In the world of emotions, should we talk about material things?

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Many years ago, whenever our friends gathered together, we would always take Jinglan as an example. As the only girl among our three or five sisters who did not list material conditions as the criteria for choosing a mate, Jinglan can be said to be The white moonlight among us and all our blind date.

After all, it’s a material society. Everyone doesn’t talk about conditions or money, but whether it’s monthly salary or annual salary, RV objects, family conditions, etc., Jinglan doesn’t care about it, in Pisces. In the world of girls, as long as there is affection, there is enough water to drink. The supremacy of love is based on the principle of material supremacy.

is just a joke, none of us would have thought that what we said many years ago would come to terms.

As calm as water, elegant as orchid, as the name says, Jinglan has qualities that most girls don’t have. She is simple and beautiful, putting feelings first.

Four years ago, she met a boy named Huanyu through social networks.His aptitude and appearance are plain, and he is not conspicuous among Jinglan's many blind date friends, just because he has a rare clear stream as an evaluation, and deeply sees Jinglan's goodness.

For a girl, no matter how good a boy is, if you can't see your goodness, it will not be enough to entrust you for life. Because of this, Jinglan decided to associate with him, and we also deeply support this. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long. After four months, due to the differences in their personalities, the two of them failed to reach the end as they wished, and it became the meaning of all of us.

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until four years later, the two again made contact, after grinding time, had the naive The little girl has grown up, she has been in the society for a long time, and she has come into contact with all kinds of people. She has learned to choose and what she really wants.

Compared with the so-called high-quality men who are arrogant and do not know how to consider others, Huanyu is indeed the person who cares about her most and is the most suitable choice for her at the moment, even though it is just a good impression. But she was also willing to give each other another chance, even though it was Huanyu who let go.

But what Huanyu didn’t expect was,The little girl who did not mention material and family in front of him at the beginning of the chat talked about personal abilities and income, whether the family background is equivalent, etc. You must know that Jinglan did not ask about the material of his family background at all. , Had been with him without any scruples for four months, eating, drinking and having fun along the way, really unhappy, but the spark of love did not burn.

Huanyu doesn’t want to treat the sacred love marriage as a transaction. It is only for the right and the right conditions to get married. It would be better not to have such a marriage, but Jinglan insisted on putting it all on. In face-to-face talks, meet again when they are right, and bluntly say that love without material foundation is unfounded loose sand. The two people have different opinions, and the final result is just unhappy.

Perhaps Huanyu never thought that the original Bai Yueguang turned into a social girl, no different from the girls who had been on blind date, and was full of disappointment.

In the hearts of many boys led by Huanyu, material money is especially tacky in the face of love. It seems that in the world of love, talking about money and material is undoubtedly hurting feelings.

There are too many boys who say bluntly that nowadays girls have too much material and society, their purpose is too strong, and they come up with RV money, which seems to have nothing to do with feelings, but is directly linked to the world, etc. Even Jinglan, who is regarded by the world as a white moonlight, is no exception.

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seen the TV series " naked marriage age " people will be Lewis Yang with Tong Jiaqian The sentence after the divorce "I have learned a truth in nine years,"Details defeat love" is tender to tears.

But in fact, it is not the details, but money that really frustrates their love.

With material security as the basis, how can they quarrel without the money for their daughter’s milk powder?

Or the sea is dry and the stone is rotten. It’s not enough to eat and dress. How to love without money? What to love?

Each of us is an individual living in this world, not really In a vacuum, looking at the mirage, using feelings as the basis for filling your stomach. Not the world, but the reality.

Everyone has good expectations for love, but the premise is that Built on the basis of reality and materiality, whoever is born into society and who wants to society is just following the principle of survival of the fittest.

Bai Yueguang will accept social reality one day The baptism of, and then grew up, but the universe is still the same universe, and Jinglan is no longer the same Jinglan.

"Some people,Missed is missed. "Let’s go back to the words that Zhang Han said in the show, and then I truly realize that the so-called miss is not that they have become lovers of others, but that they seem to be still in place, but have already followed The passage of time has changed, and it is no longer what you remember. If you want to start again, but you can't return to the past, just like the pointer of time can return to the original point, but you can never return to yesterday.

The more people grow up, the more they understand the gap between ideals and reality, and the more they understand the importance and necessity of material for love. It is not that they have changed, but that they are more eager for a stable and solid Feelings.