intro.
A person's life is like a journey.
Along the way, in addition to facing life and work, we will also encounter various emotions.
After reaching the age of love, love is something that everyone is thinking of. With good expectations, everyone hopes to meet the person you like as soon as possible. The two people have a good heart, and they can easily grasp each other's fate.
But in fact, although love is beautiful, it can be met but not sought.
Because fate is not the result of one person's hard work, but the product of two people's strong affection. In the face of a person you don’t like, it’s difficult to spark love with the other person; similarly, if the other person doesn’t love you, even if you try your best, you can’t walk into the other person’s heart.
Therefore, in the journey of life, we are constantly looking forward to and looking for, hoping to find someone who is in love. But going round and round, the passers-by around him came and went, walked and came again, and he didn't even meet the life partner who really belonged to him.
Many fate, the ending is just "Once owned".
Maybe one day,Someone makes you shine.
In the depths of your heart, inadvertently lit the flame of love. But the other party, is it right for you? , but it will take some time to get along before you can find an accurate answer.
In fact, in the world of emotions, there are happiness and regrets.
If you meet someone who is not suitable, even if you love it vigorously, you will have a day of dullness and boredom. Love leads us to approach each other with curiosity and explore each other's world, but one day we stand still.
Love the wrong person, what will be the result? In Zhang Ailing’s words:
I think that love can fill the regrets of life, but I did not expect to bring regrets. It is love.
At the starting point of fate, many people think that two people can walk together for a lifetime.
As everyone knows, in the world of emotions, after experiencing some ups and downs, everyone will realize: In this world, too many emotions make it difficult to last forever. After going all the way and looking back, I found that "Once owned" was already the finale of love.
Fall in love with the wrong person,There is only one best "way out".
Everyone hopes that love life will go smoothly.
From meeting and acquaintance, from holding hands to loving each other, two people can be happy forever in a harmonious atmosphere.
It’s just that in love, there are so many people who backfire.
A relationship is not something you can grasp if you work hard. On the contrary, facing a person who lacks sincerity or does not love you, the more you give, the more hurt you will only be.
You have a long and happy expectation, thinking that you have met an emotional destination; in order to fulfill this love, you will not hesitate to pay any price. But when you find that is always you working hard from beginning to end , do you still have the enthusiasm to love it?
There is only one "way" for falling in love with the wrong person. When a love is not suitable for us, all we need to do is to take less harm, and letting go is the only way out.
First: Not worth it, the more entangled, the less happiness.
Don't miss those who can't keep it, and don't get entangled in love that can't be caught.
Many times,Feelings are beyond our conjecture. We used to think that the lover who can be with us forever will also be washed away by time and the flow of people. will finally make you usher in the ending of "love is always hurt by ruthlessness".
People who cannot accept the facts will think that love has just entered a bottleneck period. As long as they grasp it firmly and love harder, the other person will definitely be able to change their minds.
However, working hard for love in your eyes is the entanglement in the other's eyes.
Entanglement is the most indecent way to end feelings. No matter how much love you have in your words and deeds, he will not be moved. On the contrary, he will feel that you are making troubles unreasonably, or even deliberately harassing.
He doesn't need you anymore, and he doesn't need your love. So, why bother? Your excessive interference will only wipe out the goodness and happiness of the past, and will only make yourself more and more frustrated. Therefore, it is not worth it to be entangled for an impossible relationship.
Second: After breaking up, enrich yourself so that you will not worry about it.
After we broke up, we always live in memories.
Disagreements, different backgrounds, too far apart, etc. There are always many reasons for a breakup between men and women, but what we never mention is that they don’t love, and in fact it is exactly this reason.
We must always have a lot of courage, can calmly accept the fact that the other party does not love . When I was lonely and bored, thinking of the beauty of the past and the decisiveness of the other party, everyone couldn't help feeling sad.
In leisure time, people have the opportunity to enjoy happiness, but their deep thoughts and sadness are also magnified.
At this time, only when I fill my life, my memories can't be stitched together.
When love is far away, we can try to learn a new skill, challenge some tricky tasks, or arrange our own itinerary properly, to travel, to explore... learn to enrich I don’t think too much about others.
Enrich yourself, be able to divert your attention, so that our hearts will no longer stay on a certain person, and our emotions will no longer be trapped in grief.
Third: Become excellent, and meet more high-quality love.
What kind of person you are, you can meet any kind of love.
Many people think that feelings are doomed by fate, but they don’t realize that feelings really depend on them.
every couple,It's not that came together inexplicably. It is precisely because of your qualities that match each other, so two people can become lovers. And it is also because we are not good enough, so we are unable to grasp the present love.
After experiencing unsatisfactory love, we must not only learn to love, but also learn to reflect on ourselves.
We are all working hard for others, but have we forgotten ourselves? In fact, we ourselves are still the most worthwhile investment. We have to work hard for ourselves and fight for ourselves, can make ourselves better and have more choices.
If you stay in place and stop moving, you will never be able to get rid of the regrets of the past; but if you can become better, it will not take long to meet better people and harvest better love.
ends.
There are so many regrets in the world, and more than just love.
Falling in love with the wrong person can be a landslide in the emotional world, or it can be a breeze; it can be a fall in love, and it can also be a time to get out and embrace the beauty. How
follows depends on how we treat it.
There is no emotion, it can be rounded if it is broken. Since the separation is a foregone conclusion, then don't be obsessed with nostalgia. Let go of each other, enrich yourself, let yourself get out of the haze of feelings and embrace the unknown beauty as soon as possible,It is the response we should make.
If you love the wrong person, the best "way" is actually only one, and that is to let it go. A wrong feeling, keeping it in the memory, is our last tenderness and the best way to treat it.
.Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional deep cultivator with attitude. Write the warmth of the world and watch the heart-warming stories. Thank you for your company all the way. I hope the years are quiet, and if you look at the clouds and breeze, you and I can talk about your heart when you meet in a paragraph of text.
