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I saw a video taken by a netizen. The content is that the daughter-in-law drove thousands of miles back to her husband's house. The mother-in-law first saw her and said, ‘Boy, why are you back! ’
was originally just a simple vlog to record life, but it attracted many netizens to express their envy. It was because of the simple words of the mother-in-law.
In the eyes of the netizen's mother-in-law, she worked tirelessly for this family. She should be nice to others when she wakes up and takes care of the elderly and children. This is something she should do.
But, how many mothers-in-law can do this? Can you treat your daughter-in-law sincerely? If all mother-in-laws can do it, then there might not be so many mother-in-law problems.
1. I will treat her as a daughter-in-law
For the marriage life of Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha, compared to the sweetness of the husband and wife, it is better to say that people are more envious of Cheng Lisha being able to stand on this one Caring for her mother-in-law.
As long as Cheng Lisha is by her side, Guo's mother will always put her daughter-in-law's needs first. She doesn't like to eat the green onions in the filling, she doesn't put green onions at all. She would never do things she didn't like.
Guo's mother is used to meeting Cheng Lisha's small requirements, even if it is just a word she said casually, Guo's mother will take it to heart. Just like our mother treated us when we were young.
In the eyes of Mrs. Guo,Sometimes, even one's own son is not as good as a daughter-in-law. When encountering problems, she would subconsciously choose to stand on the side of her daughter-in-law.
It is precisely because of Guo's mother-in-law to Cheng Lisa, Cheng Lisa is also sincere to her mother-in-law. If there is any good thing, she will definitely think of her mother-in-law and respect her thoughts.
In fact, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law model of the two of them getting along is the way that many married women admire most: Although you are not my biological mother, I think I have one more mother who loves me and takes care of me.
2. She was once a treasure in the hands of others
For many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, why there is always a certain contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? It is because the mother-in-law did not take their position, they are used to interfering too much in the lives of the couple as they did in the past.
Just like what Zhang Duo’s father said in "Mother and Mother": "Couples should have their own ways of living and getting along with each other. For this, mother-in-law shouldn’t be too involved."
We need to admit that, indeed, your child is very good, he is also a treasure in your hands, you can pet him to get used to him, this is the way of your mother's love. But please don't forget, your daughter-in-law was once the jewel in the palm of others.
Because of love, the girl chooses to marry your son. From the day of marriage, your child will have more than one identity, he is also the guardian of your wife and the family The pillars of the roof.
In their lives, let them decide on their own. Don't think about making your son's life more comfortable through your own intervention. That girl is not a nanny, she is the hostess of another house.
As a mother-in-law, you may not be able to care about your daughter-in-law as if you are out there, but at least please don't let her feel that you are an outsider. Because you are all women too,You have also experienced this process.
3. Does mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really have to be enemies?
Some people say: "Don't think about how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because they are always fighting for the same man, so it is normal to dislike each other."
But, mothers-in-laws All should understand that in the long decades to come, the person who will accompany him will not be you, but the person next to his pillow. You are not good to that woman, how can she be good to the one you love?
Especially some mothers-in-laws and husbands treated her daughter-in-law badly during her pregnancy. That hatred can be accumulated for a long time. Because this is the time when a woman needs to be taken care of and taken care of most in her life.
Marriage is really not the end of life, how to live the rest of life well. In the chai, rice, oil and salt, to experience the ups and downs of life, that is the main theme of life. And the only one who can accompany him is the one with the knot.
Only when her husband’s family truly accepts this woman can this woman treat her husband’s family sincerely. They have to walk through the long second half of their lives hand in hand, and see that they grow old together should be the main purpose of marriage.
4. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not that complicated
The treatment of family relations is actually the same sentence: "A wise mother-in-law has multiple daughters, and a smart daughter-in-law has multiple mothers. To you Well, this matter has always been a mutual matter."
In life, those mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws we see get along well, they all understand one thing: "I am working with the man I love, and so do you. So, we are a family. ”
Be nice to the girl who married into your house,Don't forget, that is your blood relatives, the person you love most.
Above, I wish you a good dream and good night.
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