Zhang Ailing once wrote in " red rose and white rose ": Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one becomes a mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one is the bright moonlight in front of the bed; if you marry a white rose, the white one is a piece of rice sticky stick on the clothes, but the red one is the mouth of the heart The last cinnabar mole. This passage of
, when I first read it, did not understand the profound meaning of it. It was not until after I got married and experienced the problems of my ex that all relationships face, did I understand the essence of this passage.
I have always believed that the relationship between husband and wife can be cultivated slowly, even if there is no love or mutual understanding before marriage. Just like our fathers, we were introduced by a matchmaker.
After getting married, I started to fall in love slowly from the firewood, rice, oil and salt. It's been a long time since , no matter where I go, I feel more concerned about her. This may be how love is slowly sprouting.
Looking at the love of the parents, I think those love-hate entanglements in the TV book should not exist in reality. With that in mind, he agreed to the invitation of the boy who had a blind date that day. After tentative contact a few times, I found that the other person was very honest and treated me well. After thinking about it, I promised the other person to look everywhere first. After
finished the New Year, he went to work abroad. So, we officially started long-distance relationship !
He will often call me after get off work, and will occasionally come back during holidays. Usually more contact is to ask questions on WeChat. After two years of this relationship, we got married. After marriage, he had a lovely baby, and with the help of his family, he returned to his hometown to open a noodle shop.
noodle shop is next to school , the usual business is not bad.The store is mainly run by the two of us, and the baby is brought by my grandmother.
thought that the days would pass as easily and normally.
did not expect that the arrival of a stranger one day broke everything that seemed peaceful.
The woman: thin, curly brown hair, wearing stiletto heels, and carrying a small bag with a Mickey Mouse pattern on her back. The first time I saw her, I felt that this small bag did not match her.
She was very direct. She walked into the store and ran directly to her husband.
When my husband saw her, the expression on his face was first surprise, then panic, then embarrassment, and at the end he pretended to be calm.
I saw her husband greet her with a strong and calm voice, and say something nice. After all, it is an old classmate for many years, no matter what the previous relationship was, there is still some polite words to meet.
My husband introduced me in front of the woman, and then they sat down and chatted a few words. After about 10 minutes, the woman left. Although the woman is gone, my heart has not settled down. The woman's intuition tells me that they have something to do!
Sure enough, in the evening, my husband said that several of their old classmates wanted to get together and go out for dinner! I didn't stop me, I responded and he left.
later, I know. That female classmate was her husband's first love and also her ex. Due to poor grades in high school, he dropped out of high school to work. On campus, their love was known to almost everyone in the class. After the girl left, my husband kept calling every now and then, eagerly looking forward to their return.
After the college entrance examination, her husband went out to find her with his family behind his back.
Turns out she already has a boyfriend and tells her husband that they will be friends for life. After
came back, my husband was heartbroken and locked himself at home for a long time.It wasn't until September that University started school and I went to a different place, and it slowly got better.
did not expect that after two years, the female classmate found her husband's contact information and address. Went to his school and said she was single again and said she still loved him.
So, like a dog blood drama, I don't know if every man will have an inexplicable impulse or nostalgia for his first love, in short, they are together again. Husband once said: He had a girlfriend who was thin, good-looking when walking, good-looking in floral dresses, and good-looking when smiling.
The irony is that he used to listen to everything he said calmly, but now it hurts like a needle stick!
For some reason, they separated again not long after graduating from college. After
, I exist.
Now, she's back. Want to get back everything that belongs to her.
husband, but not like I used to know.
That female classmate is his white moonlight and the cinnabar mole on his chest; at this time, I have become rice particles on my clothes or mosquito blood on the wall.
Her husband's attitude was unclear, and it gave female students an opportunity to take advantage.
And I, for the sake of my baby, decided to expel , the enemy in my life, ! After
united my parents and my husband's friends, standing on the moral high ground, I won this battle of love defense.
Some people will say: I don't want the love that I donate!
Such love is too cheap!
However, as a wife, as a mother, I think there are some things, if I can win, why should I give up? The
predecessor is indeed a headache, but in today's society, who has never encountered a few scumbag predecessors. If you have a problem, don't be afraid.The scary thing is, escaping from the problem, daring to face it, daring to fight for yourself!
Whether you are a white moonlight or a cinnabar mole, as long as the three views are not correct, you should be beaten out. We will never tolerate this kind of person!
