23 years old, only had a short relationship in college.
So my parents have been worrying about my marriage, but I don’t want to get married for a short time.
There are many reasons, the most important is undoubtedly not a stable and high-paying job.
To start a family and establish a business, in my opinion, it should be established first and then a family. In today's society, marriage is too heavy for a boy. One by one, his sense of responsibility, the RV beauties requested by the woman, and the requests of both parents destroyed the bright brilliance in his eyes.
I think that at this age, you should strive without distraction. No matter what degree or major you have, you should be brave enough to go for it.
People only have the opportunity to choose after they have their own wealth and rights. Excellent people can choose others, and you are being chosen before.
I don't think blind dates are undesirable. Many outstanding people have not found their significant other for various reasons, and blind dates can give everyone a chance to meet each other. But for those who ask if they have a car and what their monthly salary is when they meet, if you are asked to choose a RV and your partner, you will probably also choose a house and car. Blind dates are not pure for a long time.
In the Internet age, too many comparisons have spawned. Many people see that when someone who is inferior to you on the Internet turns over after marrying a rich person, their heart becomes instantly unbalanced. Therefore, it’s not right for everyone, and the conditions are worse than their own. This kind of ethos has brought countless young men and women who are single to this day.
So, even if my parents keep urging, I don’t want to go on a blind date early. I am now working in the first year of graduation, and the salary is not high, so I can barely take care of myself. Going to a blind date in a hurry is irresponsible to two people.
Finally, I wish you an early promotion and salary increase, and find your significant other!
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