my , then follow me!"
_strong12 After some ideological struggle, I said slowly.
......
We talked a lot about that time, but no one convinced .
Picture: The weather was very good on the day I sent him away, but it rained heavily in my heart
The next day I sent him to span2If I met my parents and were satisfied, I would meet his parents with him this time.
At the pit stop, he said that he wanted to hug me for the last time. We hugged tightly until the waiting hall started calling for ticket checking to enter the station. I know that if he leaves, if nothing happens, there will be no contact for the rest of his life.
After breaking up peacefully with my boyfriend, I spent a long time at home to adjust my state.
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one day I feel uncomfortable . I thought it was my period that was coming, because my period was always inaccurate, so I didn't care. suddenly remembered that I didn't seem to be here last month. I took the pregnancy test stick to test and showed to show that I was pregnant.
I went to the hospital for an examination, Doctor said that I have been pregnant for one month. I heard the news like thunder. We have obviously taken measures, so why are we still pregnant.
At this point, I have only parted with Wen for half a month.I don't know whether to tell him or not, but has already broken up, and I can't go back anymore.
Finally, I plan to give birth to the child, Although this child came at an untimely time, he is the only flesh between me and him. It is a strong12 _span strong1 strong12 _span4 strong 's life, I am not willing to shed him . In order for to give birth to his famous , I have to find a father for the child as soon as possible.
I proposed to my parents that I want to get married on a blind date. My mother was surprised but did so, and quickly commissioned a matchmaker to help me say .
have dated a few. My parents are very satisfied with one of the boys with a flat appearance and good family situation. I have no objection. Both fathers met and fixed the wedding date.We quickly got married .
After marriage, I gave birth to a child as I wished. Although is a bit different in the month, it is not strange to say that it is premature . The healthy and lovely son provokes the whole family's favor and is beaming.
Picture: He would not have thought that the scared child in his palm is not his biological
The child grows up day by day, and his eyebrows are more and more like his own. Dad.
During the Chinese New Year, those relatives said that the child grew up and did not know how many girls fascinated, could not hold it, and some people said that the child looked nothing like him. This was heard by my husband . At first he thought that someone was making a joke to him, but it is inevitable that will not make people suspicious of this kind of joke again and again.
One day, I was busy cooking in the kitchen.
"Beautiful fairy, for , so everyone always says that my son is not like me!" In the living room, the husband looked at his 4-year-old son ,Look left and right and say:
"You never heard that my son looks like my mother ." My heart sank, and said calmly.
"I don't even look at it. is very similar to you ."
"Dad, is it strong12 strong ? When I was worried about how to answer, my son said.
"Silly child , but you were born to mother during pregnancy. Where can I pick up my baby son." I answered.
"Zhiqiang, you see you scared the child. Who else can the child look like, unlike you or me? Listen Okay, with such a good son, we have to separate our relationship between husband and wife. We can't follow other people's ways. People are waiting to see jokes." said.
"Yes, yes, is right, those people just don't see me well, they are jealous that I married a good wife and gave me such a lovely son." He also agreed with what I said.
This matter is sloppy has passed.
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During the Dragon Boat Festival, my husband drove to pick up my parents for the festival, and my son and I were waiting at home. They came back. Unexpectedly, he had a accident on the road and was sent to the hospital to rescue , but his head injury caused him headache, dizziness and memory loss. Sometimes caused him headache, dizziness and memory loss. Occurrence of epilepsy .
such an accident happened, my mother-in-law told me :
"Beautiful,Our Zhiqiang found that the situation of is not optimistic. ”
If... …If you find a good family, we will marry you out like a daughter , there is only one I want to keep my grandchildren of 15strong "The mother-in-law said with a sob.
"Mom, don't be sad, I will not get divorced, I will accompany Zhiqiang to get better." I expressed my heart.
Just when everyone thought I would divorce Zhiqiang, I stood firm on not divorcing, and it also made everyone feel that I was sincere to him. He will never leave. Secondly, his family treats me very well. I have been together for many years and have had a certain affection. I hope that my son will have a complete family, and I will rot in my stomach the fact that his son is not his own.
husband actively cooperates with the treatment treatment,The condition was not as bad as I thought, and two years later, life was slowly on the right track.
Just when I thought everything was good, reality gave me I took the lead, ’s son’s _span _strong _strong 15 will never hide from my life.
7-year-old ’s son has leukemia and needs a bone marrow transplant from .
The principle of bone marrow matching in medicine is:
1. There is priority for siblings
2. Find the matching
3. If there is no match in the bone marrow database, just to see the parents,Male is better than female .
passed the hospital for a long period of time, the bone marrow bank did not find the bone marrow matched with my son , said, use his bone marrow to save the child , 15strong Said that it didn't take long for his body to recover, he donated bone marrow and his body might not be able to bear it. I didn't listen to any persuasion, and finally found that his son had no blood relationship with him at all.
"He is not my own!" Zhiqiang threw the report in front of me and said furiously.
"Hmm." I hid it from . After so long, things have been exposed. I feel like a clown. I want to explain or cover up. This word.
Picture: I stared at the report sheet blankly,Left behind regretful
"Then whose son is he? It's hard for me to hide it from me! For so many years, I always think you have any intentions , you are hiding things from me, thinking of you When the time comes, I will tell me by myself. I didn't expect this to be the case. Our family treats you , right? Why do you treat me like this? When did it happen?" He was annoyed.
" had before marriage." I knew I was wrong and replied in a low voice.
"So you are looking for a father for your child for , so you marry me. Oh my God! I have raised someone else's son for so many years , I really want to be laughed at. ." He smiled bitterly.
"Yeah." I listened to , and tears couldn't stop streaming from Zhiqiang's words. I had nothing to say, and I didn't beg him to forgive me.
In the end, this marriage based on the lie was finally broken because of the exposure of the lie .
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Looking at the ward The son who is still lying down, if there is no matching bone marrow, the son will face death. will die.
I turned on the phone's address book, searched his name, looked at the familiar phone, hesitated for a while or dialed , and heard his familiar voice.
"Hey, who is it?"
"Wencai , I am Meixian, do you remember me nervously?"
"Well, what's the matter?" The other side answered calmly.
"I think can you please help , can you?"
"Span3span
"Span3span is my son is suffering from white blood." Need a bone marrow transplant,I hope you can save my child .
"Bone The marrow matching is very complicated, why did you find me? The chance of successful matching of non-family and non-family is very small. "He doesn't seem to believe it.
"Because is your child's father ! "After hearing what he said, I couldn't help but blurt out.
"After breaking up with you, I found out that I have been pregnant for one month and . The child is yours, and I am 12span. gave him a famous birth, and soon got married on a blind date. Now my son needs a bone marrow transplant, , will you come? "I spoke out the secrets that have been buried in my heart for many years.
has been for a long time, and there is a sound sound.
good? I come. "He didn't ask any more.Maybe I want to ask, but I don’t mean anything. is right, my ex-girlfriend has not been in contact for many years and suddenly he has a son. No one can believe it. At present, is important to save the child.
The bone marrow transplant operation was very successful, and his son also recovered to his health .
Later, Wen just left , he now has his own family, and how should my child and I appear in his life as ?
Picture: I often take out this divorce certificate, and I regret that it would be great if everything can be done again!
Now, I is thirty years old, I am in pain, after I graduate, I will be married _strongspan 2span at home and I am not married_spanstrongspan span. Dare to contact the outside society, I dare not go out to find a job I have no choice but to take my son to stay at my natal family , let my mother criticize me:
"Look at What is this ridiculous thing you did span_strong 2 What happened, how could I give birth to a shameless daughter like you! I want a family without a family, a career without a career, and gnawing at home every day." Ears, my tears could not stop flowing, I was speechless, and I began to regret my decision to give birth to a child. Endless is self-blaming...
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