The last time I saw Aunt Liu was on the weekend of last week. Aunt Liu danced square dance with her companions in the square. I was so moved that I shed tears.
I remember one weekend a year ago, the weather was not sunny. I went home to visit my sister-in-law, passing by the door of Grandma Liu’s house, I saw Grandma Liu walking to a mound in front of the door with a cane, with her right hand resting on her right eye socket, looking into the distance, and whispering in her mouth. Writing: "Old man, the corn in our village is growing well——"
I quickly stopped and greeted: "Grandma, are you okay?""
Grandma Liu heard the question, looked around and saw I walked down the mound tremblingly, and I hurried over to help her. Grandma Liu squinted her eyes, looked at me for a while, and said, "Isn't this a Xue girl? ! I'm okay—" My aunt stretched the word "good" very long. "I am reporting good news to your uncle, saying that our village is another bumper year this year!
Grandma Liu is 70 years old, and Uncle Liu has passed away for 6 years. During these 6 years, Grandma Liu always chats with the deceased uncle every day, which makes our neighbor and her the only one to work in the field. Her son, Hu'er, was very worried, thinking that Grandma Liu had a little cerebellar atrophy, a little dementia, and persuaded her to go for treatment. But Grandma Liu always shook her head and said that she was not sick.
But Grandma Liu It does not recognize the fact that Uncle Liu has been dead for many years. Grandma Liu always puts a pair of chopsticks and a bowl for the uncle every meal, and asks as she eats: "Old man, do you want to be jealous?" Is it salty or weak? "Every morning, I went to the door to look into the distance, and said to the uncle: "Old man, the sun is coming out again, have you seen it?" "In the evening, I took two stools and sat next to the mound, watching the canal water at my feet flow into the distance, still nagging to the uncle: "Old man, you see that the running water has shattered the shadow of the setting sun." "It was getting dark, and she carried two stools back to the house to rest.
The neighbors were very worried about Grandma Liu, so they called her son Huer back and took Grandma Liu to the big city. Grandma Liu said nothing to go. , Said her wife was at home,She couldn't take him away, so she didn't go. Hu'er specially paid for Grandma Liu in the local area and hired an uncle who was three years younger than Grandma Liu and spoke with Grandma Liu every day. As a result, as soon as the uncle had explained his intentions, he was kicked out by Grandma Liu. She was still out of breath and frightened Hu'er.
When Grandma Liu was relieved, she cursed: "You stinky boy, who can be better than your father!"
That's it, Grandma Liu still talks to her husband every day. Very worried about our neighbor and her.
Once, my neighbor, sister-in-law Liu found that Grandma Liu hadn't opened the door for a whole day. She was worried that Grandma Liu had an accident, so she climbed up to watch Grandma Liu's courtyard, but found that Grandma Liu had hung the uncle's relics all over the corner of the courtyard. She was sitting in the middle of the yard, looking obsessively, with a smile on her face, the smile rippling in her deep wrinkles.
This reminds me of my friend's grandmother. After my spouse had gone for two years, he lost his wife's coldness and warmth in the days. I wandered around the room alone, cold and desolate, and it was so desolate. For this reason, I want to find a wife, be a companion together, and talk, so as not to disturb the children, but also to warm myself. Later, I really found a companion who could talk and chat to warm each other. Unlike our grandma Liu, Uncle Liu went, but in her days, Uncle Liu was still alive. Is the smile hidden in Grandma Liu's wrinkles warm or lonely? The old man's stubbornness? Or is it as deep as the sea?
I think: No matter which kind, I don't agree with it. The only way is to get Grandma Liu back to the real world. People are gone. You can't always live in the shadow of the dead. This kind of life is not a healthy old life.
Later, Huer had to sell the house in the provincial capital for Grandma Liu, and returned to his hometown with his wife and children to start a business and accompany Grandma Liu.
No, I went home to visit my sister-in-law last weekend, and found a scene of Grandma Liu dancing square dance in the square. I know that this is the result of the child's company. I wish every child can give warm companionship to the elderly who have lost their other half.
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