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Psychology master Rogers said: "The most important thing in life is the ability to make happiness. . It comes from three aspects-letting go of the past, facing the reality and enjoying the present". Life is like a long road. We are struggling with inferiority, sadness, and self-denial. Is it not worth the gain? Learning to reconcile with yourself is the highest life wisdom, so how to do this, please remember three points.
01 Accept your own ordinary We are ordinary, and at every stage of life, we are ordinary and ordinary.
When you are reading, you have to learn step by step. Few people will never forget the knowledge, so they can learn the new while reviewing the old; when working, you must take the responsibility down-to-earth and work hard for each project, so there is a love post Dedication;
When dealing with intimacy, we must be sincere and attentive, and accept the ordinaryness of our parents and lovers. In fact, many times, we reject fantasy, accept our ordinaryness and face reality rationally. This is the beginning of a better life.
The term "personal design" is very popular nowadays, which is to put a certain kind of label on a person's image deliberately. Some people adore vanity, set up beautiful personalities for themselves, and put unrealistic fantasy into real life.
Li Xiang is a junior college student. Her circle of friends is full of pictures of famous brand bags and luxury accessories. It is a check-in card for traveling all over the country, and daily necessities are also good. But Li Xiang is actually a girl born in the county seat.My father is an ordinary worker, while my mother works in farming at home. It is already very hard for her to study.
Every month, she will use various excuses and even threaten her parents to ask for living expenses, and she needs to make a platform loan to maintain her white, rich and beautiful personality. The final repayment deadline has come, and there is nothing I can do about it.
In psychology, the self can be divided into the id and the ideal self. It is correct to have an ideal, but every step towards the ideal must be done by ourselves and down-to-earth. These are all started based on the acceptance of the id.
Emerson once said, "Those who accomplish great things are not great at the beginning." We are not born to be labeled great men, and success always starts with facing ourselves.
Reduce dissatisfaction and meaningless complaints about yourself. Simple things are best not simple, and doing ordinary things well is not ordinary.
No matter in work or life, nothing exists in isolation, more or less there are various connections, just as small things are the foundation and foreshadowing of big things, we just want to do ordinary and simple small things Well, accumulate bit by bit to create success.
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02 Accept your shortcomings
The ancients said: "Gold is not pure, no one is like a perfect stone." Each has its own shining points, and each has its own flaws. It is because of flaws that we are independent and different individuals.
The famous theoretical physicist Yang Zhenning, first came to the United States to do experimental physics, but soon found that he was not as good as his classmates in experimental physics, but began to focus on theoretical physics, and finally got very Great achievement.
Accepting your shortcomings calmly is the key to reconciliation with yourself. Professor Yang’s success lies in his ability to discover his own shortcomings and strengths, and use his strengths to avoid weaknesses, combined with his efforts, to achieve success in the end.
Life is a process of continuous self-discovery, discovering your own shortcomings and shortcomings. Some deficiencies are born, and some deficiencies are acquired bad habits.
To deal with shortcomings, we are frankly accepting our shortcomings and give full play to our best advantages; when dealing with bad habits, we have to change them when we have them, and encourage them if we don't.
Accepting one's own shortcomings is also inevitable to know oneself in a certain way. Learn to accept your own shortcomings in order to discover your own strengths. It will also make you more fully aware that people are imperfect. The biggest mission in life is to maximize your value. Just make up for your shortcomings appropriately. .
03 Facing failure calmly
As the saying goes, "failure is the mother of success". Reconciliation with yourself means to face failure with an open mind. Accepting failure is not evading failure, accepting failure is an objective realization of the law of development of things.
If we understand how things progress, you may understand that failure is inevitable. Continual failure will lead to success. Failure is not terrible. Avoiding failure and denying yourself is the most terrifying.
When you no longer use negative perspectives to recognize failure, you may have a clearer insight into growth.
Yu Le is a newly hired human resources specialist. She is not proficient in the company's procedures. A few small mistakes in the meeting documents caused the meeting data to go wrong. This made her feel self-confident and began to cowardly and hesitate to do things.
Whether in the workplace or in life,We all make mistakes and failures. First of all, everyone has their own expertise and shortcomings. We inevitably have to acquire certain skills through long-term learning. Secondly, failure is not a disadvantage. On the contrary, failure allows us to discover our own shortcomings and reflect on ourselves. Behaviors, and thus learn lessons for success.
To learn to reconcile with yourself, you must face failure rationally, grasp the main points, and understand that resumption is the key.
We are born ordinary, but we are ordinary. Life is long and short, and many people often envy other people's lives. Those who work within the system admire the rich work of private companies, workers in first-tier cities yearn for a relaxed pace of life, and people in small cities yearn for neon nights.
Just like the phrase "people inside want to go out, people outside want to come in." From another perspective, what we have now may be what others desire. In fact, in the end, we will find that life is always committed to facing the facts, reconciling with ourselves, and living an extraordinary life.
Today's topic: Do you know how to reconcile with yourself? Welcome to discuss and exchange.
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