The Xiamen epidemic has been out for more than half a month. For me, an office worker, this half month has been fidgeting. why? My daughter is taking lessons online, but her mother-in-law, who is retired as a primary school teacher, can’t help at all. I have to teach the children word by word after get off work. This day is too tired.
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Classes were suspended in Xiamen on September 14. My mother-in-law was very helpful, and came to my house on the night of the 13th to pick up my daughter. She feels that this online class will not be too short. Both of us are busy with work, so we definitely can't take care of the children. She takes it away and can do some counseling.
I thankfully agreed. To be honest, my mother-in-law did this beyond my expectation.
Why? Because I am the mother of a chicken baby , starting from my daughter's middle class, she has to learn two hours of English and do one hour of math every day. It wasn't me who played. When my daughter was just in the first grade, she could read chapters proficiently in both Chinese and English, and she was able to answer fluently in spoken English, and she couldn't keep up with the speed of doing arithmetic problems. I'm very proud.
But her mother-in-law disagrees. She didn't object to my enlightenment to my daughter in English and reading, but she strongly opposed my letting my daughter rush to learn mathematics. She said that the child's thinking ability has not yet developed to that stage, it makes no sense to run too much.
I didn't listen to her. I bought elementary school textbooks and taught her math through various apps. It’s not me, my second-grader daughter, starting the fourth-grade word problems, there are no problems at all. Therefore, this online class is another opportunity for me.
My mother-in-law is an elementary school teacher. Although she is not good at English, she still has the ability to do more reading comprehension by letting her daughter finish fourth grade mathematics in one or two months.
On the night when my daughter was picked up, I swiped and found that children in the lower grades of elementary school don't need to follow the timetable for online lessons. The teacher will send a link to today's study. I decided at the moment that my daughter would not be allowed to attend the school classes, and my mother-in-law would directly teach her new knowledge.
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That night,I ran to my mother-in-law's house. The distance between our two families is not too far. Let's walk for 15 minutes, in the neighborhood next door.
I set up my daughter's task for the next day. During the day, she needs to review the English class I took with her in the evening, learn a unit of mathematics, and read for three hours. In the evening I come back from get off work and take her to English class.
The mother-in-law was puzzled: "No need to attend school?" I told her, no need to attend, just put the math on it during this time.
Who knows that the mother-in-law will be angry at once: "You rush to rush to rush, the class that the child should take, the exercise that should be done still have to do. You are not asking me to take her online class, you are not leaving any rest space We!"
I laughed angrily at the time. I started teaching the second grade knowledge when she was in her big class. Is it necessary to repeat it?
"Am I a teacher, or are you a teacher?" The mother-in-law was dissatisfied.
"I'm her mother!" My words are everywhere.
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On the first day of the online class, learning videos of various subjects in the Dingding Group were posted. I took a look and found that all the courses my daughter has mastered. As for science and the like, it will be fine when she goes back to school.
But when I returned to my mother-in-law's house, I saw my grandparents and grandchildren were doing scientific experiments. My mother-in-law didn't know where to bring some dirty bottles and cans. They laughed happily.
I asked: "How much math have you learned? Have you eaten?"
The air suddenly quieted down.
Mother-in-law said, today is the first day of online classes, and each subject has tasks. My daughter has finished the Chinese study and math class exercises assigned by the teacher. I also read most of the books in the afternoon. At ten o'clock in the morning, she saw that there were no people downstairs, so she took her daughter downstairs to exercise for an hour.
Dare to be playing this day?
Chinese and mathematics textbooks, hasn't my daughter read them all? I've done the exercises, so why waste that time?
The mother-in-law now showed her majesty as a parent: "I want me to take her to class,I just follow the timetable. If you want an extra meal, I think she will teach her if she has no task today. If I want to train her like you, you can bring it home by yourself! "
I was speechless at once. My husband is not working in Xiamen, and I am worried that I will not be able to work tomorrow when I go home today. Therefore, during the epidemic, he will live in the company.
I don’t even have a chance to find support!
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In the next week, apart from reading and fourth grade mathematics, my daughter only learned half a unit. What's worse, she also had an excuse for the one and a half hour English class I accompanied her in the evening: "Grandma said, for an hour and a half of class at once, I will be very tired in the end. Mom, can we just spend an hour in the future? "
People’s schoolmasters are all catching up at home, my mother-in-law, if I don’t catch up, I’ll give it back to me. I do not care. If you want to take online lessons with me, you can follow the school's timetable! "
I called my husband, and my husband also said: "It's good for my mother to take the child like this. Or, would you let your mother come?" "
Just kidding, my mother doesn’t know a few big characters and asked her to take her daughter online classes. I might as well quit my job and go home!
In addition, there is a community around our company that is a closed zone, so take my daughter to work It’s unrealistic. My mother-in-law is my only support.
I complained to my colleague about my mother-in-law, but my colleague made me content. They all left their children at home in class; I went to my mother to complain, but my mother wanted I am grateful that at least my mother-in-law allowed her daughter to fully develop her morality, intelligence, and body. I really have nowhere to say it.
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For two or three days, the daughter's English has not been spot-checked. Ask her mother-in-law, mother-in-law. Pointing to the news on the Dingding Group and telling me that we must let the children do housework, let the children do more, and let the children know about major events at home and abroad. Therefore, my daughter only does half of the review every morning.
The mother-in-law even told me I,I put too much pressure on my daughter. Now the country implements "double reduction", she wants to reduce the burden on her daughter. After hearing this, my mouth was drinking soup and almost didn't spit out the soup! Suddenly, I missed the summer vacation when I could take my daughter to work. During the summer vacation, my daughter's mathematics and English directly jumped to a level.
At that time, my mother-in-law scoffed at me. Now it was her turn to be the master of the house, and she messed up my plan.
What's more, during the Mid-Autumn Festival, she took her daughter to light incense cases and worship gods.
My husband and I are both firm atheists, but our mother worships God. Before we got married, my husband and I had agreed not to let my daughter come into contact with these feudal superstitions. Therefore, we didn't attend either.
The mother-in-law explained that this is not worship. Instead, there is a link about the origin of the Mid-Autumn Festival on the nail group of her daughter, which mentioned that people prayed to Chang'e during the Mid-Autumn Festival, so she took her daughter to light the incense case, giving her a sense of ritual.
Hehe, a sense of ritual. Does this mean that I’m a mother and never even gave it to my daughter during the Mid-Autumn Festival?
I have said many times, "Don't worship God, don't light incense, why can't my mother-in-law respect me as a mother?"
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I called my husband again, I think, this time I have violated my bottom line. Unexpectedly, her husband actually agreed with her mother-in-law's practice, saying that this would make her daughter more impressed with the Mid-Autumn Festival.
So, to make my daughter more impressed with the knowledge in the textbook, I have to take her around the world? Husband said that I was crazy for the sake of the chicken baby. That's normal for his mother.
How do I listen, how do I feel awkward. I think it must be the mother-in-law who called the old bulletin.
Before this, although my mother-in-law and I had a little conflict, at least there was no quarrel. But I can't swallow this breath all the time.
So, when I had dinner at my mother-in-law's the next day, I didn't have a good face.
My mother-in-law called me to serve food. I saw the white rice in my mother-in-law's bowl and put my chopsticks in it. Although I know, the old people feel that this is very unlucky.I also think that it's bad luck to light incense!
The mother-in-law's face changed: "Aling, don't you know that it was just for funerals to insert chopsticks like this? You are so dissatisfied with me?"
No, I just think it’s much more convenient that the rice and chopsticks can be served together. What about funerals? That’s feudal superstition."
Mother-in-law stopped talking. I think I am victorious.
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After eating, the mother-in-law told me very calmly that from now on, she would not welcome me to her house to eat and bring children. When I go to work, she can take care of me, and I have to follow her habit in online classes. She can't understand my chicken baby, just as I can't understand her to take her baby online classes. I got off work and came to her house to pick up the baby. Whether the child eats with me or not, I can make the decision on my own, as long as I say in advance.
I was stunned. Am I being driven out of the house by my mother-in-law? Fortunately, we have our own little home. Or, don’t I have to go back to my natal home or be homeless?
The mother-in-law then went to our family group and notified the incident. Said that she is not obligated to take care of me, and similarly, when she gets old in the future, she does not need me to take care of her. She can go to a nursing home.
also said that the most important thing is character. Even if you can't understand the old man's behavior, you can't curse.
My mother-in-law gave the order to evict the guests, and I had no face to stay any longer and took my daughter back to my home. I asked my daughter, did you feel wronged at grandma's house? My daughter told me that she has been happy every day since the online class. Grandma will teach her homework and play with her.
Look, this is the sugar-coated cannonball! The mother-in-law took her daughter's heart away. In this way, is it to provoke the relationship between our mother and daughter?
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I was too angry, so I went directly to my natal family to find my mother to complain. Being so bullied by her mother-in-law, I believe my mother will not be able to swallow this breath.
She won't let me go to dinner, I'm not willing to go yet!
After listening to what I said, my mother slapped me with a backhand. "If I were your mother-in-law,I beat you on the spot! Are you cursing her to die? Why is she sorry for you? "
Mom also said, I dare not let my daughter worship God in my mother-in-law's house, or dare I do it in my mother-in-law's house? Didn't I just nod my head habitually? In fact, it is because of my grandmother's kindness to me that I am aggressive.
"Don't say your mother-in-law doesn't listen to you, give your children online lessons. It is the rule that children should do what they do at any time. You think online classes are too slow, why don't you just stop letting her go to school? Go, I will take you back to your mother-in-law's house, and apologize! "
After all, I still didn’t go back to my in-law’s house. I don’t understand, it’s my own child, why can’t I make arrangements for her time? My mother-in-law has repeatedly taken the child against my wishes. Does it make sense for her?
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This is the story of the daughter of a friend of my mother. She told the people around her about being kicked out by her in-laws. I narrate it in the first person.
This time, I stand in line with her mother-in-law. But, I understand She.
I am also a dick, and I also think that the progress of the school is slow. Even if the mother-in-law brings her baby to worship in the name of Mid-Autumn Festival, it is hard to say.
Her big mistake is that she knows the old man’s beliefs. I also did a curse.
In all fairness, this mother-in-law has more than 90% of parents who have children. We cannot simply say that the mother-in-law brought the baby in the wrong way, nor can we say that the mother-in-law, who is a teacher, can’t bring it her own way. Baby. The problem now is that young people want to look at the elderly, and they always look high.
Could it be that I am gifting you to take my baby?
Just such an extreme cock, baby sooner or later Will you be completely broken one day? What do you guys say?
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