Are you frugal? Will you live? Do you think that living a life must be frugal? For women, are there many advantages or disadvantages?
Frugality seems to only save money, spend less money, and not waste, but how many people will seriously analyze frugality, whether it is necessary to have a degree, and under what circumstances should not be frugal. In addition to taking medicine when sick.
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The embodiment of thrift in a family, women account for a large part, for women, there are good and bad, but mainly depends on the economic situation of a family, especially Married lady, after getting married, you have to deal with the movement of children, the elderly, relatives and friends, and no expenses are low.
And full-time women are more extreme in terms of frugality. After all, they have no income and rely on their children's father for money. If you have a job, then it is another situation, you can also meet your own expenses.
But frugality still has its advantages. A frugal woman has the advantage of knowing how to save money, not spending money indiscriminately, and reducing family expenses, because this is also an excellent tradition in China.
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But in reality, thrift can be, but if you pass it, there are many disadvantages:
1. The quality of life is not high, and the family’s expenses can be as small as possible, which is good-looking. Good quality things may be given up directly because of the price, and they have not enjoyed the good life that they could have enjoyed;
2. If there are children, it is easy to make them feel inferior and feel that the things they use are inferior to other classmates, and are even more useless. Passing something particularly good will also lead to a poor child’s aesthetics, and affect the child’s pattern and vision;
3. Even if a full-time woman is very frugal, but she does not have a job, she has to ask her husband if she wants to spend money. So it’s easy to have family conflicts. Some men think, isn’t it just about washing and cooking at home every day to take care of their children? Why do they spend so much money? So women’s body and mind are easily hurt.
Not only does the man not understand you, but people around him see you, don’t have a job, and have a poor life. There are even more ugly words and ugly eyes.
Frugality is a fine tradition, but the reality is that people who are too frugal will not live unless they can completely ignore the feelings of life, as long as time passes.
Some time ago, I saw a netizen on the Internet saying, "The wife is full-time at home. She said that she would give her five hundred yuan in pocket money a month, but why divorce him?" I think the wife is at home. Even if you spend money, you don’t have to spend so much, just a little bit.
When I read this sentence, it’s almost impossible. I give 500 yuan a month. Maybe I don’t even know how to be frugal. I don’t know how to give him 500 yuan a month. What it feels depends on how long he can hold on.
So frugality is okay, but there must be a degree. Adults will adjust by themselves, mainly children. You can't just say poor. Education should also be aimed at children's thinking, because many parents are easy to instill anxiety into their children. .
Talking about money in front of children, many parents’ intention is to let children know that money is not easy and difficult, but spending money is very simple. But in many cases, children’s way of understanding is completely out of line with the way of parenting education. Children may understand the wrong way. It is not because the money is hard to come by, but because their parents spend so much money, and the children will blame themselves.
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The original intention of frugality is not to spend money uncontrollably, not only wasting money, but also not doing anything meaningful. The feeling at that time was an impulsive behavior, just like I often see some netizens on the Internet saying what they have bought, but it didn’t take long before they regretted it. This is impulsive consumption, and some merchants also see this point, they will blow a common product. The sky is falling in chaos.
So, frugality is fine, but you must not spend money where it shouldn't be spent on the premise of ensuring the quality of life. Whether it is a woman or a family, it is a community. Frugality is cultivated as a family tradition, which not only guarantees the quality of life, but also saves a lot of money.
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