There is a well-known saying in "Theory of Evolution": "There is a natural selection of things, and the fittest survives." In this life, people will inevitably compete with others. Because of the limited opportunities, you must compete with others if you want to get it. Win or lose.
It's just that, for some smart people, in life, some things are beneficial to them, and some things are not. Smart people don’t fight, the less you fight, the better your life.
In life, everyone wants to express it differently. In our lives, it is inevitable that we will take our face more importantly than anything else.
In fact, is face really important? You have to be clear, whether your life is good or not has nothing to do with others, and even no matter how you are, you will inevitably be criticized.
Moreover, when you value face more than anything else, it means that you don't have any strength, and only those without strength will care about external things.
A person's quality, character and conversation are the most important. A discerning person will know at a glance who is truly outstanding.
Being materially superior does not mean that you are a successful person. On the contrary, it seems that you like to show off, which is vain.
Only when the heart is truly tough and strong can you not care about the eyes of others, focus on your own career and life, and do your own thing well.
Like to fight for face, it means that you care too much about the eyes of others, eager to attract others' attention, and become the center of the crowd.
But in fact, is the opinion of others really that important?
Your life will never change in any way because of their words, and there is no more decent respect because of the respect that material deserves.
Smart people will not take the initiative to use money to decorate their own appearance and push themselves to the forefront. Instead, it pays attention to the cultivation of morality and the fullness of the spiritual world.
They know that people live for themselves. As long as they are strong enough, they will naturally be respected by others.
Therefore, in life, the brilliance of face has no practical meaning, but it will make one's own finances tight.
Instead of spending a few months' salary for the rich, it is better not to compete or grab, and not to take other people's evaluations at heart.
Only when you are confident enough, no one can define you.
Of course, in life, in addition to not fighting for face, you must also learn not to fight for words. After all, in our lives, there are many people who like it and are quick to speak.
However, good lip service does not mean that your point of view is correct. Even if you win the lip service, others will not admire you in their hearts.
After all, the victory of the word-of-mouth dispute is only superficial. In many cases, it will cause two people to split up.
Moreover, when arguing with others, we tend to lose our minds, say bad words, and hurt others' hearts.
Maybe the other party is not malicious, but in the process of arguing with you, you are sad because of your bad words.
You should know that when you are arguing with others, all your manners will be forgotten by you, highlighting all your shortcomings, and making others feel that you are difficult to approach.
You think you have won, but in fact you only won a bickering, but you lost more people's hearts.
This in itself is a thankless thing, maybe you feel that you have been released in the process, but one day you have to clean up the mess yourself.
Silence is golden. Gentlemen never talk about shortcomings with villains. Even if you are criticized, don't quarrel with others and lose your manners.
As long as you remain silent,If you don't take the initiative to respond, then no matter what the other person says, they are just asking themselves and they will always learn to shut up.
Time will prove everything. Everyone will see what kind of person you are. Someone will believe in you and you don't need to argue.
After all, few people in the colorful world can resist the temptation and feel like water.
However, the so-called fame and wealth are actually things outside of the body.
Being a man cannot be too utilitarian, and money cannot be made. We can only have one ability and one thing to do. Don't pursue unrealistic things.
Some things look bright and beautiful, but there is infinite darkness and distortion behind them. The stronger the light, the more obvious the shadow.
We can not only see the good side, but also pay attention to the disadvantages behind it.
Want to gain fame and fame, we often need to give up our conscience, become the top exploiter and abuser, and awaken our inner greed.
But after we get it, we will become stunned again. By then, it will be too late to regret.
Smart people will never lower their noble heads for fame and gain, but treat money as dirt and do what they really want to do.
After all, there is only one life, we should all cherish it, pursue our ideals, and realize our own value.
Fame and fortune disputes often hurt others, and will drag your loved ones into disputes.
The greater the benefit, the greater the risk. After you abandon everything for it, you may still not be able to put it in your bag, and you will eventually get nothing.
will even blind your eyes, making you a person who does no evil and loses the original goodness.
So, don't get into a fame and fortune dispute, otherwise you will only become miserable.
As long as we achieve these three indisputables, our lives will be able to go to the next level and live a comfortable and easy life.
We shouldn’t just care about what we are in front of,We should cherish poetry and the distance, and strive to reach the other side of the dream.
Only in this way can you convince people around you and make you go further and further on the road to success.
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