"Being in love is a difficult thing. Long-distance love is harder than long-distance love, and military love is even harder than long-distance love." Indeed, military love often means a different place, while military marriage means gathering. Less and more. In the more than ten years of knowing and falling in love with my lover, I have frequently traveled to and from his resident, home and work unit, and adjusted my position several times, just to get closer to him.
Recalling the scene I saw for the first time, as a primary school teacher, I went to the Jiujiang Detachment of the Armed Police Force to perform a theatrical performance with the city cultural center. A young man of my age came in front of me and saw that his face was flushed and very shy, "Hello, can I exchange my phone number with you?" His sudden appearance made me feel a little bit at a loss. When I answered, he disappeared and disappeared into the crowd.
The first time I met, he fell silent because of his "shyness", and I didn't care about it at the time. But not long after, a team of instructors came to the school to organize military training. I saw a strange and familiar figure in the team. I was stunned. Isn't this the one who left before? I didn't expect to be handsome. Because I am the representative of the school and he is the leader of the team, our exchanges have increased.
After the military training is over, we continue to keep in touch. This kind of relationship lasted for several months, until after watching a movie, he hesitated for a long time and said "Let's be together". Looking back at that time, he didn't even prepare for bunching flowers, so I actually agreed to him!
Later, due to the needs of his tasks, his job position was transferred, and we met less and less frequently. Although I was mentally prepared, the pain of separating the two places was beyond my imagination. We can only rely on mobile phones to maintain our communication. When we are happy, we smirk at the mobile phone, and when we are sad, we cry bitterly at the mobile phone. Even arguing can only pretend to hang up the phone, and then stare at the mobile phone and wait for the other party's call for peace. In the era when there were no smartphones and no videos, sound was the only medium for us to connect with each other.
My friends always say that I am in love with a mobile phone, invisible, intangible, vague and impractical. But for this hard-won relationship to continue, a change must be made, so I made up my mind: "Since he guards peace and shoulders the responsibility, let me make changes, just to be closer to him. ”
I started to travel frequently to and from Jiujiang, and Hukou.To reach his squadron, I need to go through Yangtze River Bridge , turn 17 turns, and change three buses. Whenever I change to the last bus that arrives at the squadron, I always feel warm in my heart. Because I can feel that I will see him soon...
Two years later, we finally entered the marriage hall. After marriage, because of his job change, I also changed jobs twice. Every new unit must start from scratch. Whenever a friend asks me if I feel very hard, I always say: "For my love, for our family, these are nothing, as long as you can get closer to him, that's the best.
Hold your hand and grow old with him. Since I have chosen to follow, I just take care of both wind and rain. I would like to go hand in hand with you, and it will be you for the rest of my life.
Author: Armed Police Jiangxi Corps Zhang Jian's wife Luo Ping
Producer: Liu Fengqiao, Zhang Hongwei
Executive Producer: Zhang Jinling
Chief Editor: Guan Shusheng, Wang Wen
, Duty Editor: Wang Yanting and Yuan Haoxiang
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