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Introduction
After a woman marries her beloved man, she hopes that her husband can love herself well, and she also hopes that her marriage can be happy and fulfilling, but sometimes she doesn’t get the kind of happiness she wants. , But get disappointed again and again, sometimes it’s like this, the more hopeful you get, the more disappointed you are. So you have to understand each other carefully, don’t be too impulsive and don’t trust others too easily, you must understand deeply, otherwise you will Regret it.
The following Ms. Lu originally thought she had married a good husband, but not long after the marriage, her husband gave the house to her uncle without permission. After receiving the promise from her brother, the uncle wanted to dominate Ms. Lu. Driven out, I didn't expect to be directly angry by Ms. Lu.
Let's take a look at this story.
Ms. Lu/30 years old
I am 30 years old this year. I never thought that the man I have always loved gave my dowry room to his family after marriage, and it still didn’t With my consent, I really regretted marrying him at the time, but then I chose to end my marriage because I don’t want to live with such a man anymore. I just want to find someone who loves me instead of coveting my house. Yes, so even if it’s not long before I got married, I still have to divorce.
My husband and I met at a party. When I first met him, I thought he was very honest and good-looking, and then I developed feelings for him. I added His contact information, seeing that I was so proactive and not polite, he kept talking to me, and later learned that my family conditions were good, he wanted to get closer to me, but I didn’t find out at the time and thought he was. I have feelings for me too. At that time, I was stupid and often went on dates with him and asked him to eat.
Later, after he died for a while, he confessed to me. I didn’t think much about being with him too. After being together, I found that he was very stingy and never paid for me. Every time I went to dinner or was I paid for the fruit,Several times after I bought it, I waited for him to pay, but he pretended not to know, and pretended to take out a cigarette, and went out to smoke silently. Although he is usually nice to me and can speak smartly, he is stingy. I really don't like it.
Later I couldn’t help asking why he was so stingy? We were all together, and I didn’t want to pay anything for me. He directly found a good reason and said to me: "My family is too poor. If you ask you to eat, I will have no money. Originally, my salary was not very good. Gao, I have to send it back. My brother doesn’t have a job and has to raise it every day, so you have to understand me. Besides, we are not married. If I spend money for you, I’ll feel a loss. In case you break up with me someday Yes, then I’m not dead. By the way, some time ago, you paid my dollar back to me."
I was thirsty, and then I wanted to buy a bottle of water to drink, but the convenience store was opened by an old man, so he didn’t accept WeChat. Then I asked him to give him a change, but he actually asked me to return it to him. It was really stingy. At that time, I really wanted to break up, but I was reluctant, because I loved him so much that I couldn't separate from him at all, and then I had to continue the relationship.
Gradually we talked about it for a year. In this year, I never spent a dime from him. Even if I spent it, I had to pay him back. Although I was very angry, I believe that as long as he gets married in the future, he won’t This way, after all, no one and money are willing to pay for others, so I think he must have treated me like this because he is not married.
Later, the two of us also planned to get married. When we met our parents, we also gave his parents some gifts, but he didn’t give anything to my parents. I didn’t say anything at the time. I understand that he can't afford it because he is poor.
When I was eating, I told their family that our family only needs 26,000 gifts. Originally it cost 100,000, but our family considered their poor family, so it only needed 26,000. At that time, I thought their family would I felt that our family was reasonable, but the prospective mother-in-law said: "26,000 is so much, why don't you grab it? We only need two or three thousand yuan to marry a wife here.You told me that it would cost 26,000. It would be too much for you. You don't think about our man's feelings at all.
At the time, my parents were speechless. My parents didn’t expect this son-in-law to be stingy. Even his parents were so stingy, but my parents didn’t say anything. For my happiness, they finally agreed not to be a bridegroom, although Their family promised to give 2,000 yuan as a gift, but my family didn’t want to ask for it, because the 2,000 yuan gift is too ugly, and it will be laughed at by others, so my dad would rather not. My parents would marry me directly. I married a house for me. Although my parents knew that the family was stingy and might covet my dowry house, my parents only wrote my name when they bought the house. This way, there is a little security and there is no need to worry about them. The family is greedy, so my parents still think about me very well.
After everything is settled, the two of us got married smoothly. After we got married, I thought my husband would not be the same as before. Being stingy, he was not only stingy, but also a phoenix man. His monthly salary was 7000 yuan, but he called all his parents and his younger brother back. He didn’t keep any points. I asked him, "Why do you want to Call it all back, call it back, what do you use? "
husband said: "Isn’t it your support, so I don’t think I need to keep my salary, I gave them all the money, so that they can live a good life, so you should not care about so much, you should have more Just understand me.
At that moment, I suddenly regretted marrying him. I don’t think he thought about me from start to finish. I always thought about my parents only. No matter how I oppose him, I won’t care, so I treat him really I’m so disappointed.
But the marriage is closed, and I can only get married. What I didn’t expect was that after half a year of marriage, he actually promised my house to his brother, who came to me that day , Said to me: "Sister-in-law, my brother said that this special room was given to me, so you can move out quickly. "
I heard that my uncle said that my whole person was not good. I didn’t expect this Phoenix man, since he subsidized his family to this level, it’s really too much.Then I directly recorded angrily: "Go away, that's just your brother's promise. I didn't promise. Your suite is written with my name. You are not qualified to drive me out. You and your brother will go if I leave."
Uncle was not convinced after listening, and then directly called my husband and told me the old bulletin. My husband quickly got off work and asked me what I meant? I directly took out my marriage certificate and household registration book and said to him: "It doesn't mean anything. It's a divorce now. I can't do it. Your family is too much. All of you want to covet my things. Fortunately, my mother didn't add yours. Name, otherwise you would have coveted my house. In order not to make you worry about my house, I decided to let you go out of the house and go through the divorce procedures. I really can’t stand a person like you. I still subsidize my family day by day. I really don’t know how people like you live till now?”
He was very reluctant to get a divorce at the time, but I insisted on leaving. Later, he also agreed, so we left. After half a year of marriage, I also kicked him out after the divorce. Although I was very reluctant to bear him, I really didn't want to let myself be wronged again.
Concluding remarks
After reading the above case, the editor thinks that this woman is doing the right thing, but this woman is too slow to wake up, so she should choose to break up when she finds this man is stingy. It's not that I still get married. If I get married at that time, I won't be a second-married girl, so this woman is still a bit silly, but fortunately, she wakes up later and chooses to divorce immediately, otherwise her life will really continue to suffer.
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