I am a divorced single woman. I am 43 years old. I don’t usually have any special hobbies. I like to play mahjong with friends in my spare time, or go to the chess room near my home to make up a table. I never thought about how much money I would win from playing mahjong, but it was just a pastime.
Although I am almost middle-aged, I still look a little bit taller, and I have maintained my body well, and look younger than my actual age. Because I have participated in dance training for a period of time and walked in the crowd, I dare not say how eye-catching it is, and I will welcome a few admiring eyes.
I work in a state-owned enterprise with good efficiency. My child follows his dad and meets me every week for dinner or fun. Although we are divorced, my ex-husband and I are still like friends. We did not turn our heads into enemies because of the breakdown of our marriage. .
It should be said that I cherish my family very much, but life will not proceed according to my own imagination. There will be many things unexpected, even caught off guard. The ex-husband is in business, and he has a lot of daily entertainment. In the process of contact with a daughter of an official family, he empathizes with each other.
When I got divorced, it was probably out of guilt. My ex-husband gave me a lot of compensation. In the city where I live, my conditions are considered to be middle-to-high. But I didn't think about starting a family anymore. Now the child is also older. Frankly speaking, I also want to live a free life.
Personally, the popular chess room is not a high-end place. I have never been to it. In my imagination, those places are all smoky and smoky. So playing cards is to ask a few friends to go to the teahouse for entertainment.
Things changed because of a friend of mine. Call this friend Xiaoli for now! Xiaoli's sister opened a chess and card room and called me to join in. Because of my friend's face, it was natural for me to refuse. After I went to play it once, I discovered that the popular chess room was not as unbearable as I thought.
Sister Xiaoli’s chess and cards are all separated boxes, and the environment is also good, and Sister Xiaoli is very passionate about me. During the process of playing cards, she will add tea and water from time to time.I also put seasonal fruits next to me, which won me a lot of favor.
After following Xiaoli to play a few cards, she also left contact information with her sister. Sometimes, Sister Xiaoli would call me alone and ask if I have time to help her make up the table. My work is lighter and I have more time. Usually I will accept Miss Li's invitation.
And when playing cards, Sister Xiaoli will always say to her boyfriend who smokes: "You smoke a little, don't smoke Xiaozhen." My nickname My name is Xiaozhen, and all my acquaintances call me that.
After playing several times, I found that a retired gay man likes to feed me cards as long as he plays at the same table with me. He seems to know what cards I need to touch, and he will always play them. I am in a good mood, and I will inevitably say a few more words to him.
This gay man is 57 years old. He was a middle-level cadre in the unit before retirement. His personal knowledge, self-cultivation, and income are all at a relatively high level. I am commensurate with him as Brother Li. I didn't have too much contact with Brother Li. Only when we met in the chess and card room, we would chat politely.
One afternoon after the game ended, Brother Li came out behind me and said to me: "Xiaozhen, my cell phone is dead, can you borrow your cell phone and let me call home." I didn't hesitate. Lent the phone to Brother Li.
As a result, not long after I got home, I received an unfamiliar message: "Xiaozhen, thank you for borrowing my mobile phone. I’m Brother Li. In the chess room, a highly qualified person like you Girls are rare, and poker friends speak highly of you."
I responded politely, and after a while, Brother Li added my WeChat account. I didn't add it at the time. After a few days after I finished playing cards with Li Ge in the chess and card room, Li Ge asked me why I didn't add his WeChat account. I said I didn't pay attention, so I added it.
From now on, Brother Li will always send me some caring greetings. This is also normal. There are no overly intimate words, and it is not worth fussing. But Brother Li's greetings are different from others, and Brother Li's greetings are always accompanied by red envelopes.Either you invite me to breakfast, or you win money and give me a share.
is all small money, but this way of expression is pleasing. Gradually, Brother Li and I became friends who talked about everything. But my mind is very clear, and the scope of conversation is limited to daily trivial matters and never involves family emotions. Li Ge tactfully mentioned the contradiction with his wife several times, and I circumvented this topic, and Li Ge seldom mentioned it again.
Once I fell ill and stayed in the hospital for a few days. During the days of hospitalization, Li Ge gave me food every day, and he said that the food outside is not delicious at home. If my family were also there, Brother Li said that he was entrusted by the boss of the chess and card room to deliver the meal.
After I was discharged from the hospital, Li Ge invited me to visit the surrounding attractions a few times to relax me. I didn't go to play with Brother Li alone. Instead, I called Xiaoli or other friends. Brother Li didn't show any discomfort, but said that there are too few friends because of the crowd.
I’ve been in contact for a few months like this. On a rainy night, Brother Li called me and said that I had a quarrel with his wife. I was alone outside. Can I talk to him? He was drinking alcohol alone. . Thinking about the care of me since I got along with Brother Li, especially during the days when I was sick and hospitalized, I agreed.
I don’t know if it was Li who drank a little too much, or was really sad, and told me a lot of his stories. Women like to hear the stories of men's struggles, especially if this kind of struggle has achieved results, it is extremely attractive.
At the end, Li Ge took my hand and said, "Sister Zhen, it's a pity! If I can meet you when I am young, I will do everything for you." I Without pulling the hand back, everything happened. The development of brother Li and I was extremely secretive, and I was really worried about being known by others.
I am not short of money. The reason why I occasionally get together with Li Ge may be due to lack of emotion or comfort. No matter how rich a person is and live alone, there will inevitably be emptiness. The appearance of Brother Li fills my occasional gap.I also feel dependent.
Sister Xiaoli’s people in the chess room are pretty good. I haven’t seen anything like a quarrel. Even if it’s a bit unpleasant sometimes, usually under the persuasion of Sister Xiaoli, they all smile at each other and shake hands. Make peace. I come here more often.
One afternoon, a man exuding elegant temperament came, about 30 years old. Sister Xiaoli arranged to play cards at the same table as me. This man seldom talked and was very angry at playing cards, but his hands were so dark that he didn't seem to be playing cards.
and also said jokingly: "Oh! I'm embarrassed to give you some cannons." The poker friends all smiled and said, "It's okay, we like to be with people like you." Let's play together."
Later, he played several cards with this elegant male poker friend. He spoke politely and won a lot of goodwill. I am also in, playing cards with happy people, and I feel comfortable. It's just that we didn't communicate too much, we went our own way after the cards were played, and there was no other intersection.
It just so happened that once I was shopping in the market, because I was short of money, I said a few words about the vendors who sold the things. I didn't expect the vendor to be more fierce than me. I said something awkward. I was so angry that I quarreled with the vendor. When it comes to quarreling, where am I the opponent of others.
I was very angry. When I was about to turn around and leave, this elegant boyfriend showed up and said a few words to the vendor, and said to the vendor in a ferocious manner: "You are still justified when you are short of money. I Take you to the police station, and you will come over to me." The vendor was frightened, and quickly apologized with a smile on his face.
When people are wronged, they will always be moved when they get help from others. I did the same, and invited this elegant boyfriend to dinner. During the conversation, I learned that his name was Xiaohei, but he was just an ordinary wage earner. And they are all 31, not married, and no girlfriend.
Xiao Hei has a different kind of temperament. He looks weak in appearance, revealing a bookish aura, but he is also very chivalrous in dealing with people.He is very upright, what to say, and it’s not tiring to get along with this kind of people, and you don’t need to be wary or worry.
later became familiar with it, Xiao Hei would also play a little joke with me, praise my good figure and so on. Then one day, Xiao Hei invited me to dinner and sang, saying that it was his birthday. I happily participated and gave Xiao Hei a beautiful lighter as a birthday gift.
In the process of singing, Xiao Hei's friends left one after another, and in the end only I and Xiao Hei were left. Xiao Hei cried with obvious drunkenness, saying that he had failed in life. He hadn't even talked about his girlfriend, and he had lived in vain all his life. Suddenly he hugged me, I have a good impression of Xiao Hei, and my heart is pounding.
I made Xiaohei. I feel that although Xiao Hei has no money, he is a kind and righteous man. He once bought me a gold bracelet and gave it to me. I didn't see this gold bracelet in my eyes. I just thought Xiao Hei was very emotional.
While enjoying being cared for and being cared for, I also handled the relationship with Brother Li and Xiaohei very carefully. But this kind of thing can not be seamless, Li Ge asked me how to get together with Xiao Hei, I think Li Ge has no right to control my life. For this reason, there was a quarrel with Li Ge.
Xiao Hei should have also heard or knew that the relationship between me and Brother Li is relatively close, but Xiao Hei has not asked me anything, I prefer to be with Xiao Hei. Brother Li felt that he was better than Xiao Hei except that he was older than Xiao Hei and had no advantage. He humiliated him in the chess room.
As a result, Xiao Hei and Brother Li moved their hands. To be precise, it was Brother Li who smashed an ashtray on the small blackhead first, and Xiao Hei made it back. Finally, after everyone's persuasion, it didn't make trouble at the police station. This incident made me faceless and never go to the chess room again.
I began to reflect on myself and felt that all of this was caused by myself. I didn't control my emotions, or it was because I didn't hold onto my own principles to cause such a big scandal.
There is nothing wrong with getting along with Brother Li,I should treat him like an elder brother; when getting along with Xiao Hei, I should treat him like a brother. It's a pity that I didn't have a good sense of measure, which led to a big mistake. Taking a step back and saying, I shouldn't wander between Li Ge and Xiao Hei.
In order to get out of the shadow of this incident, I took a long vacation to travel abroad for more than half a month before coming back. After returning, I did not live in my own home, but stayed at my parents’ house for more than a month to make myself feel better. Completely calm down.
Neither Brother Li nor Xiao Hei have been looking for me. They met Xiao Hei once in the street. Xiao Hei nodded and smiled at me. I also smiled back, wishing Xiao Hei could get married soon. Brother Li had never seen him again, and heard that he went to the city where the child lived with his wife.
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