Foreword
The greatest pain in life is the loss of relatives and friends, and the greatest tragedy in life is the betrayal of marriage.
Once upon a time, when I heard the news of my friend’s wife cheating, I pretended to comfort my friend: Brother, look at the open point, where there is no grass in the world! Looking back, I was not tired of it in my heart, but inexplicably felt a sense of gloating.
Now, when the same thing happens to myself in revenge, I realize how stupid I was at the beginning. I not only paid for my hypocrisy, but also paid a painful price. I became a veritable "Green Hat King"!
Xiao Wu is 34 years old this year and is currently a technical consultant for a large Internet company. With a high income, he encountered "Waterloo" in his marriage. He almost cried about his sad experience.
sweet love
Because of my relatively introverted personality, I am not good at dating girls, and I have never fallen in love during my entire college life. Now that my job is stable, I am eager to find a girl I like and start my emotional experience. Finally, through a colleague's introduction, I met Xiaoya, a girl who works in the same city.
Although Xiaoya is not outstanding in appearance, she has a sunny personality, loves to talk and laugh, and is the only child in the family. At first I didn't care much about her, but as we got in touch with her more and more, I gradually developed a good impression of her.
She is very enthusiastic about me, always looking for every opportunity to approach me, inviting me to dinner, watching a movie, and even holding me inadvertently and acting like a baby, making me a little shy and at a loss. Her tenderness brought me great spiritual comfort and inspired my potential desire to protect women. Whenever I see her blurred eyes, there will always be infinite heartbeats in my heart,So we fell in love.
Men and women in love are crazy, but they are even sweeter! Every day as long as we have time, we will stick together, walk hand in hand on the lively street, wandering in the garden under the moon, vowing to love each other for life forever.
A warm marriage
Our relationship went well, and we won the support of our parents, so we got married half a year later. The married life is romantic and warm. Every time I go home from work, Xiaoya, who has already finished get off work, will walk towards me with a smile, and suddenly give me a warm hug, and then I will give her an affectionate kiss. Watching her slowly fall asleep in my arms every night, a kind of heartfelt satisfaction and happiness arose spontaneously. I vowed to love her forever.
The life after marriage goes on like this, plain and happy, romantic and warm. Soon, due to the expansion of the company's business, I needed to travel frequently, and it would take me a month or two to go there. Xiaoya burst into tears when she heard that I was going on a long business trip, because she couldn't stand the days without me. I could only hold her tightly, comfort and explain to her with my heart, and finally she also understood my difficulties.
The parting days are bitter. Although we can talk to her every day on phone calls and videos, it still can’t ease our missing each other, and make each other more lonely because of missing. Whenever I see the wife's eyes filled with tears in the video, I will feel infinite guilt in my heart, I can't wait to fly over immediately, and then hold her tightly.
found derailment
The days are so separated, and we have gradually adapted to this rhythm of life. It's finally the day when the business trip is over again. The thought of seeing my long-awaited wife soon makes me very excited. In order to give her a surprise, I decided to go home one day earlier, so I asked for leave from the leader.Embarked on the journey home.
It was 11 o'clock in the evening when I got home. With joy and excitement, I slowly opened the door and walked into the bedroom quietly. The moment I turned on the light, I was stunned. The sordid scene in front of me almost suffocated me, and the image of a naked man and a woman embracing each other came into my sight.
I instinctively rushed to fight with the man, venting my anger desperately. The man kept begging for mercy, but Xiaoya hugged me and cried loudly. However, I had completely lost my mind and slapped her at her. In the panic, the man ran away with the clothes in his arms. I didn't continue to chase. Seeing Xiaoya crying with her chest wrapped in the sheets, I collapsed on the ground.
chooses to forgive
Wife cheating, this is something I never thought of in my concept, and now it has become a living reality, which makes me unacceptable. Humiliated, angry, and regretful, I was completely at a loss. Looking at my painful wife on her knees, this woman who made me love and hate, I had mixed feelings. divorce? Maybe this is my only choice.
I stood up and wanted to get out, ready to leave this place of right and wrong, but she hugged me, no matter how hard I struggled, she held me tightly. Seeing Xiaoya crying, apologizing, and guaranteeing, there was a hint of pity in my heart.
All night, watching her cry until dawn, I still haven't made a choice. The idea of divorce flashed in my mind, but I still couldn't make up my mind. After all, she is my wife, she used to love me so much! After two days of ideological struggle, I finally compromised. I chose to forgive her, but I couldn't tell why.
After forgiving my wife, everything seems to have returned to calm, but the feelings between us can hardly return to the past. The laughter and laughter between each other were less, but the indifference and suspicion increased. Even during the business trip, I no longer actively contacted her. Slowly, she became accustomed to my indifference, and she began to ignore my changes, and no longer took the initiative to give me an embrace.
derailed again
As time goes by slowly,I have an increasingly ominous premonition, because I can feel the changes in my wife. She doesn't seem to feel guilty for her derailment anymore, but can calmly face all my abnormal behaviors. So, a thought came to my mind, I want to follow her.
So I took time off from my work and lurked downstairs at my wife's work every day. Until noon one day, I looked at her from a distance, smiled and walked out, and got into a car. Although I didn't see the driver clearly, I had a foreboding that something might happen, so I quickly stopped a taxi and followed.
The car stopped at the door of a hotel. After the door opened, I determined that the driver was the man who was arrested last time. At this moment, everything is already clear. The moment they watched them walk into the hotel arm in arm, I was suddenly indifferent and silently stunned.
However, it seems that I am completely relieved in my heart. I will no longer hesitate in choosing the future, because I have been "green" too thoroughly!
Concluding remarks
A good love does not necessarily have a good marriage, and a good marriage does not necessarily have a good ending. Once some mistakes are made, there is no room for turning back. Forcibly retaining, it is bound to plunge oneself into a more miserable situation!
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