The destiny of life is something that everyone cares about. Sometimes destiny seems to be firmly in our own hands, and sometimes just like a leaf duckweed can only drift with the flow.
But no matter what, we are all striving to live and pursue success and happiness in life. There are many sayings about destiny, such as "character determines destiny, birth determines destiny", and "knowledge determines destiny, ability determines destiny". There are divergent opinions on what determines fate.
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These various theories and theories, of course, have their truths, but if you think about it carefully, they can all be overturned. For example, "character determines destiny", no one's personality will be exactly the same, everyone has their own personality, naturally there will be no standard personality model that can make people 100% successful and happy.
, for example, "fate is determined by birth", but there are also many people born in wealthy families who did nothing in their lives and even ended in miserable lives. The background of Cao Xueqin is very good, but his fate has been rough; and "Knowledge determines destiny, ability determines destiny", we can also see that many people who have the ability to learn the rich and the five cars are still living a life of failure.
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So what determines a person’s destiny and future, I think, can’t be summed up in a single dimension. Sometimes, a trivial matter can also be beneficial to people. It will have a profound impact throughout a lifetime, so what affects fate must be the accumulation of various factors, including character, knowledge, ability, and so on.
In addition, success and happiness also need three very important factors, the first is-"pattern". What is "pattern", there is a saying: No matter how big the cake is,It's too big to burn it. If you compare the development of your destiny to a pie, then the size of the pie depends on the size and pattern of the pancake pan.
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The size of the pattern is the size of your perception of the world, and it is also the size of tolerance you can give to the world. The ideal may be large, but the ideal can be achieved The degree is limited by the size of the pattern. People whose pattern is not big enough often have a smaller tolerance limit, and they will hinder their own development because of small things. So the development of life's destiny is possible, or you can go more. Far, it all depends on your pattern.
Many people always sigh, why my life is always difficult, as if I'm always sailing against the current, while some people go smoothly and effortlessly. Everyone has different resources and environment. We must recognize and accept this objective unfairness. At the same time, we should also reflect on a question: whether you have done "following the trend".
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Guiguzi said: The world is irresistible, so you will stay hidden and wait for the time; if there is something you can do, you will do it. Every change in destiny requires a variety of different opportunities. When the time is not ripe, you must keep a low profile and be ready at all times. When you find an opportunity, you must strive for it. Only by grasping the trend and trend of making heroes can we get twice the result with half the effort. This is "following the trend."
The third and most important point at the end is called "walking by the way." "Tao" is a concept put forward by Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching. Here we can roughly understand that "Tao" is the natural law and law of the existence and operation of all things.
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so since ancient times,Even in primitive society, human beings are born with a kind of "rule awareness", everything has a moral bottom line, and cannot violate the principles of conscience and justice.
Tao Te Ching says: The original system is famous, the name is also there, and the husband will know the stop, and knowing the stop can not die. Therefore, to follow the path is to play a role of escort in the development of our life's destiny. If we go in the opposite direction, then those who have the ability and luck will eventually fail.
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