recently chatted with an old friend in Suzhou. He asked me if I had ever been to the black dance hall in Suzhou to dance sand dance. I said, what age is this, and there will be people dancing?
He said, do you think men really spend money to dance? So I talked about my experience in the dance hall and the story I met.
The ballroom is actually a place where men consume and women make money. Many illiterate young girls who can't find ideal jobs and are greedy for vanity and are not happy to do physical work will go to dance halls to make money. As long as they can make money, they don't care about men's actions against them.
According to my friend, there is a dance ranging from 20 to 30, and a stage of 150 to 200. So if you work harder, some dancers can earn 1,000 to 1,500 a day.
The monthly profit of 3,4 million is higher than most white-collar workers in Suzhou. This is why so many girls and even aunts have to go to the dance hall.
Low-income people in China still make up the majority of the population, especially those in the bottom of the income group. Most of the men are still bachelors. They can't see the future, and they can't learn anything by themselves. They lack financial ability, so they dare not be honest. Go to talk about marriage and marry. In society, there is no sense of presence and belonging, lack of social skills, but eager to get the attention of the opposite sex, even if there is no emotional interaction, there will always be physiological needs. A 25 yuan ballroom ticket allows everyone to temporarily escape the pain of reality (not like work, unfavorable learning, depressed life) and feel the pleasure of rising hormones. It's not like club KTV, which consumes hundreds of thousands at every turn. It's really a price of conscience.
And the dancers in the ballroom, their clothes are exposed, they are proactive and generous, all this just meets the physiological needs and desires of men, and the unhappiness in work and life can be released here. Men who don’t dare to talk to girls on weekdays Becoming a real king here, this kind of feeling can only be known by personal experience. For many people who have no self-control, it is difficult to extricate themselves as long as they have been there once.
And the ballroom also has a gambling element of luck. The vast majority of people will have a fluke mentality. They can’t find their favorite objects in reality. They pin their hopes in the ballroom and dream about dancing with girls.You can ask girls out or maintain a long-term relationship between men and women.
The ballroom really satisfies a very important need of the people at the bottom of society: the ladies at the bottom are eager to make money, buy expensive cosmetics and beautiful clothes. The men at the bottom can't get in and out of high-end club KTV bars like the upper class, but they also want to meet beautiful girls.
As the saying goes, what can meet people's needs is a good business. Look at how many years the dance halls in Suzhou have been open, closed and open, and related.
Later, he told me that because he was busy at work, didn't have much social interaction, and couldn't find a girlfriend, he wanted to go to the dance hall to meet girls. He also heard that there are many young and beautiful people in the dance hall who used to do part-time jobs and wanted to try their luck. Finally, I saw an eye-catching person A, took her hand to dance, hugged her left and right, added WeChat, and asked A to be the stage every time I went to the dance hall, and I often made appointments for dinner and shopping. Of course, my friends paid for it. , Guess whether A has feelings about himself. Once, A asked my friend to accompany her in the dance hall. The two of them spent 2 hours lingering, almost 10 o'clock in the evening, and the friend said, it's not early, I'm going home, and I have to go to work tomorrow! As he was about to leave, Sister A suddenly reminded him, "Hey! I have been with you for 2 hours. You won't run away without paying the table fee."
My friend feels running in an instant It turned out that everything I did was illusory. He turned her 200 in silence, left the ballroom in disappointment, and never contacted her again.
The dancers come into contact with so many men every day, all of them are old drivers, old fritters. They come to the dance hall to make money. If you are attracted by their looks, you can only hurt yourself in the end, wasting a lot of time, money, and feelings, and in the end the gains outweigh the gains [laughs and cry]
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