What is a marriage, it is probably that two people are always loyal and accompany each other through this long life journey. If one party has a different opinion, this marriage will be difficult to continue. Even if the heart that has left can come back, it is not worth putting it on. Take good care in the palm of your hand.
Cheating is something that cannot be forgiven in marriage. There has been a saying since ancient times that there is only one difference between cheating once and zero, so why would anyone choose to cheat? Today we are going to discuss a question, that is why there is no way to stop the loss in time after a woman cheats? These three women tell the truth.
Ms. Zhao:
I have been a relatively quiet girl since I was a child, living my life step by step. Even in terms of love, I obey my parents.
When I was in in college, I talked to a boyfriend. He was my first love and the only variable in my life. I really fantasized that I could spend a lifetime with him.
Unfortunately, we didn't get to that point in the end. After graduating from college, we went our separate ways to pursue our dreams. was separated by thousands of miles. My parents didn't want me to marry away.
I have been a girl with no opinion since I was a child. I have never refuted my parents' words. Even if my heart is particularly painful, I still choose to break up with him decisively.
After we broke up, my parents gave me a blind date. I didn't express any opinion on this. I can't change what my parents approved.
After working for a year, I married a boy carefully selected by my parents. After marriage, my life was dull and stable, but it was not so difficult to accept.
just like this will last a lifetime, it is also a good choice for me, until I met my first love again, he aroused the passion in my heart, knowing that it is wrong, I still can't control it sink.
In the face of my husband's inquiries, I thought about breaking up with my first love, and I knew in my heart that this relationship with my first love was destined to be unacceptable.
But I have no way to stop the loss in time. I am greedy for the warmth and affection brought by my first love. I can't give up that feeling at all. makes me willing to live with the condemnation and in the enjoyment of happiness.
Ms. Zhang:
From the outside, I look bright, but my heart is already full of holes. My husband has not given me the life I want. I can only fulfill my own vanity by giving up myself.
The reality of the society has flattened the edges and corners of my body. I can only constantly compromise in the cruelty of this society. I am a salesperson, and without performance, my life is destined to be particularly difficult.
I have been a strong woman since I was a child, and I could not bear to be struggling at the bottom of the society. Facing the shortcut, I finally chose to give in.
The rules of this world are like this. If you want to get the best, you have to give everything that ordinary people can't give. When I cheated for the first time, I felt very guilty and wanted to give up. is faced with the temptation of money. , and cowardly husband, I have no other choice.
Betrayed again and again, rumors from the outside world, it is impossible for my husband not to know, he still chooses to accept all this silently, because he is incompetent.
In this lifetime, in the face of reality, how many people can stick to their original principle ? Who is not awake and sinking.
Ms. Shao:
A loveless marriage caused by a sexless marriage, I have come to such an indulgent life today without my husband's indifference. After more than ten years of marriage, our married life is pitiful, No matter how I tempt me Husband, my husband pushes me away calmly, that resolute look once made me feel very unconfident in myself.
Later I found out, My husband is indifferent, it is not that he has no desire for me, but he has no desire for all women.
I am a normal woman. Even if I want to live a stable life, I cannot resist my inner needs. In the end, I took that step. The release of
made me completely obsessed with this feeling. I have no feelings for my husband, and my heart will not suffer from conscience.
Besides, my husband didn't express any objection after finding out that I was cheating. only hinted me not to be too presumptuous.
I have been with my husband for more than ten years, and I have been suffering for more than ten years. Once released, it is very difficult to take back my heart. He has always been sorry for me. Without him, I would not have become what I am today. .
Analysis:
When you decide to marry someone, you decide to be responsible for your partner. Betrayal is the most shameful thing in marriage. Betrayal for any reason is not noble, and you really like someone , will not choose to be with that person in secret.
Marriage is not easy. It needs to be well maintained by both husband and wife to make this relationship indestructible. There are many temptations from the outside world. Don't make unforgivable mistakes for temporary indulgence.
The regrets in life can be corrected. If you do not use the correct method, it is not worthy of respect. Everything in this world is voluntary. From the moment of approval, some behaviors should be restrained.
The original intention remains unchanged. How desirable is this? People live for a lifetime, and most of them are powerless. The warm and clean heart at the beginning has long been pressed into the deepest part of the heart with the tempering of society.
People want a lot of things in their life, how can they bring everything into their own world? Money and desire drive everyone to fall into the abyss of prosperity. The glamorous in front of others and the humbleness behind others, why do you torture yourself physically and mentally?
A dull life will have the pleasure of a dull life, and a prosperous life will also have a prosperous sorrow. Don't pursue those things that are far from yourself, and lose your most precious things.
There is no deception in marriage, and there is no way to keep your partner, let alone isolate each other from your own world. Two people live together, and there is only one party's enthusiasm, and there is no way to separate them. The relationship lasted.
Unsuitable people should stop their losses in time. It is the most stupid thing to degenerate themselves for the unsuitable people. People can only be worthy of their efforts if they love themselves well. Don't give up your principles easily and let yourself indulge in desire.
Summary: Never take a chance on a thing. From the moment you have such an idea, you are doomed to have what kind of ending it will have in the end, and you will experience the feeling of dying in the light of things that don't see the light.
