At a wedding banquet, I sat down with him, and I suddenly noticed his handsomeness.
At that time, he was in his sixties, his silver hair was neatly pulled back, his skin was white and rosy, his body was tall, and when he smiled, the corners of his mouth were turned up, and the corners of his eyes were turned down. He was very kind, especially his voice. Like "heartthrob" Sean Connery, it feels like it's coming out of the nose and it's sexy. I stared at him from time to time and he was unconscious. More than an hour passed quickly. At that time, I didn't know anything about him except his appearance.
will pay attention because of attention. On the way to work, I often find his figure, and my feelings for him are getting stronger and stronger. Sometimes, I will deliberately stop, and my eyes will move with his figure, and I will not leave until it disappears.
One day, an old colleague of mine said to me that he wanted to introduce me to someone and wanted me to meet at the woman's house. I was very puzzled. It's not good to go to the house for the first time. He said that the girl is the jewel of the family. She Her parents did not let her meet men outside.
Because my family was also forcing me to get married, I went with my old colleagues without objection. When I arrived, I was so excited and felt that something was on my chest. It turned out that the old man I had been thinking about was the girl's father. Seeing the old man sitting majestically without saying a word, I was very afraid, afraid. My misconduct will cost me the chance to see the old man again.
is okay, passed the first trial. I go to the old man's house every week and chat with their family of three, and gradually get to know each other. Every time I go, the time is fixed and it is urgent. I learned from my old colleagues that the old man is very satisfied with me, saying that I am handsome, kind, in good shape, and good at work. I can also see it from the hospitality that their old couples warm to me every time. inferred.
My thoughts are mainly focused on the old man, and his daughter can be regarded as auxiliary, so I know the most about the old man.
The old man is a retired cadre. He is the only boy in their family, so the whole family revolves around him alone. In the society at that time, it was not easy to eat white rice . However, after buying the rice at home, it was necessary to sift it out, give it to him if it was strong, and eat it for the rest of the family. Going to university is such an environment that develops the stubborn and conceited character of the elderly.
He has five children, the other four are married , the current girl is his youngest daughter, and the old couple both have retirement wages. When other children and grandsons came to his house, he often didn't say a word, and kept his face sullen. If his words and deeds were not what he wanted, he would just scold him, so the children and grandsons felt that the old man was not easy to approach. Unless there were special circumstances, they were Don't come to the old man's house. The old man was the only one who loved his little daughter very much. When her daughter came back from get off work, he had a smile on his face, asking this and that.
I have been with their family for nearly a year, my desire for the old man has not changed, I really like the air in his home and the smell of the old man, especially after the old man just took a bath, his head full of white hair looks like It's going to float up and drive me crazy. As long as the old man is not at home after one visit, I am very disappointed and feel that my visit was in vain. Of course, the old couple also loves me very much. Knowing that I like to eat hand-made noodles, the old man will make them for me. Knowing that I like spicy food, they will fry a spicy dish and put it in a place close to me. Also liked the overall atmosphere of his home.
Because his daughter's conditions were average, my family did not agree, I hesitated, and the old man found out that my attitude towards his daughter was not enthusiastic, so he cut off our communication.Since then, I have been lost for a long time, often sitting alone, reminiscing the old man's frown and smile , often crying alone, sad for not being able to contact the old man at close range, sometimes I don't want to eat, my mother thought I was thinking of the old man My daughter, although they didn't want to, for me, she wanted to find someone to talk to, but I didn't answer.
Later, his daughter got married, and then I got married. The old man and I met on the street occasionally, and we greeted each other politely. The old man's white skin, hair, and tall figure made him stand out in the crowd, and sometimes I would deliberately walk towards him from the crowd, I just wanted to take a closer look at him.
His daughter is in the same unit as my sister, so I know the situation of the old man's house very well. After his daughter got married, he was relatively happy at first, but later, his son-in-law lost his job due to a job crime, and he was in the society all day long. worry about her daughter's future. Therefore, the salary of the old lady is kept and spent by her daughter, and the salary of the old man is used for family expenses, but his salary is high enough to live a well-off life.
One day, we met again, this time we chatted for a long time, the old man said, "It's been a long time, your aunt wants to see you, would you like to?" Isn't this what I expected, how dare I hesitate, Left a phone call to him and said no problem.
One day, two days, three days passed, and I couldn't see the old man's phone. I waited painfully. One afternoon a month later, when I just went to work, the old man's call came. I hurriedly put down my work and went to his house. Of course, there is no need to buy gifts. I felt the familiar environment, and smelled the air I liked very much. I could see that the old couple was fully prepared, and the hospitality was thoughtful and warm. My babysitter also came, and I reluctantly left.
Our relationship is much closer.There are only two of them at home. I often go to his house and buy this and that for him. The old lady is old and in bad health. She often stays in bed. Sometimes when I go, she avoids going to the bed. We are the only ones in the room. The old man will sit next to me and watch TV while I hold his Hand, he also digs my back from time to time, I always feel that the time with him is very short.
The old man will also buy me things, shirts , T-shirts, etc. I don’t know if he went there personally or someone else’s staff. The colors always match me. Whenever there is a festival, he prepares a delicious meal for me and calls me to pick it up. Knowing that I like to eat dried plum beans, every autumn he will dry it a little more and pack some for me. What I am most afraid of is that I bring my child to meet him. As soon as I see my son, he will give money. Once I refuse to let him, he will get angry and make a loud noise, and everyone around him will stop. The cigarettes he smokes cost ten or twenty yuan. For me, he prepares them separately. Every time he will bring out Chinese cigarettes and lighters for me and put them in front of me. Knowing that I like to drink a certain kind of drink, every time I go, he will take it out from a corner of the house and let me drink it. His wife said, the old man knew that I was coming soon, so he went out and bought a couple of cans and hid them, afraid Grandson found drinking.
In the past two years, the health of the old couple has been getting worse and worse. The two of them are hospitalized in turns, and they need more time to take care of them, and I have less time to go. As soon as the old man was hospitalized, I was very worried, afraid that something would happen. Later, the old man said that he always felt me by his side when he was in a coma.
Once he was hospitalized, I never answered the phone call at home, and I asked someone to inquire about his whereabouts. As if I had lost my soul, I often wandered around his community, hoping that he would suddenly appear until he was discharged from the hospital .His wife said that the old man knew what I wanted to see when he was hospitalized. After he was discharged from the hospital, there was someone at home and it was inconvenient for me to go there. The old man used crutches and dragged his weak body to the place where I often picked up my children to find me, but he didn't find me. I heard This is so heartbreaking, I hope God will not do this to him.
Last year, his heart attack recurred again. I didn't see him for a few months, and I didn't receive a call from him. I knew it was someone at home. It was inconvenient, but I still pretended to be angry. When I saw him, I asked Why didn't he call me, he said you look at me, I saw him wearing the shirt I bought for him, he said he thought of me when he saw the shirt, meeting is also a formality, and understand my mood.
I don't know what I have to build a deep friendship with such a stubborn old man, maybe this is fate. Recently, whenever I saw his slightly hunched back and weak steps, my tears flowed in my heart. I can only wish in my heart, old man, hold on. You must fulfill the agreement with me and live to be ninety years old.
