One hundred years of cultivation can be done on the same boat, and thousands of years of cultivation can sleep together.
The meaning of this sentence is that it is not easy for two people to get along with each other in a huge crowd. It is the fate of years of cultivation.
means to tell us to cherish the hard-won fate and cherish our spouse.
Of course, if two people feel unsuitable after getting along, they can get together well.
After all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the love thing needs to be happy.
However, recently there was a woman who was abandoned by her boyfriend after she was eight months pregnant.
Obviously, they didn't get together well.
The police patiently enlighten the abandoned woman.
After being abandoned, she didn't dare to go home and couldn't find a job. She wandered around with her big belly for a month.
The woman said that her boyfriend stopped taking care of her after she knew she was pregnant.
She could see that her boyfriend didn't want to be with her, let alone let her give birth to the baby in her belly, so she deliberately ignored her.
She felt that it was meaningless to be around her boyfriend, so she chose to leave.
I wanted to go home, but I was afraid of being blamed by my parents, so I had no choice but to come to Ningbo alone to find a job.
However, because of her big belly, many jobs dare not accept her.
Because she has a big belly, it is not easy to work, and she is worried that she will have an accident at work, and eventually she will be responsible.
When she can't find a job, she has no money to support her life, so she can only choose to wander.
The police found her.
Later, we got help from our beloved police uncle.
Uncle police is worried that her belly is so big, if she continues to wander,It would be very dangerous in case of production.
So I asked her for her family's phone number, hoping to let her family pick her up after contacting her family.
Later, our beloved police uncle also transferred 500 yuan to her at his own expense, asking her to buy some delicious food or buy clothes. At the same time, staff were also arranged to take her to the train.
The police paid out of their pockets and transferred 500 yuan to her.
After the incident was exposed on the Internet, it caused a lot of heated discussions among netizens.
One of the netizens commented that the man should be exposed to let everyone know.
Another netizen commented "Girl, what kind of person did you meet? It's worth your life."
Another netizen even commented, "He ignores you, you still have his cubs".
Netizens' comments
For these three comments that have a lot of likes, the author is here to give an answer.
First of all, it is illegal for them to get pregnant when they are unmarried, and it is an infringement of the privacy of others to expose the man.
After all, his illegal behavior has not yet reached the level of exposure.
Secondly, this woman is second married, she may be worried that she will be disliked by the object and will be difficult to marry again.
So when you meet someone who is pursuing yourself, you blindly choose to be together, which will eventually lead to the result of pregnancy being abandoned.
Finally, because she has been pregnant for eight months, even if the man abandons her, she cannot choose not to keep the child.
Because she is very risky to take out the child, and even life-threatening.
Eight months pregnant, she has a big belly.
Author's opinion
The man knew that she was pregnant and ignored her. There should be one of the following two possibilities.
The first possibility is that he doesn't want to get along with her for a long time, and he has to bear the responsibility after giving birth, so he deliberately ignores her, meaning that he doesn't want the child.
The second possibility is that she didn't tell her boyfriend at the beginning of pregnancy, and she waited until her belly was big to let her boyfriend know, and the boyfriend was not mentally prepared or didn't want children temporarily.
Now, the child in her stomach is eight months old, and it is impossible not to want it, and her boyfriend abandoned her again, which means that the child has lost his father before the child is born.
In order to prevent similar tragedies from happening again, the author recommends that friends who do not have a spouse should spend more time observing each other's behavior when choosing a spouse.
Observe clearly, and then choose to be together after getting to know each other. After all, marriage is related to one's lifelong happiness, it is not a child's play and should not be treated carelessly.
At the same time, it is also recommended that friends who already have a spouse should communicate with their spouse frequently, exchange ideas, and communicate more to better avoid all kinds of conflicts.
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