In life, people feel happy when they are close to happiness. While happiness continues, we suffer from gains and losses...
I believe that all people are for the pursuit of happiness. Some people ignore the beauty around them while pursuing happiness. How many lovers in marriage desire to enter the marriage hall as soon as possible. When the real day came, it was mutual grievances and quarrels in exchange.
It is easy to write two words "cherish" when you pick up the pen. But how difficult it is to do it, it is even more difficult to really do these two words, even some people have not really understood the true meaning of these two words in their entire lives.
A 48-year-old middle-aged man's self-preface: The story of a divorce and meeting his ex-wife
There are always men in society who, after successful careers, have a little money in their pockets, they start to dislike their wives who share the joys and sorrows, and dislike their wives. After they have the advantages, they are not reconciled to a dull married life. I always hope to be favored by more women. In particular, I hope to be younger and more beautiful women...
Liu Qiang is a successful businessman who is forty-eight years old this year and has been divorced from his wife for 10 years.
As the saying goes: "A rich man will go bad, and a bad woman will have money."
This sentence is the most suitable for Liu Qiang. However, Liu Qiang thinks: "I am a successful businessman. I am not willing to have a dull marriage. I met a younger and more beautiful girl online. I thought that I finally met true love in my life. I didn’t hesitate to buy her a house, a car, and a bank, and even gave her a special deposit for her exclusive use. I even carried my wife too much to buy it for her. Another family"...
After the extramarital affair was exposed, his wife told him plainly: "A happy marriage requires two people to operate together, mutual respect, and true love is her bottom line. Love matters cannot be accommodated in her eyes. Half a grain of sand.
"You must give her a clear answer,Return to the family and divorce by your own choice. Sincerely returning to the family, regardless of the predecessors, if you want to divorce immediately. Since then, we will never meet, life and death will never meet again"...
To tell the truth, Liu Qiang is reluctant to have his wife’s talented entrepreneurial skills. He also wants his wife to guard the family, and even more reluctant to be a more beautiful and younger extramarital lover.
The former wife graduated from a prestigious school. The brain is beyond the reach of ordinary people, and she has unsurpassed talents and entrepreneurial skills. From the time they realized that they have had a stable job all these years of marriage, she is currently the deputy project manager of a large company. Her annual salary is higher than her own. Career salary is even higher, and she has never spent a penny of Liu Qiang's money. What she wants is to treat each other with sincerity, mutual understanding, mutual respect, and jointly run a beautiful marriage and harmonious and happy family.
Liu Qianggang appeared when he created a career. Poor management and when there was a crisis, his ex-wife generously used his savings for many years to help him tide over time and again.
Therefore, Liu Qiang often sighed in front of his friends: "Without the help of my wife, there is no career for me today. From the first day of my business, my ex-wife has always been my strong backing."
Liu Qiang knows best: "My wife is very busy in the company every day, and she has to be distracted to help Liu Qiang’s business. If she doesn’t Distracted to take care of the family, he must be a better and more successful businessman or entrepreneur.
In Liu Qiang's mind, she doesn't really like such a strong woman to be a wife. Although she is mature and reliable, she lacks the kind of gentleness of a woman. She only has a career-like strong woman. Liu Qiang likes that kind of innocent romance, everything. I don't understand, that kind of silly and beautiful female girl is what he thinks in his heart.
Knowing that kind of young and beautiful girl outside of marriage on the Internet just satisfies his vanity. It is such a simple and innocent girl who melts his heart as gentle as a rolling river.
With the tenderness of this young and beautiful girl, he feels that he used to be in vain, but today he found his true love. Liu Qiang really can't let go of the extramarital affair, that little lover's tenderness
With someone like his wife, his career will continue to help. With the help of his wife, his career will be smooth sailing, no matter how big the company encounters,No matter how difficult the wife is, it can be resolved one by one.
So he begged repeatedly not to divorce. The ex-wife is not stupid, looking at the man in the bowl thinking about the pot, is she still not sure? As the society said: "The red flag at home will not fall down. The colorful flags are fluttering outside."
Liu Qiang remembered clearly in his mind: When his ex-wife just married him, he couldn't even get a gift, and his wife never disliked him. She left her home and came to this strange city to work hard with him. There is no complaint, and he has struggled with him for more than 10 years. Only then has today's business and a brand-new factory building.
Liu Qiang also mistakenly thought: "Today's wife has to divorce him. She is really a bit stupid and doesn't understand the state of real life. She still has a child with her. If she wants to find a businessman as successful as him, she will definitely not be able to find it. Here. A successful businessman is definitely not willing to marry a second marriage and have to raise children for others. No matter how stupid a successful businessman is, he won’t be so stupid to marry a woman who has a second marriage and takes other people’s children to be his wife.
Liu Qiang never dreamed that his wife had already made up his mind to divorce him, and she had already written the divorce agreement, and left and returned to her family without looking back. Liu Qiang still did not give up and was cheeky I went to my family’s home to apologize with you, but I still can’t get my wife’s forgiveness, and my wife still insists on divorcing. Liu Qiang insisted that it was exhausted in his heart, and finally had no choice but to sign the divorce agreement.
What I did not expect was that Liu Qiang said to his ex-wife on the day of the divorce. "It's really silly that you want to get a divorce. It's not that a businessman like me can't marry a wife. I'm sure to have a life in the future. When the time comes, don’t envy me, just beg me with regret.”
The husband and wife follow the divorce agreement: “The ownership of the company belongs to Liu Qiang, and the company’s previous property and children belong to the ex-wife.” The oral agreement: always Don’t meet with your children, stay out of touch with each other." Liu Qiang agreed. After the two parties signed, the two parted ways, and never had any contact with each other ever since. ...
Liu Qiang's extramarital affair led to divorce soon after. I had no choice but to marry the younger and more beautiful girl into the house, because he was a second marriage after all. For fear that the young girl would be a little wronged, the wedding was very grand. Friends and relatives who also decided to come to his company to drink,Everyone gave 20,000 red envelopes. And also free to eat and drink for two days, without any guest gifts. Let the young beautiful girl know where she is in his mind.
Liu Qiang did not really realize that love and marriage are basically two different concepts. Among lovers, she just shows the good side. Love is good at disguising, and only after marriage can you be a real self. The young and beautiful girls watch chase dramas every day, buy high-end cosmetics, and travel when they are free. These are not topics that Liu Qiang is interested in. It hasn't been a year, and there is no topic between them, and there is no common language. .
Liu Qiang and his petite wife have nothing better than passion. He suddenly began to miss his ex-wife. He has discovered that apart from being young, there is no place for a young and beautiful girl to surpass his ex-wife. It is a world of difference...
thinks When I was with my wife and him, as long as the wife had money in her hands, she would plan carefully, renovate and buy various nutritional products, improve the quality of life, improve the happiness of marriage, and often go shopping with him. Try to take time to accompany him, let him feel the gentleness of his wife.
The little wife that I marry now spends 80,000 to 90,000 yuan every month, not to mention, but also makes a big noise Knowing to ask for money, knows nothing. I know how to spend all my money. No matter how hard the company is, I still need to spoil her when I go home. Wei Wei yells to go back to her mother's house, making him too painful and exhausting...
Today's Liu Qiang ran the company alone, and Xiaojiao's wife couldn't help if she was too busy. The company's management was indeed a bit difficult, and now she has encountered poor management. When facing another economic crisis, Xiaojiao's wife not only didn't understand An Wei, but also quarreled with him, which added a lot of trouble and pain to Liu Qiang.
When we were together, we all focused on economic interests. There was no common interest at all. When Liu Qiang ran out of money, the friendship, feelings, and marriage between them could only end here.
No wife's efforts to help Liu Qiang's company are getting more and more difficult. In the end, Liu Qiang’s company faced bankruptcy and owed more than 4 million foreign debts.In this situation, Xiaojiao's wife didn't say anything. She asked for a divorce agreement to be written, and she also wrote Liu Qiang's only property in her name.
When the company went bankrupt, Liu Qiang was 48 years old. When he divorced his ex-wife, he hadn't contacted him for 10 years, only knowing that she had arrived in a far away city. In order to revive his company, only his ex-wife can help him through this crisis. I am very eager for his ex-wife to give him a hand at this time and help him.
did not expect to see his ex-wife again after 10 years, that scene made him feel unacceptable. His ex-wife was already married and had children. Liu Qiang could tell: "Her husband loves her very much, just as he loved her back then." The married husband is not only a successful businessman, but also a successful entrepreneur. His ex-wife's eyes glowed and brightened when he saw his current husband...
Liu Qiang made a fresh start for his company. Putting down the man’s arrogance, he said with a thick scalp: "I hope she will help him again and help him through the difficulties again. After Liu Qiang finished speaking, he stood up slowly in the early stage and said: "I used to help you, we It’s a husband and wife, and we have common interests. You are my husband. I have a responsibility to help you. Now we have been divorced for 10 years. Why should I help you now?”
Liu Qiang finally tasted the real humiliation today. I can’t wait to get into the hole and face the ex-wife.
When Liu Qiang was proud of his life 10 years ago, it was because of an extramarital affair that he abandoned the same ups and downs, worked hard and worked hard, and the wife who started a business together. The words that he said to his wife arrogantly at the time of divorce made people feel. With chills, Liu Qiang never dreamed that after 10 years, due to no one to help the company run, his company was facing bankruptcy, and he owed more than 4 million foreign debts. The tragedy of desperate help and no one could help. It became the bitter fruit of his own. Taste it by yourself.
At this moment, Liu Qiang felt that his life was so absurd, and finally realized his mistakes, regretted the wrong decision he made, but he woke up too late, and there was no time to give him a chance to change. ...
The feelings of a divorced middle-aged man meeting his ex-wife again.
"They all hope that life will be worse when they meet their ex-wife.Rather than having a better life, if the ex-wife is doing well, the more you can prove that you are less capable and that you have failed.” They all hope that the life of the ex-wife will be worse and prove that she was the one who broke up in the first place. Wrong. Life will get worse.”
Actually, Liu Qiang is really stupid. He obviously has a good assistant who will always help him develop his career, but he doesn’t cherish it and throws it away. Not to mention the bankruptcy of the company today, it still owes more than 4 million in debt.
I sincerely hope to be with you, share joys and sorrows, work hard, and respect together, hard-working wives who are like a priceless mountain of gold and silver. You should cherish them, if you don't know how to cherish them, one day they will leave you.
Advantageous women are not bad. Once the advantaged women leave you, it is useless for you to regret it. Even if they leave you, they will still be owned by someone, and there are better people who match her with each other.
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