Introduction : Generally women will be more cautious when choosing a second marriage than the first. At this time, women are no longer listening to love, and will not be so easily moved by the sweet words of men. It's normal to value matter, not so pure. But some second-married men don't understand, they just think women are so material.
47-year-old second-married Ms. Li
When I was 25 years old, I married my first husband. The two of us are campus lovers, and we still have no savings for many years.
Our wages are just a drop in the bucket for life. How is it possible to buy a house?
Fortunately, he has always been very good to me. He tells me a wife every day, I love you so much. When I go home at night, I will bring me a supper. Bring me a bunch of flowers during holidays.
My mother called me many times and forced us to break up. But I didn't listen, I was greedy for his good.
I think as long as he treats me well, no matter how poor I am, I am willing to be with him. In order to stay with him forever, I stole my household registration book.
We obtained the certificate happily and lived in a rented house of more than ten square meters. We have no wedding, only a simple ring, and each other.
I think love can last forever and overcome all difficulties. But I soon regretted it!
His attitude towards me has changed sharply since he got married, and he is not very enthusiastic anymore. My stomachache , he will ignore me and play games by himself. All the touching details are gone.
I asked him loudly: "Why! Why have you changed!" The husband replied, "I am tired and impatient."
We had a fierce quarrel, and he slammed the door.
This marriage ended like this. My parents and relatives say I am stupid! Willing to be with a poor boy who has nothing without spending his money. In the end, it did not end well.
My sister persuaded me to guide men to spend more money for me in the future, so that men can't bear to give up on me.
Since then, I have vowed to be a "golden girl" and never be fooled by men's cheap sweet talk.
57-year-old man cursed "substance"
When I was 37 years old, I really met a rich man. He is 57 years old, has a net worth of over 10 million, and has two houses under his name. He looks very ugly, and his face is very dark.
But seeing such superior economic conditions, I feel like I can bear it.
We started dating under the introduction of others.
At the beginning, I wanted to test his sincerity and let him give me some small gifts. Unexpectedly, he directly gave thousands of brand-name gifts.
I was so happy, I thought he valued me so much that he made such a generous move.
The two of us soon moved in together, living in his luxurious commercial house. The two people spent honey mixing oil, and I cooked and washed clothes with him.
He said thank me for all the little things I did for him. He is also very active in helping me with my dishes, doing housework, and pouring water. He is not the kind of throwing hand at the shopkeeper, he is very active in participating.
He is a very clean person, he will clean the house spotlessly.
slowly I found out,I really like him. Although he doesn't have a good face, he has many shining points on his body.
He promised me that after a hundred years, he will not treat me badly. I was happy after hearing it.
I treat him better, and I will make all kinds of breakfast with him. Get up early in the morning and put breakfast on the table exquisitely.
He was very happy to see me treat him so hard.
The two of us had breakfast in the morning and chatted from time to time.
He said that it is not hygienic to eat dishes made in restaurants outside. I personally cook lunch with him. Even on a hot day, I go into the kitchen and cook carefully.
Then I helped him fill the lunch box and send it to his company.
He came back late for drinking and socializing, and I would never talk about him. I also helped him make hangover soup and feed it to him.
I know he is busy at work, so I don’t want to bother him even if I’m sick.
My parents urged us to live together for a year. They said that I am not young anymore and it is time to get married and have a destination.
After I had sex with him, I gently mentioned in his ear, let's get married!
He smiled happily and took me in his arms. I scratched my nose, and said spoilingly: "Baby,I'm so anxious to marry me.
I said shyly, "Yes, but my parents can ask for 200,000 gifts!" "
I don't know, he changed his face immediately and pushed me away.
He roared, "Why am I so material!" Staying with him is for his money!
I explained, "No, I didn't mean that. I really like you. I mean the bride price for marriage, you can cherish me more.
He hummed coldly, "Don't pretend, you keep saying that it is better than me." But my heart is only for money. You also don't look in the mirror, you are not worth the 200,000! "
I was so angry that I was vomiting blood, so I immediately replied, "What about the money I did." Do it as you wish.
Do you think you are ugly, short and old? You are 20 years older than me!
I don't want your money, and outsiders won't believe it!
His angry fingers trembled, and he pointed at me and said, "I said you were trying to figure my money, and you finally showed your true colors."
He pushed me hard and I rolled off the bed and my arms were blue.
I was about to fight back, but found that he had high blood pressure and fainted on the bed.
I almost sent him to the hospital crying.
His son is here and he points to my nose and scolds, "What did you do, it made my dad like this!"
I just sobbed and said nothing.
Later his son expelled me from the community,The old man didn't want to see me either.
I really hate it, all the men in the world are as black as crows, they will only deceive people.
I did not spend a penny. I also posted countless hours and energy.
In the end, I ended up with what was said to be "material"!
Later, I never dared to contact men anymore, and stayed single until 47 years old. I think life without a man is not very tiring, but easier.
One person will be tired, and two people will be tired.
Then it would be better to choose the one that rewards yourself the most-love yourself and live a good life!
Just be happy in life!
Conclusion : Should a rich man in his 50s give a 37-year-old woman a 200,000 gift?
Why didn't he give it?
And is the woman in the article really material?
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