Back to my parents-in-law's house on National Day this year, my wife and I had planned to spend part of the money for her unmarried brother to build a house and marry a wife, but unexpectedly, my mother-in-law wanted more.
My daughter-in-law is from the rural area of Zibo, born in the 1980s, she will soon be 40 years old. We have been married for 10 years and our child is 8 years old this year. After years of hard work, we have two houses and two cars in Qingdao, but there are still more than 2 million loans to be repaid.
My brother-in-law is 29 years old this year, and has not had a serious job since graduating from college. His sister got him a job, but she didn't do it properly. Seeing that he is not young anymore, he is already very old at 29 in rural areas, and many of his primary school classmates are in elementary school. So the marriage of my brother-in-law has always been on everyone's mind.
The mother-in-law’s house is an old house. It has been almost forty years. It is a kind of adobe house. Although it is still very strong, it is relatively dilapidated and incomparable with the new houses in the countryside. Due to housing problems, the mainland has never brought back a girlfriend. For the marriage of my brother-in-law, my daughter-in-law discussed with me and funded the refurbishment of the house for my mother-in-law's house.
Old House
One of the most important things on this National Day is to discuss the issue of rebuilding the house. We calculated that we flipped over a 140-square-meter house and rebuilt the bathroom and kitchen. If the decoration is done, it will cost about 200,000 yuan. The mother-in-law saved 30,000 yuan by herself, and my wife and I will bear the remaining 170,000 yuan. The mother-in-law was very happy and said a lot of nice things.
After talking about this, everyone is happy, and everyone is happy. But at this moment, my brother-in-law suddenly said: Although the house is flipped over, he will not always live in the countryside. Moreover, to find a girlfriend to marry now, one must buy a house in the city and also have a car worth at least 120,000 yuan.
The air freezes instantly. The mother-in-law thought for a while and looked at us. "We still have nearly 2 million in debt," my wife said first. "You think about a way, you have to buy a house, and you have to buy a car. There is no house and no car, it is really hard to say a wife! If you don't help your brother, who will help?" Good deed, let us think of a way, let us help . I'm speechless.
Let my daughter bear everything
"This is my brother-in-law,Not my son! "I thought to myself.
Hey, in retrospect, since I got married, I spent about 150,000 for my mother-in-law’s house. I wanted to spend another 170,000 to rebuild the house and everything would be fine. I didn’t expect it to be even bigger. The expenses are waiting for us!
What should I do? I still have a huge debt that I haven’t paid back! I’m under pressure to repay every month! I’m already exhausted and unable to help my brother-in-law buy a house or a car! What should we do?
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