As the saying goes, there is a clear distinction between public and private, and we should also understand the priorities in important matters. Knowing what should be done and what should not be done, what time can be done and what time can’t be done, if a person can’t distinguish the priorities of things and can’t distinguish the close relationship between people, then this person will probably be in the interpersonal relationship Problems in handling have caused constant injuries to those close to him.
1. My wife and her girlfriend were the same company before
Xiao Li and Xiao Hua have decided to get married. Xiao Li and Xiao Hua were colleagues from the same company, Xiao Hua And her best girlfriend, Xiaomei, is also an employee of this company. So we all know each other, so Xiao Li and Xiao Mei are also old acquaintances. In the process of getting along with Xiao Mei, Xiao Mei also has a lot of participation.
2. She is basically present every time she is dating
After Xiao Li and Xiao Hua have determined their relationship, Xiao Li decides to ask Xiao Hua to go out to learn, but Xiao Li later discovers that Xiao Hua has brought her to the school. beautiful. At first, Xiao Li didn’t care. After all, everyone is good friends and they should understand and accept each other. So Xiao Li also greeted Xiao Mei enthusiastically, but later Xiao Li began to discover that not only once or twice, almost every time he and Xiao Hua met Xiaomei would be there when he was dating, and Xiaoli would also bring Xiaomei with Xiaohua every time he went to dinner. This caused Xiaoli to pay three people every time he went out to learn, which made Xiaoli start to mind this. Things.
3. Living together before marriage, I always come to the house to eat overnight. I can only sleep on the sofa every time.The two have also come to the step of living together before marriage. Xiao Li originally thought that there would be more space between the two of them. When married, Xiao Li found that Xiao Hua would often call Xiao Mei to her home for dinner and overnight. Because Xiao Mei came to spend the night. Xiao Li could only sleep on the sofa and leave a private space for their two girlfriends. Xiao Mei often came to Xiao Hua and was very happy. Even if there was any dissatisfaction in Xiao Li's heart, she did not raise it until later that really made Xiao Li angry. Something happened.
4. It’s not sensible to be like this on the wedding night
Xiao Li and Xiao Hua smoothly stepped into the palace of marriage. They have been stumbled all the way for so long. I was very happy, after all, it was a day of my great joy. Later, when Xiao Li was toasting at the wine table, Xiao Hua came over and told Xiao Li that she wanted to sleep with Xiao Mei tonight. Xiao Li was completely angry and Xiao Li scolded him. After Xiaohua's ignorant wedding night, how could she rush over and sleep with her girlfriend on the wedding night?
Although he cared about the previous things, he didn't say much. After all, good friends are rare in their lives. He doesn't want to hinder his girlfriend from making friends, but today is different. Today is their great joy This is one of the most important days in her life. Xiaohua chose to spend the night with her friends during this period of time without respecting the opinions of his husband.
People need to take care of respect and understanding. Xiao Li gave Xiao Hua and his friends the understanding and respect, but Xiao Hua did not understand him with relative respect. In this intimate relationship, Xiao Hua is not only indistinguishable The relatives inside and outside didn't understand the priorities, so in the end Xiao Li was angry. After all, who could accept his wife and say that he was going to accompany his friends on the happy day?
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