Author: Zimo
No one is in middle age, and matures, life tends to be simple and quiet, and you will discover everything after you have experienced it. No matter how carefully you plan your life, it will not be worthy of a destiny arrangement. No matter how hard you work in life, life is sometimes necessary in life, and there is no time to force it. Therefore, letting nature take its course is the best way to live. The so-called "If you meet and cherish, you will not regret if you try your best."
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01. Whether the day is good or not is happiness
"Orphans in the fog" There is more evil, and we must believe in more good."
Days, not stunned, emotional, neither cold nor hot, time repeats day by day, overlapping with the same old things, perhaps, only when you look up sharply It's autumn, and the seasons and scenery are pale.
In a twinkling of an eye, in the late autumn, the flowers are far away. The traces of memory are shallow and shallow. Don't go too much, but the beauty that comes is very little.
People in middle age have a much calmer personality, so they don't care much about encounters and separations in life, learn to get used to, learn to compromise.
I also know that in this world there are too many possibilities, too many impossible, too many results, but there is no one if.
Don't say, if you can turn back time.Time is gentle as water, and the four seasons are like songs. Walking in the bright and bright autumn season, with a touch of simple and elegant feelings, wandering in the depths of time, nodding between the eyebrows, rooting the splendor and quiet beauty of a season in the heart, standing in the fragrant barrier to watch the beauty, This is the best life.
does not say how life can be, but in leisure time, put aside the worldly turmoil, be a quiet person, not smell the noise of the world, only smell the fragrance of the birds and flowers, the heart is at peace, and the years are good.
Just in the light years, I am alone in a cup of tea, watching the blossoming flowers, dancing lightly in time.
When the autumn wind blows, give yourself a faint smile, a shallow expectation, and a beautiful mood with reading the autumn poems. Then, cook snow and make tea, and enjoy the fragrance of a pot of Zen.
In the life of Su Jian, I can enjoy the comfort and peace of my heart, which is what I hope I like.
Perhaps, this is not the best and worst era that Dickens said, but it is indeed a mixed state of life for us.
02. The direction of the heart is a kind of will that can only be found in ordinary days
. "Lonely End": "I firmly believe that people must force themselves to create; fantasy can be changed, but will cannot be transferred. The real talent lies in will."
People are always like this, only when the temperature is low Only when the temperature is high, can I think of the sun.
Actually,Life, there are so many good things waiting for you, not surprised or happy, plain and simple is the best.
is just oneself. It is invisible. When you hit something else and get bounced back, you will understand what you are.
Therefore, when you collide with something very strong, terrible, and high-level, you only know what you are. This is the self.
In this light autumn, spend an afternoon making a pot of white tea , reading a book, and remembering a period of time. This is a kind of enjoyment and a kind of life.
You can fight against yourself, but don't fight against life and time. Only by shaking hands with life and being gentle with time can we discover the goodness of life and understand the beauty of life.
In life, in life, there are always some involuntary distances, and there are always some inadvertent encounters, which are fate, but also cause and effect.
However, whether you care about it or not, it will become the past and memory that you can't go back over time.
The years of a person, the sunshine is cool, the life of a person, the light and shadow are shallow, and the whirling thoughts are always mixed with the sadness in life. The days when a person walks, the world is small, but the emotions are many, but most of them are unsatisfactory.
Sometimes, life makes us lose our beautiful state of mind, and occasionally we cry in the lost state of mind. When we are tired, we fall asleep. After we wake up, we still have to keep smiling and work silently. life.
It is not easy to live, because the past has become a story, whether it is bitter or sweet, you can't pursue it, after all, it is your cause and effect.
It’s not easy to live, because experience has taught us a lot,People take the tea to cool, and things are wrong, and everything becomes a memory in the blink of an eye.
The story of life is like a glimpse of light, I want to repaint it, but it flows away like quicksand, time is gone, life will not only let you eat a bite and grow your wisdom, and teach you a lesson And experience, nothing else.
When everything is over, you also understand that you can lose everything, but you can't lose your soul and will.
The direction of the heart is the best will. It can only return to the ordinary. In ordinary days, in the ordinary life, in the quiet time, perhaps, you can still find yourself. At that time, the will may be the loneliness of life, or the maturity of life.
03. In normal days, even if it is not as good or free, it is necessary to return to zero
. You will become free only when you applaud from outside."
Life, the most comfortable state, is occasionally walking alone, occasionally lively, simple and regular. It can be blooming like a brocade, or it can be simple and simple.
When you feel happy in whatever life you live, at this age, you also know how to save a little time every day, slow down, and touch happiness with your heart.
But sometimes, why, I still leave a regret in the depths of the dusty memory, reminding myself what life is, and let me feel the hard work of life again in a midnight dream , Why is there less return?
No matter how I want to forget the troubles in life,But in every lonely midnight, the pressure and loneliness of those middle-aged people will go with me, making me face the hardships of life again and again.
I want to choose to escape, but the shackles of my helpless life have tightened me, making me unable to breathe, let alone move.
I can only let the vine that survives tighten the wound that was already injured, and leave a scar on my soul, reminding me to persevere from time to time.
People must learn to encourage themselves, reward themselves, and empty themselves when they are alive.
Tell yourself, discard the obsolete, let go of the messy things, don't pay attention to the tatters, right and wrong, tomorrow will be the story.
Unforgettable things, sad feelings, all people and things that cannot be controlled, tomorrow will be smoke clouds.
Don’t let yesterday’s rain affect your mood today. Don't let the troubles of the past affect the current scenery.
Let the heart return to zero, no matter what the past success or failure, no longer nostalgia, just cherish what you have now. Whether the future is good or bad, it is a fateful arrangement, don't worry about it unreasonably.
Worry will not reduce the burden of tomorrow. Humans, live well in front of you, be yourself, and live a simple life; be contented and cherish every day.
No matter how beautiful and brilliant the past, what happiness and sadness you have experienced, let it pass. Life is not easy. Learn to let yourself go.
The important thing is to cherish the present and live the present. Let us empty ourselves, let our hearts return to zero, forget our worries, move forward with a smile, maybe, start again, and travel thousands of miles in life.
04、Brave into life,Only by listening to your heart can you get out of the confinement of yourself
Elias Canetti's "Human Territory": "Let your emotions come freely, stay quietly for a while, then walk away, body I only listen to my own voice in every part of the game.”
Although, I know everything will pass, but it seems that after decades, nothing is caught and nothing is left.
But why are we still struggling in our lives? Still searching for the profound truths in life.
Life is not easy, and it is always a hurdle that cannot be overcome, deep as a knife.
Maybe one day in the future, the past in the dream will be blurred, the yellowing years will lose the scenery, and the desire for future life will still be clear. Even if life is impermanent, it is a lifetime practice. Cannot be abandoned.
Only then will you realize that life is three meals a day, and repeating yesterday is dull. In fact, this is also happiness.
The life of ordinary people is simpler, lighter, and simpler. To live is to be happy. It is best to put your body and mind in firewood, rice, oil and salt.
No matter which level you go up in your life, someone is looking up at you under the stairs, and someone is looking down at you on the stairs.
You raise your head with low self-esteem, and bow your head to be complacent. Only by looking up can you see your true self. Only by listening to your heart can you know what kind of life you want and how to continue your life.
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