Middle-aged women are a particularly shrewd, realistic and mature group.
Maybe there is still romance in the heart, and the idea of pursuing romance, but it is obviously more rational and sober, and the requests and inner yearnings are more simple.
What kind of man can conquer middle-aged women? Maybe some of the routines used to treat the little girl are completely immune to the other party, such as some sweet words, low-cost flattery and the like, which will definitely not impress them.
You have to ask yourself if you can give him these three points before discussing it is impossible!
Can give her a sincere and considerate
When many men pursue young girls, they are accustomed to using sweet words, courting and other tricks to successfully win the favor of the other party, and the girl's heart will be easily opened like this...
But middle-aged women won't eat this set at all!
They have already experienced love and marriage, and they feel the truth in it, and their understanding of men is much more accurate than before, so if a man doesn't know how to change his strategy, still wants to use some unintentional routines like used to succeed. Go after each other and you can only fail.
For a woman at this stage, a man must first be able to gain her favor.
What they care about is not how slippery a man is, but the kind of sincere man who can give her consideration.
Is a person really sincere to another person, what is his starting point and motivation? As long as carefully observes ; as long as there is enough time to get along and communicate, you will definitely figure it out.
So if you want to flirt with each other directly and just want to have a short-term relationship, it is recommended not to challenge middle-aged women who want to develop a relationship seriously, because they can see through it at a glance, and they will definitely not let you get close to yourself. Chance.
gave her enough security
As mentioned earlier, middle-aged women have experienced failed relationships and failed marriages, but there are still some wounds in their hearts that have not been fully healed.
Although the surface seems to be light, but in the face of the pursuit of and of the opposite sex, it is easy to increase the defense in the heart.
They will carefully observe everything about each other, and then decide whether to give each other a chance to start. Even if
is given, in the next time, in getting along with him, he will continue to observe and identify whether this man belongs to the kind of man who can bring him enough sense of security and belonging.
Therefore, a man must not only have a certain amount of wealth and career, but also a mature, stable and very loyal reliable personality, so that a middle-aged woman can make a middle-aged woman feel that you are competent for her partner. A best person, you will have such a chance to develop a successful relationship with her.
In addition, the kind of superficial, vulgar, vulgar, cowardly, incompetent or obsessive men are undoubtedly the types of men who are afraid and avoid for middle-aged women.
There must be a lot of stories about middle-aged women who can accept each other's past
. Why do they get divorced? There may be a lot of unknown things hidden here.
In fact, if you talk about it carefully, the failure of a relationship or a marriage cannot be entirely the fault of the other party. Maybe it is the personality of the two people, or it may be caused by some practices of a woman or something in terms of personality.
So if you really care about a middle-aged woman and want to pursue her, then you need to have a clear understanding in your heart: that is, you must be able to accept the past of the other party and not be troubled by them.
So it's best if you investigate in detail what the other person was divorced for in the past before taking action?
Look at that reason again, and make a decision after you can accept it and face it. This may be the most reliable approach for the future.
After all, if you find a woman with very bad habits and habits, you can't stand it, and you can only bring harm and pain to the rest of your life.
Conclusion:
What kind of man can conquer middle-aged women? In fact, middle-aged women are relatively realistic. The conditions they require of men are not low, and they may be higher than those of young women.
Maybe they will not force each other to be handsome and handsome, but at least this man must have the ability and wealth to support himself and a family.
and has a mature and steady personality. She takes care of her family and is loyal to . She is responsible and responsible. She can give her a considerate sincerity and care for . She can give her enough sense of security. , really open her heart to develop a better future with her seriously.
allows her to be under the protection and care of each other for the rest of her life, and will no longer feel the pain and hurt caused by emotions and marriage! A man like
is the type of the opposite sex that middle-aged women think best meets their needs.
So if a man wants to pursue a middle-aged woman, he must first ask himself if he can give her the above, and then make a decision after thinking about it!
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