Author: Yiduo
Picture: From the Internet
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"Raising children for the sake of old age", this sentence has influenced generations of people for thousands of years. The original intention of men and women to set up families and have children is mostly to rely on them in their later years. What's more, many parents gave birth to the idea of "preferring sons over daughters", because a married daughter is equivalent to the water poured out, and only a son can be reliable.
However, in old age, are children really reliable? Will it be easy to have children in old age? The reality tells us cruelly: no.
Regarding the issue of elderly care, I have seen too many real cases around me, and I have a great say. The uncle and aunt who came from home to the door. When they were young, the couple was very hardworking and capable. They worked hard to give to their two sons. They raised their sons and raised their grandchildren. Every penny in their hands was spent on the children. .
Many people around still envy them that they have two sons, and they can enjoy the blessings in their old age. But before he had time to enjoy the blessings, the uncle fell ill and the aunt had a stroke. It was the son and grandchildren’s turn to fulfill their filial piety. Who knows, they pushed each other and refused to pay for the surgery fees of the old man and the old lady, leaving the two elders at home. Lying in bed "waiting to die".
When the funeral was held, the son and grandson had smiles on their faces. There was no sadness at all. The granddaughter did not attend. The funeral was done well, but what's the use? The money spent might as well be used to treat the two elders and extend their lives.
I have to say that in old age, it is never children and grandchildren that people can really rely on.It's me, but it's a pity that many people can't see through this reality and live in confusion.
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"Uncle, I am the only male grandson of our Hu family. The cousin is already married. The married daughter has thrown out the water. You will have to pay the 3 million demolition fund. Don’t make money from outsiders, leave it to me, and I will put you in a linen and wear filial piety in the future. I will give you the end of life.”
After listening to his nephew’s words, Lao Hu was silent for two minutes and immediately made a decision to demolish 3 million All the money will be left to the nephew. When the son-in-law heard the old husband's thoughts and actions, he was furious, regardless of etiquette, and immediately drove the father-in-law out of the house.
Lao Hu is 54 years old this year. He has only one daughter. He has a patriarchal mentality in his bones, and he has always wanted a son. But in the early years, after his wife gave birth to a daughter, her body had a problem, which made her unable to reproduce, so Lao Hu had no choice but to give up.
10 years ago, his wife passed away, and Lao Hu also fell ill. During the two months of hospitalization, his daughter and son-in-law were waiting in turn. Later, after being discharged from the hospital, Lao Hu moved to his daughter and The son-in-law lives at home, three meals a day, the daughter and son-in-law have prepared them and brought them to him.
Originally, people his age could help their sons or daughters with children, but Lao Hu himself was lazy, and coupled with his physical problems, he became very reluctant and disliked his family. 'S children are too noisy and go to the park every day to pass the time.
Later, by chance, I met an old lady who was 12 years older than him. Regardless of her daughter and son-in-law's objections, she resolutely lived with the old lady and moved to her home in the country, where she completely broke off contact with her daughter-in-law. .
less than two years,The old lady became seriously ill. Lao Hu took out all his savings and ran to his daughter crying for 100,000 yuan. As a result, the old lady was still unable to rescue him and suffered the departure of two wives one after another. , Lao Hu became taciturn and no longer talkative.
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Previously, although the daughter had quarreled with her father Hu due to remarriage, the father and daughter were connected and the daughter stayed at home with filial piety. . In fact, her daughter’s life at her in-laws’ house is not easy. Before marriage, her daughter and her husband declared that they would never live with their in-laws after marriage.
But the house where the daughter lives is the down payment from the parents-in-law, and now she has repeatedly accepted her parents’ parents to live in. The parents-in-law have already had opinions, and the husband is also a little unbalanced. Over the years, the husband and wife The attitude towards this son-in-law is not very good, and now, living under the same roof, it is inevitable to have disgust.
Therefore, although Lao Hu lives with his daughter and son-in-law, he feels uncomfortable. Fortunately, the contradiction has not been put on the table, and Lao Hu has also learned to watch the dishes, and take the initiative to help bring his grandson and granddaughter, the family is also in peace.
However, no one thought that the house in my hometown would have caught up with the demolition. Several homesteads were all within the scope of the demolition. Together, the compensation was 3 million. In fact, a few years ago, there was a rumor that everyone was talking about it, but they didn't take it seriously. Now that the policy has come down, Lao Hu has also received a compensation agreement.
Not long ago, the demolition funds were put in the bank card. Regarding the ownership of the money, Lao Hu's daughter did not say clearly, the son-in-law did not say anything, and Lao Hu did not mention it. In fact, Lao Hu has only one daughter, and his daughter and son-in-law have been taking care of him all these years. It stands to reason,A hundred years later, this sum of money will definitely be left to the daughter and son-in-law.
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The daughter and son-in-law really think so. Some things, in front of the closest person, may be embarrassed to say it, especially when it comes to money issues, Lao Hu's daughter and son-in-law privately The demolition money was mentioned during a small meeting, and the two people confidently thought that the money would definitely be left to them.
Unexpectedly, a Cheng Yaojin was killed halfway. After learning the news of the demolition, relatives who didn’t move very much in the past suddenly came and went, especially the son of Lao Hu’s brother’s family. Lao Hu's nephew came to greet Lao Hu twice in three days, and kissed his "uncle" one by one.
When the demolition funds came, the nephew said straightforwardly: "Uncle, leave the demolition funds to me!" Old Hu was still hesitating. After hearing his nephew mention the issue of grandchildren and elderly care, Lao Hu immediately decided to give all the money to his nephew. Moreover, he acted swiftly. Accompanied by his nephew, he went to the bank to transfer the money.
When the daughter and son-in-law heard the news, they were very angry, especially the son-in-law, and immediately drove Lao Hu out of the house, and said: "Now let your nephew serve you." Old Hu returned home grimly. But his nephew's attitude towards him changed drastically. He didn't leave him at home and gave him a bag of instant noodles so that he could make do with it.
Lao Hu's tears, unable to hold back any longer, fell.
Personally think that Lao Hu's behavior is really puzzling. How can the three million demolition funds be transferred to his nephew? After all, the daughter is born, and, over the years, the daughter and son-in-law have treated him with filial piety, and his behavior will only chill the daughter and son-in-law's heart.
Even if the old Hu wanted to have a son for his retirement,If you want your nephew to support yourself, you can also allocate the demolition money reasonably, instead of transferring all of it to your nephew. At least you have to keep a part of your savings. People will be valued when they have money in their old age.
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If you are Lao Hu, how will you allocate the 3 million demolition funds? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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