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That year, Wang Lin went home to visit relatives. One of his old classmates visited. The old classmate had disappeared for many years. He invited the old classmate to eat at home. He went out to buy a bottle of wine and asked his mother to fry some dishes. There are some vegetables and vegetables, and he is going to have a few drinks with his old classmates and talk to him.
Mom Wang Lin cooks very quickly, and a few dishes will be cooked in a short while, and Mom puts the cooked dishes on the table. Wang Lin tasted a few dishes first, and one dish was salty. In front of his old classmates, he angered his mother and said, Mom, what's the matter with you? Why is this dish so salty? Did you see that salt was too cheap and was willing to put it in...
Faced with his complaint, his mother stood aside, like a child who made mistakes, first smiled guiltily, and then discussed it. Tone said, is it too salty? If you can't eat it, I'll cook a new dish for you?
The old classmate was a little bit obsessed, and felt that his behavior was a bit too much. He said, "Forget it, let’s eat like this. I like to eat salty food. Besides, how can I just add salt to cooking? .
That meal, he never said a word to his mother from beginning to end.
When the old classmate left, he said goodbye to his mother, aunt, your meal is delicious! What the old classmate said was actually criticizing him for not treating his mother well enough, but he didn't realize it.
He sent his old classmate away, still annoyed, his mother stood in the yard, he walked around by his mother, and still didn't talk to her.
But the moment he stepped into the room, turned his head and glanced at his mother, and saw a teardrop hanging from the corner of her eye, which was crystal clear and translucent under the shining of the sun.
Mom’s tears touched him, he suddenly felt that he was a little too much just now, he wanted to say a few words to comfort his mom, but for a while, he couldn’t think of the right words, and soon the guilt disappeared. . He has become accustomed to treating his mother with a willful attitude.
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Wang Lin’s parents were both born in the 1960s,His father was born in 1961 and his mother was born in 1963. The era when parents got married was the era when family planning was the tightest. The city only allowed one family to have one child, and the countryside allowed one family to have two children. Wang Lin's parents are both employees of a large and medium-sized enterprise in the provincial capital, and they belong to the city's registered permanent residence, so naturally they can only have one child.
Wang Lin has been studying well since he was a child. In addition, during his college entrance examinations and the expansion of college enrollment, he was admitted to a key university without much effort.
After graduating from university, Wang Lin worked in a city in the south far away from his hometown and went home once a year to live for a few days. In the past few days when he returned home, his mother's food changed in a different way, all he liked, and his food was rarely repeated during the few days at home.
Every morning before he wakes up, his mother prepares breakfast for him. As soon as he puts on his clothes, his mother prepares his face and teeth. In the afternoon, he will meet with classmates and friends when he comes back, and he can eat at the door. To be more precise, he is really the little emperor of the family.
Because he is a child, his parents treat him like a jewel in the palm. They are afraid of turning it in their mouths, holding them in their hands for fear of falling, and when his affection increases, he always repeats one thing.
His mother's favor has developed his willful character. If his mother doesn't like him, he loses his temper. It's still the same as an adult, and I don't think there is anything wrong.
Once he was chatting with a colleague outside, and suddenly the phone on the table rang, and his friend jokingly said to him, is it the love wave coming? He took a look at the phone with joy, the joy on his face disappeared quickly, but he still called the phone back.
It turned out to be his mother's phone number. She said it was cold these days and reminded him to wear more clothes. He looked impatiently on the phone and said, "I'm not a kid!" This matter came on the phone too, and hung up before my mother finished speaking. I also complained to my colleagues that the old man was idle at home, thinking about this and that all day long, and calling when he was excited. She also didn't want to think that her children still had a job, and how could she have time to chat with her on the phone.There was nothing else on the phone, and it was very annoying to repeat those few words over and over again.
Every time I leave home, my mother always packs all the food in the bag, and all the clothes of the season are in the bag. He watched too much and took it out again. Finally, he frowned and said with a temper, and then pretend, I won't take anything anymore. My mother was helpless, so she put her hands together and stood aside.
There is one more time to go home. He likes white T-shirts, but his mom bought him a blue T-shirt. He lost his temper and threw the T-shirt without wearing it. Mom had to face the hot sun and ride into the city to change him. It's a white one...He has too many unreasonable things to his mother, it can be said that it is countless.
's unreasonable treatment of his mother, he has become accustomed to it, and disagrees with his mother, in the end his mother always obeys him, he even thinks that his mother should treat him like this.
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Wang Lin made a friend after he started working. The friend is also the only child in the family. The difference is that his parents are intellectuals, and his parents are workers.
Like him, friends often receive calls from his mother. Once, he was having dinner with a friend in a restaurant, and the friend's mother called, and the friend quickly stopped talking with him and took the call from his mother. He noticed that his friend had a smile on his face when he talked with his mother, and the sentence was very gentle. He had spoken with his mother for a long time before he came back to eat with him.
He asked his friend, what is wrong with my mother?
The friend said. Nothing, just want to talk to me.
He was just about to say something, my mother is just like your mother, who is fine at home and always makes random calls.
However, before he spoke, his friend said that he was working, and he could not accompany his mother to talk to her. He could only chat with her on the phone. I am very sorry to my mother. My mother is retired and very depressed to stay at home. Talking to her, I can feel the love of my children, and my depressed mood will spread.
Speaking of mom,The eyes of friends are filled with complex feelings full of love and full of regret.
What a friend said surprised him. Wang Lin's mind showed his extremely impatient attitude when his mother called him. Compared with his friends, he felt very guilty and felt sorry for his mother.
But he thought again, his friend’s mother is a high school teacher, graduated from college, has a high diploma, and has a good level of talking and talking, while his mother is a worker and only graduated from elementary school. The content is also some very boring topics. After repeating a few words, I am naturally not interested. Thinking about it this way, his heart calmed down again.
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Wang Lin and his friend's home is not in the same city, his home is in Zhengzhou, Henan, and his friend's home is in Shijiazhuang, but they have to take the Beijing-Guangzhou line train to go home. road. When passing by Shijiazhuang, a friend invited him to get off the car and stay home for a few days.
During the days when he was at a friend's house, he found that his friend's mother was just as nagging as his mother.
In the morning, he and his friend came to the restaurant after freshening up, pulled out a chair and sat down. Just after sitting, the friend's mother brought milk, bread, beef jerky, apples, and green tea, saying you guys eat it,
Mom will come and ask after a while?
How does it taste?
My friend smiled and said to my mother, it's delicious.
Mom will come over and ask again after a while?
Is enough to eat?
My friend smiled and said to his mother that it was enough to eat.
Mom will come and ask after a while?
What else do you guys eat?
My friend smiled and said to his mother, "Don't eat anymore."
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After dinner, my friend shouted: Mom, bring me a clean T-shirt and a pair of pants. He added: Mom, hurry up, I have something else.
My friend’s mother came with a small step and said: My little ancestor, why are you so anxious? I hurriedly handed my friend a set of neatly ironed T-shirts and trousers. Friends are very particular about dressing. In summer, they have to change clothes every day, and they have to be ironed before they are willing to wear it.Of course these things are done by my mother, without him doing it himself.
Wang Lin felt that even though his friend's mother was a college student, she was no different from his mother at home, just as nagging. But my friend doesn't have any annoying expressions. When talking to his mother, he is always patient and gentle. My friend’s mother is also a typical image of a good wife and a good mother at home. Wang Lin thought about his mother...
Mothers in the world seem to be carved out of a mold. Their love for their children is How similar!
My friend smiled and said, look at my mother, we are in our twenties, and my mother is always worried. One thing repeatedly said that my mother loves her children too much. reason.
His friend's words touched him. On the train, she kept remembering his friends' words,
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This time when he returned home, his mother prepared very little food for him, and he only ate A little bit. My mother asked, why do you eat so little? He said that he didn't want to eat anymore. He noticed the corner of his mother's eyes, and tears fell again. Suddenly he felt a pain in his heart. He walked up to his mother, wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes with his hands, and said softly to his mother, Mom, what happened today is that I'm not right, so don't take it to your heart.
This is the first time he bowed his head to his mother when he grew up. His mother was taken aback and looked at him in surprise. When she saw his sincere face, she smiled, and then she burst into tears.
Mom’s tears are crystal clear and translucent under the sunshine. He knew that the tears of his mother at this time were different from the ones just now. They were tears of joy and excitement. Say, the child feels that you have grown up.
This evening he sent a WeChat message to a friend, saying, I used to be nagging to my mom, and always showed a very annoying attitude. Since interacting with you,...understand that my mom’s nagging is hidden in it. Love.
He asked his mother,Mom, I often annoy you, why do you still love me so much? My mother said, because you are still young, you don’t understand many truths in the world. Mom doesn’t let you be weak or afraid of you, but because she loves you and doesn’t want you to be wronged, she bows her head to you .
Mom's words made him cry, and he never confronted his mother again. Yes, think about it every time I quarreled with my mom in the past, he always had the upper hand. My mom bowed her head to him, and the mom who bowed to him was not because of weakness, but because he loved him. He can still bear to love him. Are the people angry?
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