An optimistic person, in interpersonal communication, always finds its source everywhere.
A "happy" boy has a natural advantage in chasing girls.
When boys can be "happy", the attraction they release is beyond imagination. It is no exaggeration to say that the efficiency of chasing girls will rise linearly.
Of course, "happiness" is an ability to chase girls. It does not mean that boys are smiling to girls every day. It is an attitude and a state of mind.
Attitude: refers to having a confident and calm attitude when encountering anything.
mentality: refers to having an optimistic mentality.
If boys want to pursue the girls they like more effectively, they need to learn how to use "happy".
The use of "happy" is divided into two aspects: on the one hand, by making yourself "happy", and then, exuding a strong charm to attract girls, on the other hand, make girls "happy" and give her a good Love environment.
Next, from these two aspects, I will explain in detail the application skills of "happy".
A "happy" man is a kind of charm in itself. When girls get along with such boys, they will also become in a good mood. This is a kind of emotional transmission.
In the process of getting along with girls, boys want to make themselves "happy", there are two levels of operation.
Shallow operation: learn to tease girls.
This is just like those who are good at joking in social, they can always make people around them amused.
For example, if two people meet on a date, the boy just saw the girl, and she curled up her hair like a "small ball".
The boys ridiculed the girls and said: Wow, you dressed up very beautifully today, especially your haircut. Just looking at this "little ball", I kind of want to eat octopus balls.
The trick of this ridicule is: targets girls and chats in a joke manner. Boys should pay attention not to ridicule themselves. Otherwise, the taste of ridicule will change.
If a boy wants to be "happy", the deeper operation is: delivers a confident and calm attitude to a girl, so that she can feel your charm.
Take an example: a boy told a girl that he had a bad performance recently and was found by his boss to talk, indicating that he was under a lot of pressure.
After speaking, the boys adjusted their mentality and said to the girls: However, after this incident, I also saw a lot of my shortcomings. I have to make myself an extra work tonight. I will summarize it carefully. I believe it will be tomorrow. Better, it will be better in the future.
Then, after the boy finishes the summary, he will send it to the girl.
To put it plainly, This is attitude, a confident and calm attitude, no matter how big things happen, even if the sky falls, just think of a way to stand it up.
When a girl can feel this "happy" state in a boy's heart, she will be deeply attracted by you.
In the process of getting along with a girl, if you can make her feel "happy", then she will like to get along with you.
For girls, values the "love experience" of a relationship, and the foundation of the love experience is "happiness".
So, how can boys make girls feel "happy"?
The core of its operation is: "happy" comes from "atmosphere",A good atmosphere of getting along is sure to make girls experience "happy".
We explain from two aspects of "chat" and "dating": How to make girls experience "happy"?
Talking with girls requires an atmosphere and emotional interaction.
Let me give you an example to help you understand.
Girl: Have you eaten yet?
Boy: I just ate it.
This is a chat without any emotion added.
Boy: I have eaten it, I just finished busy, and I just took a few bites. Hey, I still miss the days at home, the dishes my mother cooks, and the time when the family eats together. Suddenly I feel confused and doubt the purpose of working outside. What is it?
This is a kind of chat with added emotions. No matter what kind of emotion it is, a chat with emotion added will have an atmosphere, which can make girls experience "happy".
Emotional operation skills are almost always used in the process of chasing girls. You can learn more in my column "Man with 99 points".
Therefore, "happy" does not simply refer to a "happy emotion", but an attitude, a state of mind, and a feeling.
When dating girls, boys also need to be "happy". Just imagine, when the date is over, over time, will your date gradually forget, but you will always Remember, the feeling when you get along with each other?
This is the function of "happy". Boys want to be "happy" during dating. The technique of operation is: Note emphasizes the dating atmosphere, and if you want to have a dating atmosphere, you must have enough between two people of interaction.
can be said like this,In the process of dating, the more interaction between two people, the better the atmosphere will be.
Therefore, when dating girls, boys shouldn’t just go to dinner and watch movies, because these two monotonous projects will lack interactivity and naturally there will be no good dating atmosphere.
For example, if you take girls to the playground, will there be many opportunities for interaction? Will there be more exchanges with girls to experience the farmhouse?
Whether a date is successful, in fact, it all depends on whether the boys plan carefully in advance?
After a girl has dated you a few times, she feels that when she is with you, the atmosphere is very good, and she feels in love, indicating that you have succeeded.
"Happy", for boys, is an ability to chase girls. It can help boys dispel a lot of worries and regain their confidence.
A "happy" boy is a kind of walking "light body", and it will be sought after by girls wherever he goes.
So, chasing girls is not "to please", let alone "only showing love". Boys need to master smarter ways to pursue what they love.
Whether a love is happy or not depends on the way you treat it.
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