likes a person, usually in such a state-starting from the appearance, falling into talent, and being loyal to character. It is conceivable that in a happy love, the value of beauty occupies a very important position.
Today’s case is an inspiring story about how a professional woman successfully transformed from a blind date to the goddess pursued by men.
Case background
Nicole (pseudonym) is a bank executive, 34 years old. When she was young and vigorous, her attention was focused on work.
Under the urging of friends and family, she thought of her partner's problem. She is not young, so she agreed to go on a blind date.
However, Nicole failed almost every blind date.
is not the man too much, or people dislike her age and even dress up.
Finally, she met Wen Yan (a pseudonym), who was outstanding and had a higher education.
Nicole fell in love at first sight. However, Luohua deliberately, and flowing water is merciless.
As soon as Wen Yan saw Nicole himself, he immediately expressed his unwillingness to develop with her.
Nicole is a strong woman. When she was rejected, she did not lose confidence.
She found me through some channels, hoping to change her image through professional guidance,Catch up with her favorite male god.
recovery process
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At first glance, I saw the image of Nicole. As a professional image designer, I immediately shook my head. At the age of 34, it is not too old for women, but this age exudes the charm of mature women.
In front of me, Nicole is wearing old black-rimmed glasses, wearing backwards, her skin is rough and dull, and she looks like a woman in her 40s or 50s.
As the saying goes, "three-point look, seven-point dress", whether a person is beautiful depends mainly on whether you know how to dress.
Considering Nicole's image transformation, I took her to the mall to buy some clothes that suit her style, told her some relevant dressing skills, and introduced her to sign up for some courses on image design and female maintenance.
After my transformation, Nicole's image has undergone a qualitative change.
Sure enough, in less than a week, Nicole happily told me that
she had received invitations from some male colleagues and male friends around her!
Every woman has her own style of route.If a woman shows her own style advantage, she will definitely attract men who like this style.
This is the golden rule of attraction of .
Face your favorite object, learn to control your own needs
In fact, men pay attention to visual perception and first impression. When Nicole's image was reborn and improved, it was not surprising that they received a chat message from Wenyan after rejecting the invitation of other men.
Nicole was ecstatic and hurriedly asked me what should I do?
I told her that at this time, you must control your needs and don't express your needs too eagerly.
As a professional white-collar worker, what kind of attitude do you have to answer to him?
You can't put your posture too low at the beginning to actively meet the needs of the other party.
In addition, I told Nicole that the core of the chat with Wen Yan
Only in this way can we ensure that we will not lose ourselves in this relationship.
At the same time, we can also make Wenyan feel that he is not indispensable to him, so that she can rise from the only good impression of Nicole to the sense of crisis, so that he can take the initiative to attack.
Crisis! Don’t get overwhelmed
When these two people get better,When I thought they could develop smoothly, I received a crying call from Nicole.
The content is that she and Wenyan had sex with him on their third date.
After that, Wenyan even told her that they are just friends and do not want to develop a deeper relationship with her!
When Nicole heard him, she almost broke down.
When she cried to me, I told her directly, "As a man, I will say the same to you!"
From the beginning, Wen Yan was transformed into a white swan by the ugly duckling Nicole Attracted by changes.
When her inner demands are not enough to attract the other party, he only cares about Nicole's outer demands.
If Nicole is easily confused by the appearance created by Wen Yan and puts down her posture to meet Wen Yan's needs, then such a woman is not worthy of his attention!
re-established his high profile and walked out of his own gorgeous life
"Why did you fall asleep by him? Not you sleep him?!"
"If a man and If a woman has sex, then that woman must have been hurt.” This may be the general public opinion.
I told Nicole that in fact, men and women are created equal. In this kind of relationship, whoever takes the initiative is the beneficiary of this kind of relationship. All Nicole has to do is show her high posture.
"Since he said that you are friends, then you should give him a reply. You also think it is more suitable to be friends between two people!"
Of course, your high posture is not only for him, but also for yourself.
After the external value of women increases, the second is to constantly enrich themselves and strive to increase their internal value.
Only in this way can you always maintain your best charm from the inside out and attract men who are really attracted by your charm.
Finally, in a very dramatic scene, Nicole told me that shortly after she followed my advice and focused on improving her self-worth, Wen Yan took the initiative to find Nicole and asked for further development!
At this time, in Nicole's eyes, the value presented by Wen Yan no longer meets her standards.
In addition to high external value, other things are not enough to attract. Naturally, Nicole rejected him.
For love, there is a very popular saying: Women all over the world, first learn to love themselves, and then someone will love you!
gives the following suggestions on how women can attract men:
For women who always rank first, there is only one thing-they are beautiful, and I can dress up.
You may not be a famous brand,But you must look clean and comfortable. You can be ugly, but you must have taste.
Women should learn to be careful.
Facing boys, girls should learn to control their emotions in order to overcome the negative thoughts caused by the differences between men and women.
Men rely not on flattery, but on attraction.
When expressing your needs, it is the best state to be reserved and not hypocritical.
Build your own appeal.
Whether your life circle is large enough and whether your communication skills are strong enough will directly affect your standards for your partner.
Whether your income ability, financial ability can be self-sufficient, or whether you are in a surplus state, to a large extent determines your self-confidence and intrinsic value.
Whether your future plans can make your life better in the future determines your interpersonal relationship model
If you can do these four things, then you can handle almost any man .
In the long process of staying together, each of us is using our own way to make love to the end.
worked hard,I have paid, compromised, and tolerated. Don't forget the original intention, and hope that the text can help you who are lost.
The article is selected from my public account, Fu Yi said emotionally.
I am Fu Yi, love is too messy, I will help you organize it.
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