Foreword:
Uncle Zhang, who is 78 years old, said that one of the things he regrets most in his life is that he has not been able to do a good job with the children, which caused the three sons to be unwilling to take care of him. In his later years, he couldn't help sighing: I didn't have a good bowl of water for the children, which made me old and helpless.
Uncle Zhang:
I am 78 years old this year, and my wife died of illness five years ago. Before the death of my wife, I told me that I must never let my children know how much money I have, and I must not distribute my property to my children before the last moment, otherwise I will need to spend a lot of money. At that time, it is necessary to find the children to reach out, so that you will be passive.
I disagree with what my wife said. I feel that since they are all my own children, even if I distribute all the property to them, they will not be able to give me the old age, and it will not be where I need them most. Time to disregard me. I feel that I am already in my seventies. Accidents will come at any time. It is better to do well in the affairs of my life as soon as possible, so as not to be too late.
So, soon after my wife passed away, I divided all of my property. I have one million yuan in savings and a real estate. I plan to make a will of the property, which will be inherited by my youngest son after my death.
With a savings of one million yuan, I will give my favorite young son 500,000 yuan, my second son 300,000 yuan, and the boss 200,000 yuan. The reason I allocate this way is because the financial condition of the old family is the best, the second is the second, and the third is the worst.
I gathered my three sons together and announced my distribution plan to the public in front of them. Although the boss's face was a little unhappy, he didn't say anything, but the second child was a little unconvinced and said that I was partial. Why should the third child get so much property, and only so little between himself and his brother?
I said he is your younger brother, and the family's financial situation is the worst, can't you let him? Look at your unpromising appearance, and fight with your brother for a little bit of property. There is no such thing as a brother.
The second son saw me getting angry,I didn't say anything any more. I handed the three passbooks that had been allocated for a long time with varying amounts. Looking at their leaving figures, a stone in my heart finally fell to the ground.
I thought the children would understand my painstaking effort, after all, the palms of the palms and the backs of the hands are all meat. The reason why I did this is to balance the economic strength of the brothers so that the rich will not be very rich. And the poor are too poor.
When they figure out these truths, they will respect me and treat me well. Unexpectedly, I did it wrong after all. How did I know the uneven distribution of property had already planted the seeds of contradiction for the three brothers.
First of all, the boss's attitude towards me has undergone a great reversal. In the past, the boss bought me the most gifts every New Year's Day, and all kinds of good cigarettes and alcohol filled my house.
Since I distributed only one hundred thousand yuan to the boss, he never bought me any expensive gifts. Every time he carried some cheap fruits and food, the total value was no more than one hundred.
The second child is even more awkward. He always fights with the third child. That time, the third child bought less things than him, so he ridiculed the third child in a weird manner, saying that he inherited so much property, and it was still the case. Liaosou made him look down on.
The third child was robbed of white by the second child, so he was very unconvinced. If you can't understand you, just stay there, and no one begs you to come here.
Seeing that the third child dared to scold him, the second child rolled up his sleeves and wanted to fight with the second child. I stepped forward and slapped the second child, saying you dare to give your brother a try? My second child was suddenly beaten by me. He couldn't help but walked away furiously. As he walked, he said that I was partial, saying that he would never be in my door again in his life.
The performance of the boss and the second child made me deeply disappointed in them, so I put all the happiness of my old age on the third child, thinking that I treat him best and give him the most wealth, so he will definitely Give me a good pension.
I just came by accident. When I was walking in the community downstairs, I couldn't see the path under my feet. I was cut by a stone and it hurt so much that I couldn't walk for a long time. I quickly called the boss and asked him to take me to the hospital for filming to see if my bones were injured and a cast was needed.
boss listen to me explain the situation,He didn't promise to take me to the hospital. He just asked me to go to the second and third child, saying that he was busy with work and couldn't get out of him. The second and third child had time, so they would take me to the doctor.
The boss didn't want to take me to the doctor, so I had to call my second child, but it would be okay if I didn't call. This call made my blood pressure soaring.
The second child heard that I asked him to take me to the doctor, so he yelled at him why he took me to the doctor, and said that since I like my brother so much, let my brother take me to the doctor.
He also said that he made me pretend that I had never given birth to his son. He said that I had uneven distribution of property and was too biased towards my younger brother. Even if I died, he would never come to see me.
I was robbed by my second child. I was so angry that I almost didn't lose my breath. Although my second child made my chest hurt, I couldn't take care of it. At present, what I need most is to see a doctor, otherwise I will probably sleep on the street.
I thought to myself: Fortunately, I still have my favorite young son, he appointed to take care of me. So I called my youngest son confidently and asked him to come and take me to the hospital.
Who knows that even my most beloved little son is unwilling to send me to the hospital. He said that he is gambling and has lost hundreds of thousands of dollars. He must quickly win back the lost money and tell me not to give it to him. Calling affects his mood.
I was so angry with these boys that I rushed my head, and immediately collapsed to the ground. When I woke up, I found myself lying in the hospital. I was taken to the hospital by a kind passer-by. He hurried away when he saw me wake up, leaving no contact information.
I asked the doctor to help me contact the three unfilial sons, because if I contact them myself, they won't care about me at all. Under the supervision of the doctor, they finally came to the hospital one after another. After seeing me with me, the eldest son drove me back home.
The doctor showed me my foot injury and said that there was no bone injury, so I should go home and recuperate for a while. Although my feet are not in serious trouble, as long as I move a little bit, I feel painful and I can't walk at all.
Since I can’t walk, I definitely can’t take care of myself. I asked my three sons to take turns to take care of me at home.They refused in unison.
The boss said that he is now in the critical period for promotion, and he works overtime in the unit every day, so he can't spare any time to take care of me. The second child said that his child is facing the college entrance examination, he has to go to get off work during the day, and he has to supervise the child to study at home after work, and he does not care about me at all. The third child said that he had lost hundreds of thousands of gambling, and he had to hurry up to win back the money he lost, and he couldn't take care of me even more.
Looking at the three tall sons in front of me, I remembered that I pulled them up with piss and piss, but now they are when I need help the most, no one offers me a helping hand, let me Feeling extremely chilling.
Under my constant pleading, they finally discussed going to the agency to find me a live-in nanny, and I need to pay the nanny a salary of 4,000 yuan every month. After the sons brought the nanny to the house, they left one after another, leaving the nanny and I at home with big eyes.
Since the babysitter has already arrived, I can’t drive her away. Although I feel sorry for the monthly salary of 4,000 yuan, if I’m not willing to spend the money, no one wants to take care of me. I can only starve to death. Bed.
After I figured out everything, I also approved the hiring of a nanny. I asked the nanny to live in another room and explained what she needed to do. I planned to let the nanny take care of her and cultivate her health at home peacefully.
Now my foot injury is basically fine, but I still have not quit the nanny, because after two or three months of getting along, I have developed feelings for the nanny and I plan to marry her as my second marriage partner. Depend on her for the rest of his life.
When I told the nanny of my decision, she was very surprised. I knew she would find it incredible. After all, I was nearly thirty years older than her.
In order to dispel her worries, I promised her: as long as she agrees to be my second marriage partner and takes care of me until the day I get old, I will leave this 100-square-foot house as an inheritance. she.
The nanny finally agreed to me and received a marriage certificate with me. No matter what the reason for her, I promised to be my second marriage partner, as long as I achieve my goal, I can spend the last time in my life under her care.I will feel satisfied.
Since I first cut it out and received the marriage certificate with the nanny, the youngest son had a premonition of a crisis. He ran to me every day, forcing me to sell the property, give him the money for the sale, and then rent a house.
I think he is simply whimsical, not to mention that it is impossible for me to leave the house where I have lived all my life and rent a house outside. After giving him 500,000 yuan, I have already treated him with his attitude towards me. loss of trust.
Real estate is my last straw. I will never let go until the day I die. Although I have already written a will: after my death, the real estate will be inherited by the nanny alone, but as long as I live one day, I will Resolutely will not let the real estate fall into his hands.
Now I regret that I have given one million points to three sons early. If I didn’t give one million points to three sons early, or evenly distribute one million points to a bowl of water Even if they are flat, they will not have infighting, and maybe they will be willing to take good care of me, so as not to make me old and helpless.
Concluding remarks:
For some parents with many children, although they love each child, it is difficult for them to treat their children equally. When the children are young, parents will like to have a more lively personality, and a more well-behaved child will give a certain child more love.
After children reach adulthood, their parents will focus more financial resources on children with worse financial conditions. For children who live relatively well, they will not hesitate to laugh when they honor their own money or things. .
Parents hope that through their behaviors of "robbing the rich and helping the poor", their children can be economically balanced, so that the poor children can live a little better, and hope that the rich children can help the poor children to a higher level.
Although parents are indeed painstaking, their obvious partiality will lead to dissatisfaction with children who are not favored. He will feel that no matter how much he has done, he will still not be recognized by his parents. He will think that his parents don't love him, so he resents his parents and is unwilling to continue to give.
After the children become adults, parents must make a good bowl of water, and they must not favor one another.Because only by doing this, can every child fully feel the love from their parents, so that they can work together to honor the elderly and let themselves have a peaceful and peaceful life in their old age.
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