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Recently I was chasing " sons and daughters of Joe's family "
5. Why is the marriage of Qiao's children not a happy one?
There are five children in Qiao’s family. They are the oldest Qiao 10%, the youngest Qiao 2nd, the youngest Qiao Sanli, the youngest Qiao and four beautiful, and the youngest Qiao Qiqi.
The story of five people began when Qiao Yicheng was 12 years old.
That year, the fifth Qiao Qiqi was just born, and his mother Wei Shuying passed away because of his birth.
Joe Yicheng changed from "eldest brother" to "like father".
Why are the marriages of the children of the Qiao family unhappy?
The reason lies in this "father" word.
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He was forced.
The five children of the Qiao family, who are called "unlucky ones" by the audience, have their real father-Joe Zuwang.
But this father, whether there is or not is the same, like a dummy.
It’s worth mentioning that,To a certain extent, the married life of the five children of Qiao's family will be overshadowed by layers of haze, and it is inseparable from the influence of his father Qiao Zuwang.
Back to mother Wei Shuying before the dystocia.
At that time, she was 34 years old and was an advanced mother who was most prone to problems when giving birth.
Even so, her husband Qiao Zuwang did not spend more time on her, he did not care, after all, in his opinion, which woman does not have children, and it is not the first time Have a baby.
Therefore, when Wei Shuying is about to give birth, my sister-in-law is still drowsy all the way.
When his wife passed away because of having a child, and the child had to rely on him to live, Qiao Zuwang once again became a waste.
He fostered the old five Qiao Qiqi in his sister-in-law's house, and the remaining children depended on them to support themselves and fend for themselves.
parent meeting,He is absent;
The life and death of the children, he does not care.
The only thing he cares about is whether he eats well or plays well.
In Qiao Zuwang, we have seen the most selfish aspect of a partner in marriage.
For him, the two words "marriage" are nothing but a thing that should be done at an age when they should get married and have children.
and nothing more.
The responsibilities, responsibilities, and contributions that should be taken after marriage are all he ignored.
Qiao Zuwang despise every move of marriage, like pushing down the first domino with his hand.
Qiao’s five-character children,He fell down shortly thereafter.
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I want it because I lack it, because I don’t have it.
There is such a sentence in "Go to the World of X":
, "The problem with the person who loves 3strong is that they don’t know what kind of love is. So they are easy to be deceived, easy to see things that do not exist, but probably we will often deceive ourselves."
is talking about the Qiao family.
Because of Qiao Zuwang, they long for marriage.
But also because of Qiao Zuwang,They never knew what a true marriage is.
is unknown, and sometimes it often brings loneliness and courage, and the good or bad of courage is determined by good or bad.
Obviously, the children of the Qiao family are negative.
Qiao Yicheng's first love ended because the other party moved to Beijing. Afterwards, he easily made up his mind to marry Ye Xiaolang, whom he had known for a while.
However, on the day of the wedding, he discovered that Ye Xiaolang and his marriage purpose was impure. In addition to the gift money, Qiao Yicheng had to pay for Ye Xiaolang’s brother to buy a house, which he did not expect. The thing is, Ye Xiaolang personally agreed to such an unreasonable request.
Facts have proved that will be counted as a marriage that ends at the beginning of the benefits.
Ye Xiaolang successfully went abroad with Qiao Yi as a springboard,The two agreed to divorce.
In the unbroadcast original novel plot, Qiao Yicheng's second marriage did not get a good result, and he divorced again.
Of course, among the five children of Qiao's family, Qiao Yicheng's marriage life is not the most turbulent.
Like his brother, Qiao Erqiang chose to flash marriage, but because both sides have someone they really like, after violating their own hearts, they tacitly chose to face their own hearts, and finally the divorce ended.
The youngest Qiao Sanli, loves and marries freely, the relationship seems to be good, but after an accident, she became an unreliable husband. At the same time, there is also the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that bothers her.
The most important thing to mention is the old four joes and four beauties, and the old five joes and sevens.
Their attitude towards feelings is the strongest projection of father Qiao Zuwang.
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She is married, whether it is suitable or not, her character, she depends on her "eyes".
Therefore, knowing that Qi Chenggang's personal style has obvious problems, Qiao Simei still ignores Qi Chenggang and marries him.
When Qiao Simei was chasing love, Qiao Yicheng once said: _span6p2p2span strong span5 2p The long-term memory can be converged.”
unexpectedly,A prophecy.
This "lost" food runs through a whole marriage.
After getting married hastily, Qi Chenggang didn't get his heart at all because of the marriage, and he cheated repeatedly.
Even when Qiao Simei was pregnant in Liujia and was about to give birth to a child, Qi Chenggang had a relationship with a bookstore employee, who came to provoked Qiao Simei, causing her to give birth prematurely, almost like her mother Wei Shuying , Because giving birth to a child is ruining life.
However, what makes Qiao Yicheng and the audience feel very angry about the station Qiao Yicheng and the audience have done so much On his side, forgive him, intercede for him, kneel and cry and tell Qiao Yicheng that he will change.
As for whether it will change, there are countless precedents in real life that have given the answer.
Let’s look at Joe Qiqi again.
Hot search describes the life of Joe Qiqi like this: the performance is finished at eight times speed.
fell in love at a young age, was a child by himself, and turned his head to become the father of a child and the husband of a girl.
The ancients have long told us that if you want to speed you up, you can't achieve it.
Qiao Qiqi’s marriage started quickly and ended quickly. In the words of his ex-wife Yang Lingzi, the start of the accident and the end in a muddle.
They don’t know what a real marriage is like, and they don’t know what a marriage should look like.
even, they don’t even know what love is.
A momentary impulse.
planted the bitter fruit of a lifetime.
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But why the more you desire happiness, the less happiness?
In this regard, Qiao Simei also asked:
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This is not only Qiao Simei, but every person who is lingering in marriage has asked it more than once.
It is clear that we love each other, and we are all full of yearning for marriage, why after entering marriage,Every step is staggering, extremely hard, love to the end, leaving endless desolation?
Guo Keyu Zhang He, love has become a stranger.
Wang Lixin Wu Yating, love became a roommate.
Zhao Liying Feng Shaofeng , love became family.
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Actually, the original intention of love is not wrong.
What’s wrong is that we only want to love, but we don’t want to love and how to love.
love, marriage,It's like an exam. Every candidate wants to take full marks, but there are always candidates who fail. Those who fail the exam never ask themselves why they failed the exam, they know why.
because they did not prepare for the exam.
because they did not write the right answer.
Remember,
"Don't underestimate every exam".
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