Introduction:
The story I’m discussing with you today is that a man delivered food to a hotel and met his wife by chance. The wife explained that I was just reminiscing with him. The man was angry with his wife and divorced. Let’s listen to their story together. .
Mr. Diao:
I am 32 years old and I have been married to my wife for five years. I am a delivery man, specializing in food delivery. I have two children, my son is in first grade and a daughter is in kindergarten. I'm just an ordinary person who earns thousands of dollars a month to live on. Since my daughter was born, I've been under a lot of pressure. The first thing I think about every morning when I open my eyes is how to make money.
In today's society where you can make money, even if you work hard, you still can't achieve the life you want to live. Because everyone's life is under too much pressure now, mortgages, car loans, school expenses for children, all kinds of expenses are overwhelming me. Originally, my wife and I just wanted to get a promotion. At that time, I had my son.
We were both satisfied, but then my wife got pregnant unexpectedly for two months. Originally I wanted to go to the hospital to get rid of it, but then my wife relented and said that it was a life after all. Since I was pregnant, I would raise it. Later, we wanted this child.
It was very difficult to raise my son at first, and the pressure of life was also very high. Later, after having a second child, the pressure of life became more and more serious. I didn't dare to ask for leave, and I didn't dare to take a break. I work 11 hours a day. I know what kind of environment I am in and I have to work hard and make money. I have to rely on my own hands to support our family to death. This is a man's responsibility and obligation. Since he chooses to get married, he must accept the pressure brought by marriage .
Whenever I feel that life is difficult, I especially regret that I agreed to my wife to have a daughter. If my wife had not been soft-hearted, life would not be like this now. Every day, I leave early at and return at at night. I send orders everywhere and run around the city, leaving my footprints in the whole city. In order to give my son, daughter and wife a better life, I work every 5 days, and I don't rest every month. If I don't rest, I can get 400 dollars more every month.
is still relatively cost-effective in the overall calculation. It is useless to rest at home for a day. It is better to get an extra 400 yuan per month at work. This 400 yuan is enough for our family to eat for two days and three days. My wife also works, but she has a child while working. The salary is not that high, only 2500. My wife is doing part-time .
My wife's part-time job is relatively short, and she has enough time to pick up her children and do housework. This kind of life is not bad. Over the years, my wife and I have often quarreled with and because I have no money.
Whenever we have to repay the mortgage or pay the tuition fees for our children, our husband and wife are staring at each other. You have no money and I have no money. This is how the conflict arises. My wife often dislikes me for being unpromising, saying that I cannot support a family as a big man.
I am also under a lot of pressure. I leave early every day and come back late. I work so long, and when I get home, my wife dislikes me. I am also very wronged, and I feel very difficult, but who can help me?
My wife disliked me, so I quarreled with her. I couldn't be more angry, I was working hard, but I still had no money, what should I do? I run all over the city every day, either in the wind or in the rain, and sometimes even being scolded or complained by customers, I feel very aggrieved.
But must life go on even if it's hard? It is not difficult for anyone to live in this world, the world of adults is not easy to contain, so no matter how difficult life is, you must grit your teeth and persevere. Is it possible that we are tired from work and hard to live, so we just lie in bed all day and do nothing?
I have been married to my wife for so many years. I leave early and come back late every day. When I come back, my wife is sometimes asleep. I can't see her during the day. There is communication.
There is no other topic besides talking about the child. One day, one night, she goes to work when I come back, and she comes back to sleep when I go to work, otherwise it will be upside down, and I can't see her anyway.
I have endured all of this for the sake of life, but then something happened and I decided to divorce this scumbag wife. I was still delivering takeout at 12pm one night. I was a little uncomfortable that day, I wanted to go home early from get off work at 11 o'clock. But just 5 minutes before I get off work.
I received an order from a hotel. At that time, I felt a little far away, but the other party paid 10 yuan for the delivery fee . Looking at the delivery fee of 10 yuan for the order, I was a little bit and , and then I thought about that place is not very far, and my driving skills are good, it will arrive in a while, and I can easily get 10 yuan, The more I thought about it, the more I was moved, and then I took the order.
But when I delivered the order to the customer at the fastest speed, I found out that my wife delivered the takeaway to the hotel door that day, and I pressed the doorbell , there was a fat man, about 30 years old, with a large gold chain around his neck. At that time I rang the doorbell. He opened the door and instead of taking the takeaway, he turned around to get his phone.
He said to scan the delivery fee for me directly. At that time, the door was wide open, and a woman inside saw this scene and I avoided it. But when I turned my head and didn't look inside, the woman inside said, "Why are you holding the phone?" The voice was very familiar at the time, and I jumped in because it seemed to belong to my wife.
Sure enough, I saw my wife when I threw the takeaway on the ground. Asked why my wife is here, my wife's answer surprised me "Husband, don't think too much, I'm friends with him, we're just chatting, not what you think" At that time, our husband and wife were in room At the door, you and I were arguing in and , and the man inside closed the door.
Then the two of us were arguing outside. My wife kept explaining that they were friends and we hadn't seen each other for many years, but I didn't listen. In the end, I just scolded my wife and said, "Divorce! It's right in front of me." After I said that, I left, and my wife didn't come back that night. On the second day, I took a leave and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures with my wife.
That's how we got divorced and we still live together, but we are no longer husband and wife. I also assumed the responsibilities and obligations of a family as usual, repaying the mortgage and paying the school fees for my children. But I no longer have a wife's place in my heart, and she and I have already become strangers.
Concluding remarks:
Many people who have experienced marriage say that marriage is difficult. Those who have been married, men regret entering marriage. Because in marriage there will be constant quarrels and contradictions, as well as various temptations that attract us. If a person is not firm, then he will be attracted to outside temptations.
thus lead to the failure of the marriage.The most taboo in marriage is disloyalty and irresponsibility, not taking marriage seriously. Whether it's a man or a woman, once cheating is unforgivable.
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