Many widowed or divorced elderly people will choose to live together in the end and find someone they like to accompany them for the rest of their lives. In reality, there are many such things, and there is not a lack of people who look away. This is how a couple is. They will break up after only 30 days of being together. As for what caused it, let’s take a look.
My surname is Qiu, 65 this year, and now I have a monthly pension. I live alone without any problems. My wife died of illness 5 years ago, and my daughter married away. I don’t want to cause trouble. It’s not bad to live alone.
I originally saw what happened to many people. I didn’t want to find a wife and spend the rest of my life together. It was not until one day that I realized that it’s wrong to be alone. I have a friend, Lao Wang, and we retire together. Going for a walk and playing chess together, it can be said that there is nothing to talk about. I slowly learned that his wife died 2 years ago and is alone now, but no one knows which one will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Heaven hasn't seen Pharaoh.
Out of concern, I started to inquire about Lao Wang's news, until someone told me, don’t you know? A few days ago, Lao Wang had a cerebral infarction and there was no one at home. It was only a few days after the accident was discovered.
is really unexpected. It seems to be in good health, but it is so. Only then did I realize how important it is to have a wife, who can save my life in times of crisis.
After Pharaoh’s incident, I decided that this suitable wife should at least have a caregiver, so I met Xiaoqian who was two years younger than me under the introduction of a friend. Xiaoqian is 63 years old this year and is in love. It can be said that the road was very bumpy, and I was deceived by my ex-husband, but now the conditions for small money are very good, and I can be regarded as a good match, and after a few days of chatting, I decided to live together.
I didn’t expect Xiaoqian to be very proactive. I moved to my side within a few days and said it was convenient to take care of. I thought it was a bit quicker, but Xiaoqian made sense. After all, we are so old and not 18-year-old children. No need.
In the first half of the month, Xiaoqian did a very good job and cleaned the house neatly, but I didn’t expect it to slowly reveal itself.Xiaoqian likes shopping online, saying that online things are cheap. At first, I felt that I was a person who knows how to keep a house, but I didn't expect that the clothes and cosmetics bought online would cost more than 1,000. I began to discuss with Xiaoqian slowly whether I could buy less. Some, older, no need to be so fancy.
I didn't expect Xiaoqian to say: These are several thousand in physical stores. Now I'm saving you money. You don't even think I spend a lot of money, and I do it for your own good. Although I don’t feel very comfortable in my heart, after all, I should save money for retirement at such an old age, instead of taking care of it, but I was afraid of making the little money unhappy, so I kept boring in my heart until she did too much again. Decided to disband.
Since the last time, Xiaoqian’s attitude has changed a lot. He doesn’t do housework, and he has nothing to do every day. In fact, as long as I don’t fight and live my life, I can do this housework by myself, so I go out to buy vegetables and cook every day. They are all clear soup and dwarf water. I used to reimburse me after I bought them. I paid as much as I spent. Now I don’t want to reimburse them. I thought that maybe I was thinking about reimbursing once a month, but I thought of her too much. Alright, near the end of the month, suddenly there was an online shopping that cost tens of thousands this time. I saw that the things I bought were all cosmetics.
This time I refused to pay, but I didn’t expect Xiaoqian to say something very hurtful: Are you a man, and you wanted to live with me at the beginning, and now I’m not willing to buy cosmetics for me, which one? Men don't want to see that their women are beautiful, so that they can bring out more face.
I was no longer patient at the time: You said that we are all so old, is it necessary to dress up like this every day? You are not showing it to me, you are spending my money to show it to others, besides, the things you buy can be thousands at every turn. I can't afford you, so let's break up.
Xiaoqian also said angrily: You are a useless man. I can't afford to support you. I mean you are incapable. There are so many chasing old ladies that you don't want to serve you, an incompetent man.
We are all at this age. We all want to live in peace and stability. What we want is to find someone we can rely on and report to the group to keep warm, instead of being a cash machine for some people, and a free nanny. Going to find a wife with some requirements and purposes will definitely end up unhappy in the end, and no one would want to pay for such a person.
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