Watching the TV series "Daughter of the Qiao Family", my father is 10% better than Qiao. At least Qiao Yicheng knew that he had saved some money, and my dad gave it all to his grandmother. It's a big deal when I need it. My mother felt resentful and didn't understand at first, but now she finally understands.
My husband is such a person. A man in his 30s is still tied up with his mother, and subconsciously still feels that he and his mother are one. This kind of person is very terrible after marriage. Everything is the first in his family. It is really tiring to live with such a person.
In fact, the separation of this new family from the original family is prohibited in traditional Chinese culture. Traditional Chinese families are full of elders’ control over the younger generations. If the younger generations do not feed back the original family, they will be despised and cast aside. Most Chinese men are the reason for " 妈宝男", and the more capable men are, the more powerful they are. They are closely tied to the original family, and they all shoulder the burden of inheriting the family and glorifying the ancestors. .
Chinese women used to be victims, because at that time women can only live by dependent on men, but modern society has given women the ability to work independently and earn economic income, and the power of economic discourse has in turn promoted female consciousness The constant awakening of women has led to the current situation in which women demand that their husbands be separated from their original families in order to maintain the interests of the new family. Continued binding with the interests of the original family leads to an unbalanced distribution of benefits, which is an important reason for the increasing divorce rate.
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