披星戴月奔向理想和你
你好呀
我是然怡
这篇是过稿文
作者：向子声
想到电影《模仿游戏》里的图灵
同性恋
本就不是罪
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I saw this sentence some time ago:
is obviously heterosexual, but is willing to support same-sex anti-discrimination. In this world, some people are cold-blooded, and some people are so warm.
The first time I truly felt that the marriage was happening beside me was when my cousin didn't show up at the engagement banquet as promised.
After waiting until more than eleven o'clock, the guests under the seat were discussing in an uproar.
Uncle paced up and down in a hurry, constantly talking on the phone, and the mountain between his brows was getting higher and higher.
Sister-in-law looked at her delicate makeup in front of the dressing table in the mirror. While comforting her anxious aunt, she responded to the guests with a smile.
And I can clearly see the tears in my sister-in-law's eyes.
"Stinky boy, you are trying to piss me off. I tell you, if you don't come today, then don't go back home, don't recognize me as a dad!"
drop!
is the hang up sound.
Only then did I realize that my cousin, who I thought I was familiar with when we grew up together, actually had a boyfriend .
The feast of the day ended unhappy.
Uncle found a reason to feel unwell, so the guests left.
My mother comforted my aunt for an afternoon and let me go home first, but there was no news from my cousin.
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When I got home, I dialed the familiar number, and sure enough, no one answered.
didn't give up, I dialed every few minutes, lying on the sofa, doing repetitive things mechanically, thousands of thoughts.
I used to think that homosexuality is far away from me, and marriage is farther away.
did not expect this to happen to my cousin, whom I have been familiar with since childhood.
In fact, I have always been prejudiced against homosexuality, like some people, thinking it is a "disease".
But now thinking about my close cousin, who is sunny and cheerful, I can't put the word "sick" on his head.
I called until the early hours of the morning.
dialed without expectations.
Unexpectedly, the phone suddenly went through!
"Hello? Cousin, is that you?" I asked hesitantly.
"Yin Yin." My cousin's voice sounded hoarse.
"Cousin, where are you now? Uncles and aunts have been looking for you, they are very anxious."I said it cautiously, feeling my cousin's emotions.
" Yin Yin, tell me the truth. Do you support cousin? "
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My cousin and I talked for a long time that night, and he hung up the phone just after three o'clock in the morning. Finally, my cousin promised me that he would go home today. How much has changed with the concept of love.
But I know, after that night, I made it clear that homosexuality is not a character defect, nor is it a "disease".
Homosexuality is also a sincere relationship, no better than heterosexual What’s less in the love between.
should not be accused of “disgusting” and “perverted”.
My cousin and his boyfriend met in their freshman year and established a relationship in their sophomore year.
and Xu Like many ordinary couples, they spend a happy college time and are also facing the breakup season.
Unfortunately, they did not get admitted to the same city as graduate students.
It is said that the most cruel way to test the strength of a couple's relationship is The way is long-distance relationship .
"Surviving a long-distance relationship is a lifetime. "
They chose a long-distance relationship. The two persisted. After graduation, he came to work in his cousin's city. Season, long-distance relationship, seven-year itch .
is clearly a relationship that should be envied by most people.
But just because they are boys , they have become "monsters" that many people do not accept.
Just because they are of the same sex, they lose the freedom and blessings that other couples can easily acquire.
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cousin said that at the moment when he chose to get married under the pressure of his parents, his heart was completely despairing.
He knew that his cousin was a good girl, and he didn't want to delay her, so on the day of the engagement, he didn't go.
Because a person already has a loved one in his heart, he can no longer give other people the happiness they want.
Cousin finally told me that he would not choose to marry again, but he would always stay by his uncle and aunt's side as another way of filial piety.
suddenly remembered who he used to be, and used homosexuality as a laughing stock.
When the male ticket first started to pursue me, because I didn't have any feelings for him, I even thought about using the excuse that I am gay to excuse .
Later, I had a heart-to-heart with the male ticket. He said that he had liked a girl for a long time before, and when he thought that he would be successful, he found that this girl actually likes her girlfriend .
Yes, girl friend.
I can't imagine how big the psychological shadow area of the male ticket would have been if I had found that excuse at the time.
But this makes me sure that love is really gender-neutral, and monosexuality is indeed a sincere and beautiful love.
I learned that the causes of homosexuality include inherited factors and acquired influence.
Gay couples are less likely to be together than the average couple.
Because if you fall in love with a person whose sexual orientation does not match your own, whether it is to give up or confess , it will be a heartbreaking and suffocating thing.
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Two boys together, in fact, is not difficult to accept.
They will also have their own happy lives like ordinary couples.
Regardless of the same sex or the opposite sex, in a relationship, I think the most important thing is to examine it carefully, regardless of sexual orientation, as long as the other person is not a scumbag or a scumbag, it is the right person.
Finally, I borrowed a sentence I had seen before:
is obviously heterosexual, but is willing to support same-sex anti-discrimination. In this world, some people are cold-blooded, and some people are warm-hearted.
I hope you and I can be the warmest people.
Bless others without reservation, regardless of gender, just because they truly love each other.
