It is undoubtedly a pity to have no fate for the rest of his life with the other half, and at this time the flesh and blood of two people seem so precious. The ups and downs I have gone through are still vivid, even if I have unpleasantness and estrangement, I think that being away from each other is not that important.
In the eyes of many people, continuation of the incense is a major event, and many people are forced to go on a blind date to satisfy their parents' hopes of starting a family and having children. In many cases, parents don't care if you and the other party have had love before, they only care about when they can inherit the family line.
However, children sometimes bring endless disputes, especially when it comes to the custody of the children, the two families are even more quarrelsome. A family that could have been completely happy but fell apart due to some changes. In fact, it is the children who suffer the most.
The relationship between the two people started with a blind date
span4spanspan This is her first blind date, and the other party is obviously the type she likes. Actually, I didn't catch a cold for blind dates, but my parents were so eager to get married, so I had to rush the duck to the shelves and meet with the man in front of me.
But this meeting made me feel like a deer bumped into each other.The man in front of him talked generously and made himself feel like a deer. After the meeting, the two exchanged contact information, and Dong Lin took the initiative to talk to the man. This attitude was already very obvious.
It is said that women chase the men's compartment yarn, Dong Lin is so proactive, and the two people meet more often. The relationship is naturally established. Seeing that the daughter has a destination, the parents are naturally very happy, and they are blatantly wanting to meet each other's parents. The marriage is finalized in just two months.
Such fast progress also made Dong Lin a little uneasy. She admitted that she was an impatient person, but in the face of such rapid progress, she could not feel any sense of solemnity. A married person may only have one in his life. Although he likes the man in front of him, he is good, but is it 100% suitable for him?
hasn't waited until the slow break-in is over, so Dong Lin stepped into the palace of marriage in a confused manner. Seeing her husband solemnly swear in front of her, her hanging heart can be considered to have fallen. Perhaps so many worries about her are unnecessary, and he will treat himself well after marriage.
Less than half a year after marriage, Dong Lin was surprised to find that she was pregnant. This was really exciting. Originally, when she was in a relationship with her husband, there would be quarrels from time to time. Now Having a baby may also be able to warm up the relationship between two people.
After pregnancy, her husband treats herself in every possible way
indeed,Since she became pregnant, her husband's attitude towards herself has indeed changed, which moved Dong Lin very much. But what she didn't know was that the reason why her husband was so cautious about herself was because her parents-in-laws value the children in their stomachs very much.
The husband is the only child, and the old couple have been nagging about holding the grandson. Now the son Dong Lin is pregnant, and the family can't wait to take care of her all the time for fear of something wrong with her. And Dong Lin fell into a sweet trap at that time, so that it would be difficult to break free in the future.
As the days passed, Dong Lin was also in the waiting period. In the hospital, watching her mother-in-law and family around her busy schedule, she felt sincere happiness. Accompanied by the baby's crying, the son was born. When he saw that it was a boy, the mother-in-law's family let out a long sigh of relief.
And Dong Lin is still immersed in the happiness in the future, but her husband has begun to reveal a little bit of clues, and the husband who was still gentle and considerate to herself is now becoming cold-eyed. Dong Lin is very confused. Is it because her figure is out of shape that makes her husband lose interest in herself?
Just when Dong Lin was still looking for a reason in her own body, the husband here had already started to stay away all night. Is he someone out there? When this idea came up, even Dong Lin was taken aback. She was very afraid of this happening.
husband really betrayed him
, the more you are afraid of what isWhen she found the ambiguous chat with other women on her husband's mobile phone, she felt that the world in her heart had completely collapsed. Why does this happen? Why is my life so miserable?
originally thought that his son was her last backing, but when her son lived with her parents-in-law, she was not as close to herself as before, and Dong Lin felt like she had been emptied. This family is deceiving themselves, and in their eyes they are like a fertility tool.
But in this world, everything is fair, and the evil done by someone will be punished in another way. When Dong Lin heard the news of her husband's car accident, she was not as heartbreaking as she had imagined, because the co-pilot was sitting on the small San, and it was really bad.
Even though I have become a widow in the mouth of others, but there is no sense of sadness in my heart, maybe this is also a kind of relief, because my husband's heart is no longer in my body, right?
After dealing with her husband's aftermath, she did not show any sadness in front of everyone, and she did not want others to watch her own jokes. But the old couple cried heartbreakingly, after all, the only child has been spoiled since childhood.
Looking at the old couple, Dong Lin was also a little unbearable. Originally, she planned to let her son live with her grandparents, and then take him back to her when he was in elementary school. Inadvertently stepped into the door of her husband's house, and the scene in front of him made Dong Lin decide that even if she gave her the child away, she would not give it to her father-in-law.
"He asked the child to call his father"
, who worked outside after her husband passed awayOnly on holidays do I go home to take a look at my child. At that time, the child was just over one year old, but now he is almost three years old. Stepping into the long-lost family of in-laws, everything in front of you is still vivid, it's just that it's already a matter of fact.
Before entering the door, I heard her son scream for father, which caused Dong Lin to jump up. Where did the father come from? It was not until Dong Lin entered the house that everything suddenly became clear. It turned out that the father-in-law was holding his grandson and asked him to call himself father.
How can this work? Isn't this a bad guy? Father-in-law is really a pervert! Dong Lin hurriedly took the child from her father-in-law’s arms, but the child couldn’t help crying when she saw such a serious mother. Dong Lin couldn’t help but feel sorrow and grief in her heart. If she didn’t look at her for so long, the child treated herself. Participate in life.
And the child in front of him called his grandpa and dad, what does it look like? After a long time, the child has given the wrong cognition, what should the child call back to himself? Will you forget about being a mother sooner or later?
No, I don't want to let the children continue to grow up in such a deformed family, so I have to take the children and leave as soon as possible. Although I don't have the time to take care of the children, I will send the children to help take care of them. When I have the ability, I must let the children have a happy and complete childhood.
The loss of a beloved son in old age is undoubtedly sad and sad, and at this time grandchildren have also become a role that he has placed on his son. But even if his son and grandson are on the cusp of his own heart,This does not mean that the roles of two people can be interchanged.
It is true that I can make some demands on my daughter-in-law by means of my already advanced status, but excessive demands and even intending to deprive her of custody will not be supported by anyone. What children need most is not only a complete family, but more importantly, the correct three views.
Although the relatives of the next generation cannot be shaken, there is no doubt about the love of mothers for their children. No one wants to face an unhappy marriage, but there is nothing to do when I really meet myself. What you can do is to do your best to keep your children unaffected and grow up happily.
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Are you willing to let your children get too close to your grandparents?
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