Foreword
In life, we always have to deal with all kinds of people. When faced with malice, we will inevitably feel pain and sadness. But we have not thought about it. Perhaps it is the angle of our interpretation that has increased these malicious influences. If we look down on other people's practices, we won't do much harm to ourselves. This is a kind of indifferent. People at higher levels in life often know how to cultivate their hearts. They do not pursue a vigorous life, but they can reap the peace and beauty.
I have seen the calmness of big winds and waves
Whenever we talk to someone, we will immediately feel his energy. He is urgent, uneasy, or excited. , We can immediately perceive. This emotion will also infect us, allowing ourselves to adjust our attitude towards each other accordingly. And people who have seen big winds and waves, they are often particularly calm. will not get excited because of a little thing, let alone pull everyone to cry because of their sadness. Their have their own opinions in their hearts. They don't like things or sorrow themselves. People like
may be because they have seen many complicated people and things in the process of growing up, and their calmness is the practice of insight into the world. If you encounter ups and downs in life in the future,They can still move forward fearlessly. In the workplace, they are more suitable for the position of decision-makers. On the one hand, you can make a calm decision at critical moments, and on the other hand, calm emotions can stabilize people's hearts. Dealing with such people will also be affected to be more sensible and focused, and get rid of your anxious and ostentatious faults.
The attitude of gentlemen's friendship
When dealing with people, too much enthusiasm may not have a good effect, especially at first sight, it may cause discomfort. It is best to uphold the attitude of "gentle’s friends are as light as water" , is not only close, nor will it be particularly alienated. Faced with other people’s censure and slander, calm people will not be really affected. They know what they are like and what the villain is like. They don't put too much emphasis on the relationship between people. In fact, it is the process of cultivating the mind.
Many people will be tired of interpersonal relationship, not only to take care of other people’s emotions, but also to take care of the interests of all parties _span _strong.In fact, letting go of the obsession of interpersonal interaction is no more than emphasizing these interpersonal relationships, but it is relaxed and at ease. For decades in life, the most important thing is to be accountable to yourself, not to meet the expectations of others. Bad people, inappropriate relationships, should stay away from them appropriately. Even if you admire the other party again, you must reserve some space to give the other party more respect and give yourself more freedom.
is the self-cultivation
Life is not always a good situation, sometimes at high points, sometimes at low points. When you are proud, everyone can laugh from the bottom of your heart, and when you are disappointed, the bottom line of human nature is the most test. Some people will vent their dissatisfaction to the weaker. Some people will sell their souls in exchange for their own capital. High-level people will stick to their beliefs even in difficult situations. does not resent fate or begs for mercy. This is a kind of self-cultivation. There are few people like this, but they shine in the crowd.
People with a strong inner world, they will accumulate their own energy and take themselves out of difficult situations. It is precisely because of such self-confidence that they do not panic, and do not go to the doctor in a hurry, but calm abnormality. You only need to follow your own plan step by step, and you can finally master your life. Even if hit to the bottom, they still have the courage to return to the top. They are the real powerhouses in life, not to be surprised but to move forward courageously. Maybe in normal times, they will not show this side, but in the long years of life, this inner side will surely shock others.
is the pursuit of indifferent fame and fortune
Life is alive, but it’s just a few pieces of silver.It's harder to be indifferent to fame and fortune. Marriage must solve the house problem, and children must go to a good school to go to school. If they don't work hard, they will become losers in the eyes of their peers. We are not in the mood to think about poetry and the distance, and some are just constantly fighting back against life. People at high levels have a different state of life. They can give up high salaries for their ideals, and they can become rebellious for what they love. They are the challengers of this secular society, may not be eye-catching, but they have inner firmness.
Their external appearance may be young people who pursue their musical dreams with their guitars on their backs, or they may be young couples who give up their iron rice bowls to travel around the world, or they may insist on funding poor children’s scavengers elder. What they do is not about money, nor for any benefit, but only for the love of the heart. This is the purest attitude towards life, not only pure, but also naive and romantic. I think I will recall it many years later, and I will not regret what I did today. Who said that fame and fortune is the only pursuit of the world? Those fame and fortune that make everyone go round and round are also left behind. Their inner indifferentness is admirable.
Conclusion
The higher the level of people, the more "cold" they are, because they know how to "cultivation". They are not keen on fame and fortune, and the things that many people pursue for a lifetime are not worth mentioning to them. In the eyes of others, famous cars and watches are luxury goods they dream of. But in their view, it is not the ultimate pursuit. They also have an attitude of "friendship between gentlemen is as pale as water" when interacting with people. does not take advantage of others,Nor will it condone the greed of others. The most important thing to make friends is . The exchange of hearts and souls. Only when they can share each other will they continue their friendship .
For ordinary people, it is inevitable to panic. High-level people have already cultivated calmly and calmly, even in the face of strong winds and waves, they can deal with it calmly. Even if you reach the bottom of your life, you will not disrupt your own rhythm, but will come out calmly and firmly. Life is a long journey, and what kind of attitude is used to face it is very important. Only the inner strength and calmness can overcome the difficulties and realize the dreams in the heart.
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