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Introduction
Miss Zhang has been suffering recently. On the one hand, she is a paralyzed mother, and on the other hand, she is suffering from her heart. She once wanted to support her mother, but ten years of squeezing has already exhausted her. Now she is facing the shirk of her younger brother again. When coerced in the name of her mother, she chose to refuse. She said: That woman is your mother, not my mother anymore. Now let’s take a look at her story.
Ten years of infertility adopted girl
Miss Zhang was originally not the biological child of her parents. She was an abandoned baby since she was a child, not her parents. At the age of 6, she was adopted by her current adoptive parents. The specific reason was understood only after she was a little older. It turned out that the adoptive parents were unable to bear children for ten years, and finally had no choice but to adopt a child, so she chose her.
At the beginning, her adoptive parents treated her very well, very good. It can be said to be compliant. made Ms. Zhang feel at home , but she was sensible since she was a child and has no special needs. I don't ask the adoptive parents to buy anything for her. just wants to grow up quickly and support the two elderly people in the future.
Even if a piece of clothing can be worn for many years, even when she is young, she never asks to buy new clothes. She thinks that her adoptive parents are willing to raise her. She is already very grateful.
does not want to waste their money too much. But two years after she came to this home, the situation changed dramatically, and her adoptive parents suddenly became pregnant.
Once she gave birth to a child, her sister fell out of favor and became a dispensable person
The sudden pregnancy of the adoptive parents made them very happy. After having her own baby, the concern for Miss Zhang has plummeted, but Zhang Although the young lady is young, she can understand this kind of family relationship, so she didn't blame her adoptive parents.
My younger brother was born successfully,The adoptive parents are extremely loving, and Miss Zhang loves her brother very much, and she finally realizes the happiness of being a sister. At this time, the 8-year-old she does not know what life will be next to her.
The younger brother has been super-loved by his family since he was born. From babbling to staggering, he grew up under the care of his adoptive father, and rightly, she has almost no care.
Maybe she’s grown up and sensible, Miss Zhang didn’t care about it. After all, she is not her own person, she can understand a bit of unfairness, and she also likes her brother very much, , but her adoptive parents start to be impatient with her every day_ strong16strong.
The beginning of exploitation, ruining the dream of adopting a daughter university for her son
As her younger brother grew up, she also went to junior high school. It may be that the adoptive mother didn't want to see her much, and the school was close, but she still let her live in school.
When she is not going to school on weekends, her younger brother takes care of her. The adoptive mother is busy with housework and cooking. She also likes to play with her younger brother, but she does not receive the care of her adoptive mother.
As long as the younger brother cries, makes trouble, everything is her responsibility, either scolding her or yelling at her, she sometimes feels wronged but knows to tolerate.
Once I went home on Sunday to play with my younger brother. The younger brother, who had always been spoiled, moved her. She gave her a push, but he burst into tears.
After hearing this, the adoptive mother came over without asking why she slapped her in the face and yelled at her, " is a useless thing, so you can take care of your younger brother for a while, so what do you do?"
The 12-year-old Miss Zhang covered her face. She didn't let herself cry, but the tears kept rolling in her eyes.
The reason why she didn't cry in front of her adoptive mother was because the adoptive mother would say she was useless and accustomed to cruelty, so she could only find a quiet place to cry silently.
The eccentricity of the adoptive parents and their dissatisfaction with her,She must be uncomfortable in her heart, but she didn't bear any grudges, because they gave her her life now, for her to go to school, and for her food and housing. She was grateful.
So she studied very hard, thinking about going to school and earning money in the future to repay her adoptive parents, but this dream was shattered.
Because after the college entrance examination, even though she did well in the exam, even if she got the score of a key university, her adoptive parents did not continue to provide for her to study, but on the grounds that the family had difficulties and could not support her tuition, they also had to provide My younger brother went to school, so she broke her dream of college.
then urged her to go out to work to earn money. She was exactly 18 that year, and her adoptive parents had calculated the age to support her to adulthood, and the legal responsibility had been completed.
Endless requests, which helped support the greed of adoptive parents
Miss Zhang started working and wandering at a young age. She went to many cities and experienced many hardships, but her monthly salary was transferred away by her adoptive mother. .
Sometimes she can't even pay for her own living expenses. 's adoptive mother still complains that she has given her too little. She raises a white-eyed wolf and knows to save her private money.
Years have passed. Ms. Zhang is still poor, but her hard work has also paid off. She has an excellent performance in accounting, and she is very sensitive to numbers. Appreciation, through company funding, completed the accounting major of adult university.
And at the same time that the salary rose, she also applied for a certified public accountant. After making great efforts, she passed the exam once, which made her even more hopeful of her life, although the monthly salary was still transferred by her adoptive mother. Most of it, but she is no longer the impoverished girl anyhow.
As she gets older, she is 23 years old, and her adoptive parents are no longer satisfied to receive her monthly salary to compensate the family, but start to urge her to marry.
And Ms. Zhang was also lucky, met a boyfriend who was kind to her, although the family is not rich,But she was not poor either. After her adoptive parents knew about it, they immediately urged her to get married. The couple who had been together for two years should indeed be married, so she married her boyfriend.
The wedding gift and adoptive parents asked for 100,000, and the dowry was not given to the adoptive parents because of the long marriage. This made her a little ashamed of her in-laws. Fortunately, the quality of her in-laws was also high and did not agree with her. The adoptive parents care about it, but they also leave a bad impression in their hearts.
After marriage, Ms. Zhang lived a happy life, but her adoptive parents did not let her go. On the grounds of raising her for more than ten years, she asked Ms. Zhang to give them a monthly alimony of 1,000 yuan. Ms. Zhang also agreed.
Now the salary is high, she has a family, and the salary card belongs to her completely, so compared to most of the previous salary, Miss Zhang really feels that the 1,000 yuan is not much, so she happily agreed.
But this also laid the groundwork for what happened later.
Sacrificing her daughter’s happiness for profit, and becoming an eternal wound in the heart of the adopted daughter
Three years after marriage, Ms. Zhang had a child, and she naturally couldn’t work when she was pregnant. Fortunately, her husband had a stable job. , She quit her job and concentrates on taking care of the children at home. Her parents-in-law did not retire and had her own salary. Sometimes she subsidized the family, so the financial pressure was not great.
However, with the outbreak of the epidemic, the husband’s company was not profitable and was facing bankruptcy. Many people, including the husband, were fired. Now the family has no source of income and the economy becomes tense. They all want to go out to find work, but during this period How many companies are hiring people.
So she can only be in unemployed, this lacks the source of wages, but also repays the mortgage, car loans, pressure soaring, the husband asked her to negotiate with her adoptive parents, the alimony will be suspended first, and then the economic turnover will be over. Fill.
When she discussed with her adoptive parents, they immediately touched their interests, so she cried and scolded that she had no conscience and was unwilling to support the elderly, and she had to go to the court to sue her.
Miss Zhang’s grievance,Moreover, this matter also caused dissatisfaction with her husband, and then quarreled with her adoptive parents. Her husband also severely warned her not to be filial and filial. Her contribution over the years has already paid off for her nurturing grace, and they still have no shame in asking for it, which has been touched. After Ni Lin, if she still bears so blindly to give, he will choose to end this marriage with her.
In the eyes of adoptive parents, their daughter's happiness is definitely not as good as their source of income. They even yelled at their daughter for divorce and got divorced. It would be a big deal to marry again.
Listening to the words of her adoptive parents, Miss Zhang’s eyes are full of despair. Her happiness in her marriage is worthless in the eyes of her adoptive parents. She has chosen to sacrifice her happiness at any time for her own benefit. Seeing through their cruelty, she decisively cut off her contribution and contact.
Retribution after hemiplegia, the daughter is not in filial piety
In June today, a younger brother who had not contacted for more than a year suddenly called and said that his mother was sick and paralyzed. I hope she can come to see her mother. Forced to sever the relationship with her adoptive parents due to despair, but she was also a little ashamed. After all, she had been raising her for more than ten years, so she rushed back to her hometown.
Looking at the adoptive mother lying on the bed, she still felt a little pain, but she didn't think so. When she saw her, she shouted insults that she was an unfilial daughter. The white-eyed wolf did not support her parents, and she attributed her paralysis this time to her non-payment of support, and she had to go out to work to earn money, which led to her paralysis.
Miss Zhang looked at the stubborn and unreasonable adoptive parents, the last bit of nostalgia in her heart also disappeared without a trace, and her husband was even more complete. He turned his head and left after listening to the insults of the adoptive parents.
And she really felt that she shouldn't come this time, but she couldn't bear the last bit of kindness in her heart, so she was proud and unhappy. Then she fell 5,000 yuan and turned around and walked out of the house.
Later, because the younger brother was going to college and didn’t have time to take care of his adoptive mother, he even called and asked her to take care of her mother or ask her to come to her house to recuperate. Miss Zhang directly refused.This is so unreasonable to make trouble without being together. If she comes to her house, will the family be able to live in peace.
But in the eyes of my younger brother, I feel that my sister is wrong. After all, after raising her for more than ten years, she should be filial. He also said that although the mother is wrong and unreasonable, she is still your mother after all.
Miss Zhang was angry and laughed. At this time, she knew she was a mother, but she didn’t have the appearance and responsibility of being a mother from beginning to end. My mother is gone, and I told my brother that if he is willing to maintain this relationship between siblings, it is better to be unwilling to sever the relationship and never contact.
finally hung up the phone in silence, and they haven't contacted yet again. And Ms. Zhang has done the utmost benevolence and righteousness in the relationship between her adoptive parents, and she can be regarded as ending this distorted kindness with a clear conscience.
Concluding remarks
Love is mutual, only if you love others, others will respect you, love you, and endlessly demand without paying, only in exchange for endless sadness, and forced grace .
Therefore, parents’ love must be correct and fair, and they cannot exchange endless benefits in the name of love and the duty of support. This will only hurt the hearts of the children and change the family relationship. In the end, the kindness will no longer be there. Severed, strangers from now on.
After reading Ms. Zhang's family story, do you think she should sever relationship with her adoptive parents? And in the face of such a deformed family relationship, what choice would you make? Please leave a message in the comment area to talk about your thoughts, and remember to follow me.
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