text | Miss Bai
It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, but for some things, he always can't make up his mind and choose you firmly.
keeps asking you to wait, always telling you not to think too much, it consumes your patience and enthusiasm, and when he finally wants to make a decision, you are exhausted.
Emotions cannot withstand procrastination, especially these three points. The more procrastinated, the easier it is to cause problems.
fit predecessor
old saying,Easy to ask for priceless treasures, rare lovers.
Today in fast-paced, affectionate people are definitely rare species, and women will cherish such men when they meet them.
It is reasonable to say that such a person can give women a great sense of security in their relationships; but in reality, there are some "affectionate" men who keep women jealous. He He also pretended to be affectionate.
There are still pictures of ex-girlfriends in the album, which I turn over in two days to cherish the past; there are also chat records with ex-girlfriends in WeChat, and I always send a few suggestive words late at night, I miss you ancient.
You say he doesn't love you, he treats you well, you say he loves you, but you always think he has reservations.
You think he can walk out if you give him some time, but this kind of "affectionate" person will forever indulge in the past, can't let go of his ex-girlfriend, and won't let the current you leave, see It seems affectionate, but in fact the most ruthless.
In his mind, you are just a poor imitator of his predecessor, what he wants,It is the person in the past relationship, not the you in front of me.
His "affectionate" personality is just a protective color for the cowardly self. People who dare not say goodbye to the past cannot welcome a happier future.
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I am also very concerned about you in my feelings. There are always birthday gifts for the holidays. If you have any help, you can arrive in time and help.
When you are full of joy, working hard for the future of two people, you suddenly cannot remember who you are to him.
said he is a girlfriend, he has never confessed to you, let alone take you to see your parents and recognize friends; let’s call you a normal friend,But he has done holding hands, hugging and kissing, and he has never heard of such a close relationship with ordinary friends.
You ask him who you are, and he always blames you for making trouble: "What do you think it is? What is it."
br17span , Maybe he had left a retreat for himself from the beginning. She is still single in front of others, and only when she needs comfort and support do she think of the woman who has been hidden in the snow.
If he really loves you so much, he has already taken you to join his life circle without even making it public.
Love is supposed to be a warm thing, why bother yourself to reconcile an unseen relationship. What you really need is someone who can hold you no matter how bright the light is.
uncertain future
movie " King of Comedy " in such a line: a man The saddest,There is nothing more than meeting the woman who wants to take care of her life most at the most powerless age.
Many times, what makes a man suddenly have a goal in life and a focus on his career is not only his own ambition to get ahead, but also a woman he loves.
On the contrary, if a person has been with you for a long time, but still hangs around, does his own way, and never talks to you about future plans, then you should pay more attention.
Maybe he doesn't know the direction of his future, maybe he has planned everything in his future, but there is no place for you.
In his heart, you are not the one who can share the ups and downs with him. I'm looking for you if I'm disappointed, and I won't reply to your news if I'm happy. Anyway, you're just a temporary travel companion.
Don’t always believe what he said, before the time comes, you are not ready; the man who really loves you, works hard and makes money, always talks about your future life, he I must want to marry you home.
A good love is not a moment of good affection.But I know that meeting you is not easy, so I will cherish it.
Hayao Miyazaki said: "I believe that in this world, some people have some things and love the first time they see them, they are destined to be like a tree for the first time. Like a tree, it grows in the heart and lives forever."
It is a very happy thing to be firmly chosen by others. I hope that the person you choose carefully can also choose you firmly.
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