Author: No. One Emotion
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I once saw this sentence:
One of the happiest things in the world is that after a lot of hard work, everything is slow Slowly become what you want.
I have deep feelings.
But, what is happiness in this life? Perhaps it is the problem that everyone is looking for, so when we see the words related to happiness, we will have a feeling of empathy.
I believe anyone who has watched "A Dream of Red Mansions" knows Lin Daiyu . Although her life is short, she never caters to others. Maybe the world thinks she is very pitiful, but her life is happy and worthwhile.
Maybe, there are still many people who do not understand, and they are still running for life, seeming to cater to everyone, but in the end they owe themselves.
In a limited life, there is nothing more important than being a little better to yourself. Only those who have achieved this will not live their life in vain and can feel true happiness.
Be kind to yourself
In this life, many people are catering to and be kind to others.
But these kind of prerequisites are wronged by myself and seem to have gained a temporary gain, but in the long run, it will only make my life more and more lonely.
Blindly thinking about others will only make everyone ignore your contribution and make yourself cheaper and cheaper. In the end, treating others kindly becomes a matter of course, and you will naturally fall into a more humble position.
But for whom does life exist? If you don’t even know how to treat yourself well, who will really treat you well!
So, what people should be bigger in this life is to treat themselves well, and only need to be good to themselves is enough.Only on this basis to cater to and be kind to others can you get the least respect and reap a truly beautiful life.
Any relationship is the completion of each other, but the basis before this is that each other can treat themselves well, rather than let themselves be wronged.
Pleasant yourself
In life, you will always find some people are pleasing others, some are for money and profit, some are for maintaining relationships, and some are for trusting others. .
But, do you live a comfortable life like this?
Why do you want to whisper for so-called interests and relationships? These actions of you will only make yourself more and more desperate, and finally fall into the endless abyss.
As the saying goes: "Skills can be killed but not insulted."
Don't lose your dignity at any time. You think that if you please others, you can get everything you want, but the reality is that you become more humble. , Will only become the laughing stock of others, and it will be difficult to look up again for a lifetime.
In many cases, we should please ourselves, go where we want to go, go where we want to go, then you will find that "there must be a road to the mountain, and the boat to the bridge is naturally straight."
Only if you please yourself, can you be regarded as living up to this life.
Enrich yourself
I often hear people say: "Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles."
_blockquote10 block The more places you have, the more things you can see, and the more knowledge you will naturally learn.It can be seen that life is a process of constantly enriching yourself. As you become more and more abundant, many things will naturally be solved.
Don't think that you are already very good. Don't compare yourself with others at any time. While doing yourself well, you must know how to make yourself better, so that your life has the meaning of existence.
To enrich yourself, the most important thing is to make life more valuable.
A person always feels that he is the best, and often hesitates. Sooner or later, he will be eliminated, when it will be too late.
You know, years will never favor people who don't want to make progress. Even if the opportunity is already in front of you, you can't fully grasp it.
Only by continuous hard work, continuous progress, and continuous enrichment of oneself, can one's life become colorful and realize the value of life.
You only need to be good to yourself for a lifetime. You must know how to treat yourself, please yourself, and enrich yourself, so that your life is truly successful.
.Author: No.1 Emotion, high-quality emotional consultant, freelance writer, multi-platform contract author. If you encounter any emotional problems, you can trust me privately to help you get rid of troubles.
