Some time ago, a girlfriend of my university broke up with her boyfriend. You may think it’s nothing when you see this, but the next development is unacceptable. My girlfriend found out that she was pregnant after breaking up and she was with a boy. After speaking, the other party said that he didn't want the child, and said in a good name: It was for her future well, and the other expressions were gone.
My girlfriend and this boy met when they participated in club activities in their sophomore year. Afterwards, they got in touch with each other slowly. They were once an enviable pair on campus, and they both met. I passed my parents, I thought they could go to the end happily, but what I didn't expect was that the boy broke up just a few days ago.
After the breakup, my girlfriend has been very uncomfortable. After all, five years of relationship, but I didn’t expect the more uncomfortable still to come. Just a few days after the breakup, my girlfriend found out that she was pregnant. After the hospital confirmed, after thinking and thinking, I told the man, but the man’s attitude made her even more sad. The boy made it clear that he did not want the child, and he also made an excuse for my girlfriend’s future. It's all gone.
Actually, during their relationship, this boy has always been very inferior, and has always felt that he is not worthy of my girlfriend, especially after the failure of his business last year, he was hit hard, he was devastated and had no work for several months. I always rely on my best friend to work and support.
The reason for breaking up this time is that I am not worthy of my girlfriend and feel that I am dragging her down. After the breakup, she can find a better boyfriend.
Not to mention the breakup, but if the child is irresponsible, it is already very scumbag. Therefore, girls must keep their eyes open when looking for a partner, and recognize the person well to prevent the final sadness and hurt. body.
So what are the performances of boys with low self-esteem?
1. Fear of being denied by others
For men with low self-esteem, sometimes others can remember a negative sentence for a lifetime, and they will always remind themselves to do better next time and not make such mistakes again. From this point of view, there are still some merits.
2. Easy to be emotional and even violent behaviors
For confident men, the more confident they are, the less disdainful they are to conquer women with violence, because they are good enough to face the women they like. They are happy to show their shortcomings, because they know that they do not cover up their weaknesses, even if there are some small shortcomings, it does not prevent them from becoming better.
Men with low self-esteem are the opposite. They are afraid of exposing their shortcomings and fear that they are not worthy of you. Once they feel that they have not received the respect they deserve and exceed their tolerance, they may even act violently.
3. Always say that you are not good
For men with inferiority complex, when doing things, they always feel that they can do nothing, but everyone is not perfect, who Can one thing be truly perfect?
A man with low self-esteem, even a small thing, they will feel that they can't do well, afraid of making mistakes, losing face, and being laughed at by others. But if you don’t believe in yourself, who can you expect to believe in you?
4. Like to be alone
For a man with inferiority complex, they prefer to be alone anytime, because then they don’t have to contact strangers and don’t worry about where they don’t. Good and ridiculed by others.
V. Men who are prone to gains and losses in relationships and jealous of each other
Men with inferiority complex tend to suffer from mistrust of themselves, misfortunes, and jealousy towards their girlfriends because they are worried that they are not worthy of themselves. The other party often tries to test whether you love him or not. He is suspicious and insecure all day long, but he does not know that such behavior is more likely to aggravate the breakdown of the relationship.
Maybe some girls have fallen into this emotional vortex. If you feel that you love this person, then you have to encourage him in your life, avoid verbal blows, and give him more positive energy. Feelings can be more stable.
Of course, the girl who hasn’t fallen in yet must keep her eyes open,Because such feelings are really exhausting. Many young girls are falling in love for the first time, and they may still be ignorant of feelings, so parents must pay attention to help them check it out, otherwise the end result may be sad and hurt, regretting for life.
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