assistant told me that some parents will report to her that the platform recommended by the platform is getting worse and worse. Then the assistant checked the information of the parents in the background and found that their children are generally girls, with good jobs or academic qualifications. The only problem is that they are older, mostly over 30 years old. Why is it difficult for a good girl over 30 years old to get out of alone? Excluding the factor of age, what else is there to affect their search for objects?
1. First of all, the criteria for choosing a spouse cannot be lowered.
Excellent girls, at least one of their education, work, and family can not be mistaken. Their experience will become more and more abundant as they age. And as their personal abilities improve, their circles will become more quality. As a result, it is difficult for them to lower the standard when they are looking for the other half, because their pride will never allow them to choose boys who are worse than themselves.
I used to serve a 34-year-old girl. She has never been in a relationship. She has a master's degree and studied abroad. Now she is an executive in a foreign company, in charge of the Southeast Asian market, with an annual salary of 500,000. The girls’ parents are both state-owned enterprise managers, their family background is very good, and their appearance is also very good. Such girls, of course, have no shortage of suitors, but they were picky when they were young and have not settled on the other half for a long time. When he gets older, he has no choice but to choose a blind date. But for such an excellent girl, her mate selection criteria must not be lowered. Pushing boys' education to undergraduate is already her greatest limit.
But even if it seems to her to be a "regressive" standard, it is still difficult to find a target, because even if it is a boy who is a little worse than her in all aspects, there are many girls to choose from.
The reality is so cruel, so, I always advise girls to think about their life events before they turn thirty. When you are young, don't say something about not getting married. When you are over thirty, you regret it and choose to have a blind date.
2. Excellent older girls, the second reason that affects them in finding a partner is that they ignore the situation and current situation of blind dates. , And had to give in. They don’t understand men’s mate choice psychology and needs,Too much self-esteem. I feel that I am capable, highly educated, rich, and good-looking, and I take it for granted that men will be attracted to them. But they forget that in the context of blind dates, men generally look at young and beautiful girls.
3. The third reason is fierce competition
I saw a video blogger jokingly said, "Girls in Shanghai before 1996 basically can't get married." I haven't done this before. Comment more. I've only talked about a thirty-year-old girl, why is it so difficult to get off the list.
Excellent older girls, during blind dates, not only have to face peers who are the same as or better than themselves, but also face girls who are much younger than themselves. However, there are only so many high-quality men and girls with a little bit of capital who want to find a perfect partner. Coupled with the fact that their mate selection standards cannot be lowered, the competition will naturally be very fierce.
