Tingting is an ordinary housewife. Her husband is a middle school teacher. Everyone envied her and said that she married a good husband.
Tingting smiles every time she hears people say this, only she knows in her heart that her husband’s job sounds good, but the salary is not high, deducting five insurances and one housing fund a month, she can only get around 3,000 , Even if you add performance, you can barely get enough food and clothing.
Tingting’s husband is teaching in the city. It is more than three hours away from their home. He usually lives on campus and only goes home on weekends.
The patriarchal mother-in-law
In order to reduce the burden of her husband, she wanted to go out and look after the children.
The mother-in-law refused, saying that her health is very bad now. It hurts either here or there. Sometimes she feels dizzy and can't take care of the child at all.
Tingting knew that this was her mother-in-law's rhetoric, and her mother-in-law disliked her and gave birth to a daughter. Since knowing that she gave birth to a daughter, the mother-in-law has never been in their house again, let alone serving her in confinement, even the children are not willing to watch.
Tingting knows her mother-in-law's heart knot, and is forced to have no choice but to think otherwise.
Thinking about it, Tingting decided to become a freelancer. She happened to study liberal arts in college, and she usually likes codewords. Nowadays, many people are submitting articles online? Isn't this just an opportunity to make money?
With the help of friends, Tingting started a freelance life.
Buying a house for his younger brother
After years of development, the child has not only made a profit, but also reduced the pressure on her husband. Let yourself live more confidently.
"Couple alloy, its profit is not gold", Tingting and her husband Mao made a lot of money, and over the years they also saved 450,000.
Tingting’s husband is the eldest of the family, and there is a 10-year-old younger brother below. Seeing that he is still a single dog after a year has passed, this makes her mother-in-law anxious.
The mother-in-law wanted to give her eldest son a second child, but neither Tingting nor her husband had this idea. They would give everything for raising a child, and it would really be impossible to raise another child.
No matter how intimidating the mother-in-law is, the young couple is indifferent. Tingting directly told her mother-in-law: "Mom, it's not that I don't want to have a baby, but no one will help me with the baby after I give birth. You can't afford me and the baby with your son's wages. Why should we bother ourselves?"
Tingting's remarks left her mother-in-law speechless. She knew that she was wrong, so she dispelled this idea.
"It's okay, I also have a son. "The mother-in-law comforts herself.
So watching the youngest son is still single after 30 years old,The mother-in-law was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot, urging her uncle to go on a blind date every day.
My uncle's own conditions are very good, and he works in a state-owned enterprise, but because he doesn't have a house, he has repeatedly failed blind dates.
When her mother-in-law was desperate, she thought of the young couple Tingting. She asked her elder son, "Can I buy a house for my younger brother?" Looking at himself, her husband couldn't bear to refuse directly, saying that he would go home and discuss it with his wife.
Tingting disagrees life and death. They are almost middle-aged. It is the time when there is an old man and a young child. What if there is an accident, what can I do if there is no deposit? Who will they look for then? Will the mother-in-law help? Will the uncle help?
's husband knew that his wife made sense, but he couldn't bear to refuse his mother: "What should I do? I really can't talk to my mother. Besides, I can't watch my brother bachelor."
Tingting It’s not an unreasonable person, and doesn’t want her husband to be embarrassed, and she doesn’t want the whole family to have conflicts, so she came up with a way: "We now have a total of 450,000 deposits, so let’s lend your brother 200,000, and then let him Make an IOU and let him return it to us slowly. This is my last concession."
If you don’t have a free lunch, just go to Tingting _strong230
3p p3pThe younger brother discussed that if the younger brother agreed, they would borrow the money. If the younger brother did not agree, then it could only be forgotten.
The uncle was a bit embarrassed, and discussed with Tingting's husband whether he could lend him all the money, so that the pressure on repaying the loan in the future would be less.
My uncle's request made Tingting a little angry. She felt that she and her husband had done their best. Why are they still not satisfied? It's like owing them.
Tingting is determined not to let go. She did not expect that her mother-in-law came to the door and pointed at Tingting and yelled: "Why are you interfering with my house? The house you live in is my house. If you don’t buy a house, you will give it to me. Move out."
Tingting didn’t rush or worry, and said slowly: "Mom, legally, I am Amin’s wife. This house, including everything in it, has my share. You have no power. Drive me away. If you want to borrow money, but I can only borrow 200,000 yuan, and you still have to pay IOUs, you want to take advantage of me, there is no door. You can also let your son divorce me, and then the property will be divided , I think how do you buy a house for your youngest son?"
The mother-in-law was dumbfounded when she heard that, she didn't say anything for a long time, and left angrily.
In the end, my uncle borrowed 200,000 yuan and wrote an IOU. It didn't take long for the wedding date to be set.
Some parents need to understand the fact that when their children grow up to marry and have children, they should try to learn to let go and not interfere with their children's housework from time to time, so as to make their small family harmonious.
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